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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey me and my mr are going to a club next weekend I am dead nervous but want to go he looking forward to joining in and having fun I wznt to join in but nervous about doing so as I am quite shy is this normal when its your first time to one of these places?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its perfectly normal to be nervous doing anything for the first time let alone going to a club. We were both in pieces before we went the first time.

Speak with you partner and talk to him about the scenarios, eg you both go and just watch, you both go and only one plays etc and talk about how you would both feel about those scenarios.

You'll be under no pressure to play by the club members and shouldn't be under pressure from you're partner either. It's all supposed to be fun.

Talk about it, relax and try to get excited about you both doing things together, this shouldn't be just about what one of you wants

Have a great time, let us know.

H&Jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very nervous first time at a club. Mr had done it before and knew what to expect. He suggested more of a "viewing" evening for the first time, just so I could get my head around what was happening. By the end of the night, I was quite relaxed and was ready for a little play with others.

Yes, you will be nervous, but watch others and have lots of intimate time with each other and your nerves will drop and your sexual enjoyment will heighten. Don't think you have to run through the door and shag everyone within 50ft.

Your pics look great - you will find lots of people wanting to make your aquaintence..!

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Hey me and my mr are going to a club next weekend I am dead nervous but want to go he looking forward to joining in and having fun I wznt to join in but nervous about doing so as I am quite shy is this normal when its your first time to one of these places?"

Your partner knows what you like and don't like and also knows your limits. For your first visit to the club, let him be your minder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on my own and found everyone to be really welcoming as they know how you're feeling too / they were once newbies .. you make your rules of what you want to do and not and no is no regardless - just treat it as a social and chat to others that's my advice xxxxx

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By *ewexperience83Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I was crazy nervous the first time I went to a club, an really it's nothing to worry about, as soon as we we're given a tour of the place I really relaxed and it helped tremendously when we got chatting to a fantastic couple.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I was nervous the first time, but then thought sod it and joined in. Just remember no means no. Have a great time. X

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Maybe have a drink or 2 to relax a little but don't go overboard like I did at my first club (totally legless had to go home!) I love clubs now and if I bother having a drink at all it will be a max of 3. I've found some clubs to be a little cliquey but others to be very open and friendly. Hope you have fun! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys we feel the same thSts why we are coming diwn to your area to go to our first club (infusions) would rather go where the chance of knowing someone is very low and we love Blackpool so hope we can make a weekend out if it

Ps; hope you guys gave fun when you go x

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