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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi the mrs speaking. This ones for the ladies. I have recently lost a lot of weight 4 stone in fact now my breasts look deflated so not really happy with them. Anyway i bought a corset tried it on fits my figure nicely but my breasts look lifeless and dont fill the cups which has upset me a bit. Has any others had this prob if so what would you recommend as an alternative to feel and look sexy in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanted to wear a corset to show off your waist you could get an underbust one and wear with a bra too.

I think a longline bra and high waisted knickers or suspender belt can be really sexy too if you were wanting to cover up your stomach a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that every time I wear a corset my boobs look deflated anyway. I personally don't think corsets make your boobs look very good(in my case anyway). Tbh every "sexy" lingerie makes my boobs look rubbish and I'm not small busted! If anyone has any advice it would be very much appreciated!

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Hi the mrs speaking. This ones for the ladies. I have recently lost a lot of weight 4 stone in fact now my breasts look deflated so not really happy with them. Anyway i bought a corset tried it on fits my figure nicely but my breasts look lifeless and dont fill the cups which has upset me a bit. Has any others had this prob if so what would you recommend as an alternative to feel and look sexy in?"

This is one of the things which puts me off losing weight!

Unfortunately I can't offer any tips, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicken fillers.....best thing since sliced bread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I lost the weight cos I was not confident dressing sexy for my man so never brought any outfits nd now I have I am feeling the same 1 or 2 bits gets better and the other bits gets worse suppose to be going to connections next weekend and now this has really blown my confidence as I dnt have much too wear.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I am in a similar boat. An underbust corset means you can pick and choose bra and knickers. And take them off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberty bodice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, well done on your weight loss!

How about trying a basque rather than a corset? They normally come with underwires so more support for your boobs. I've got a couple and find them very flattering and more comfortable than corsets. Plus they cover up my tummy which is my least favourite area! Anne Summers have some good ones.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am in a similar boat. An underbust corset means you can pick and choose bra and knickers. And take them off!"

Just checked your pics.....reckon you would look good in just about anything (carefully does not add....especially my bed....as a kick in the nuts can be painful)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost the weight cos I was not confident dressing sexy for my man so never brought any outfits nd now I have I am feeling the same 1 or 2 bits gets better and the other bits gets worse suppose to be going to connections next weekend and now this has really blown my confidence as I dnt have much too wear. "

Can I firstly say you look amazing. I lost a lot of weight a couple of years ago and had the same issue, have actually gained some since and am happier with boobs again lol. A properly boned corset will def give you the confidence you deserve but make sure it's a good one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost the weight cos I was not confident dressing sexy for my man so never brought any outfits nd now I have I am feeling the same 1 or 2 bits gets better and the other bits gets worse suppose to be going to connections next weekend and now this has really blown my confidence as I dnt have much too wear. "

you look absolutely fabulous in your pics... Don't let it put you off going.. If it helps the clubs are not fully lit so always helps with our modesty a little.. honestly once you are in there your confidence will grow as soon as you see every other woman that attends their parties are in the same situation as yourself... I've attended a fair few now both clubs and the parties; my body is no where near as nice as yours and the guys just make you feel as sexy as hell

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We've seen people in clubs twice your size!!! You have nothing to worry about at all your pics look fab!

What about a mini skirt (no underwear of course), sexy well fitted bra with a nice top? Oh and killer heels of course. Corsets and basques can be great but they also take time when taking them on and off lol

If you do take either take something easy to slip on later in the evening because you won't be wanting to put those back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look lovely in your pics xx How about a basque ? Her xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys for all your advise it is very much appreciated and feel alot better and alot less stressed about this maybe a nice bra and thongs stockings and heels with a black skirt will do me xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Thanks guys for all your advise it is very much appreciated and feel alot better and alot less stressed about this maybe a nice bra and thongs stockings and heels with a black skirt will do me xx"

If not we would... Happily lol

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