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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would love for my wife to join me on here and swing. I'd love to watch her with another guy.

How did the couples start? How did you raise the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I out and out told my Mrs about my fantasies of sharing her.

It took about 2yrs of talking about it before she admitted to wanting a go.

Patience, understanding and empathy on both parties mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I out and out told my Mrs about my fantasies of sharing her.

It took about 2yrs of talking about it before she admitted to wanting a go.

Patience, understanding and empathy on both parties mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talked about it soooo much before we did anything about it.

We'd talk about having a guy join us while we were having sex, we started chatting to people on line and after a couple of years we arranged something.

Slow start and it's only recently that we've had regular (ish) 3sums

but we had to be comfortable!

I think initially I (Mrs) was slightly more hesitant and self concious but I think now I'm less nervous than Mr when meeting/attending socials etc!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. Were starting to talk more and more openly about fantasies so hoping it will get to the point where I can suggest it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were roleplaying in the bedroom for years creating scenarios about having other males and females involved which turned us both on. At first we thought it was just a fantasy when we in the bedroom but we sat down had a long chat and decided we would like to try as long as both were honest and comfortable. So other week we decided to jump in the deep end and here we are.

Sex between us has never been better its like we just met again and that was 17 years ago.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We met through swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a similar position, I think my Mrs would have another fella but not a woman.

I'd like to experiment but don't want to taint what we have. Think it will stay fantasy stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave out the part about how you joined this site over a year ago to cheat on her!

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"I'd leave out the part about how you joined this site over a year ago to cheat on her!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mates came up

in conversation how he'd fantasied about me being taken by another bloke whilst he was in the room then joining me afterwards and what we would do afterwards ie have a bath or shower together then go to bed and it be just us without even it being a consideration before the more I thought about it the more it turned me on but I do think it depends on the person I was extremely nervous to begin with but not I enjoy it so much

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'd leave out the part about how you joined this site over a year ago to cheat on her!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex partner introduced me....we had met on another site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were talking about sexual fantasies and both said we'd like to have sex with others but didn't want to cheat.

We mulled it over for ages then decided to look at joining a swingers site.

I was 50 at the time and we decided we'd better get a move on

Although we don't do it anymore, we had four fun filled years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex introduced me. He'd been in the scene before and I was game for anything. It's just not something I could kick as a singleton, though I do think it's more fun as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just told her what we were gonna do innit

Suicide Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was asked by my gf (now my wife) if it would be possible for her to be licked and fucked at same time... told her i am good but not as good as that so we invited another guy to play with us and still after 6 years we still ant done what we set out to do... done other things but not licked n fucked ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just told her what we were gonna do innit

Suicide Gimp "

Hahaha!! Gettin your ass kicked now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were roleplaying in the bedroom for years creating scenarios about having other males and females involved which turned us both on. At first we thought it was just a fantasy when we in the bedroom but we sat down had a long chat and decided we would like to try as long as both were honest and comfortable. So other week we decided to jump in the deep end and here we are.

Sex between us has never been better its like we just met again and that was 17 years ago."

We can understand the roles lay bit, that's what got us so interested in inviting another guy to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we met our conversation was always very erotic and naughty what we wanted to do to one another.

As conversation progressed I asked Bev if it's something she ever wanted to try, she said her ex had suggested it but she never fancied it with him.

We kept discussing scenarios and Bev said she would like to try it, we met guy in hotel had our 1st 3some about 3 years ago and enjoy everyone we met after.

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By *oumlacaMan
over a year ago

waterford

we talked and fantasied about it for a while and it came up more as we made love. Then i asked her one day would she try it, having another man, she said who would we get. She even suggested her hairdresser but he was gay! anyway we met aguy through a contact mag and booked a hotel, had a drink with him , she liked him so off to the bedroom. I had to hold her hand throughout as he lifted her skirts and removed her panties and went down on her and then as he fucked her. She never looked back and still enjoys it.

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