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"I have just been for a recent health check and was 'told off' for being too clean.. Apparently I had washed away some healthy bacteria and made my vagina too Alkaline You can image my surprise being told that i shouldn't cleanse internally or douche as it could cause BV I was totally unaware of this and thought i would share it with all you ladies that also douche just so you was aware that you may cause a chemical imbalance to your body. Sorry if Im telling anyone how to 'suck eggs' but its not intended.. I honestly had no idea of this and i attend health checks regularly " really?? even i knew this and i don't have a pussy altho i have been around alot of them | |||
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"Yes, the vagina has natural bacteria to keep it healthy. Any change to this, can cause issues. So it's good that you have brought it up. It amazes me how some products are marketed to consumers into thinking something that is totally normal into something into abnormal. " had always been in my routine of getting ready for any meet... Cleaned out front and back... I guess only my rear will be getting the internal cleansing treatment from now on | |||
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"Yes, the vagina has natural bacteria to keep it healthy. Any change to this, can cause issues. So it's good that you have brought it up. It amazes me how some products are marketed to consumers into thinking something that is totally normal into something into abnormal. had always been in my routine of getting ready for any meet... Cleaned out front and back... I guess only my rear will be getting the internal cleansing treatment from now on " I used to as well until I was told not to after numerous infections due to the ph balance | |||
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"I have just been for a recent health check and was 'told off' for being too clean.. Apparently I had washed away some healthy bacteria and made my vagina too Alkaline You can image my surprise being told that i shouldn't cleanse internally or douche as it could cause BV I was totally unaware of this and thought i would share it with all you ladies that also douche just so you was aware that you may cause a chemical imbalance to your body. Sorry if Im telling anyone how to 'suck eggs' but its not intended.. I honestly had no idea of this and i attend health checks regularly really?? even i knew this and i don't have a pussy altho i have been around alot of them " nope... Not me.. Aware of thrust so i know not to use perfumed products but not just douching... Might make me thick or just naive but Im a quick learner!! | |||
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"I have just been for a recent health check and was 'told off' for being too clean.. Apparently I had washed away some healthy bacteria and made my vagina too Alkaline You can image my surprise being told that i shouldn't cleanse internally or douche as it could cause BV I was totally unaware of this and thought i would share it with all you ladies that also douche just so you was aware that you may cause a chemical imbalance to your body. Sorry if Im telling anyone how to 'suck eggs' but its not intended.. I honestly had no idea of this and i attend health checks regularly really?? even i knew this and i don't have a pussy altho i have been around alot of them nope... Not me.. Aware of thrust so i know not to use perfumed products but not just douching... Might make me thick or just naive but Im a quick learner!! " you're not thick you learn somthing new every day x | |||
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"I suffered with an itchy bum for a very very long time. Went to the doc several times but it wasn't until I saw a locum doc and she asked if I was using soap on it that I found the solution to my problem. Now I just use pure water and the itch has gone. " My wife only ever uses water only for the same reasons | |||
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" nope... Not me.. Aware of thrust so i know not to use perfumed products but not just douching... Might make me thick or just naive but Im a quick learner!! " Not knowing something doesn't make you thick, we all have things we don't know and we don't know we don't know them until we do know them | |||
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"I really struggle with only using water as I don't feel clean and fresh with just water although I try not to douche often but again am so obsessed with keeping myself clean that I struggle not to. I always use fem fresh wipes after the loo and I use fem fresh wash in the shower. " Fem fresh gave me thrush | |||
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"There are quite a few forum posts on this subject (tho they usually have fish/rotten/smelly in the title - you get the idea) Many women maybe unaware that they have BV. It's not a cleanliness issue. It's an imbalance which many things can trigger- over washing, sex, periods etc. Can be treated with antibiotics (which may give you thrush jeez hard being a woman) or Balance Active pessaries from chemist. At my last check up the nurse advised good old salt baths to keep it at bay. Good luck and hopefully this thread won't decend into the usual immature crap that others have." Been there and done that. Sometimes it seems like a vicious circle. Lots of things can cause BV. Condoms tend to set me off so not ideal! Tried the latex free ones, but they only seem to make them in one size which again, is not ideal. Good post though. | |||
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"Also a change in sexual partners can cause bv xx" Indeed.....a previous partner of mine used to complain of smelling "fishy" the next morn if I had cum inside her...my sperm were causing an imbalance! | |||
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"Well I'm going to ask the dumbest question of all now What does BV stand for and then I can Google what it is! I don't douche btw and use a basic shower gel that I like the smell of " Bad Vagina lol! | |||
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"Well I'm going to ask the dumbest question of all now What does BV stand for and then I can Google what it is! I don't douche btw and use a basic shower gel that I like the smell of Bad Vagina lol!" Lmfao and there is me thinking it was some technical medical term I'd never heard of Shant bother with Google now | |||
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"Well I'm going to ask the dumbest question of all now What does BV stand for and then I can Google what it is! I don't douche btw and use a basic shower gel that I like the smell of Bad Vagina lol! Lmfao and there is me thinking it was some technical medical term I'd never heard of Shant bother with Google now " Actually "bacterial Vaginosis"....what it says on the tin. Inflammation due to imbalance of bacteria in yer chuff! | |||
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"Well I'm going to ask the dumbest question of all now What does BV stand for and then I can Google what it is! I don't douche btw and use a basic shower gel that I like the smell of Bad Vagina lol! Lmfao and there is me thinking it was some technical medical term I'd never heard of Shant bother with Google now Actually "bacterial Vaginosis"....what it says on the tin. Inflammation due to imbalance of bacteria in yer chuff!" Lol there you go no need for Google now but..... May have to spank an arse if I ever get to meet it's owner | |||
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"I have just been for a recent health check and was 'told off' for being too clean.. Apparently I had washed away some healthy bacteria and made my vagina too Alkaline You can image my surprise being told that i shouldn't cleanse internally or douche as it could cause BV I was totally unaware of this and thought i would share it with all you ladies that also douche just so you was aware that you may cause a chemical imbalance to your body. Sorry if Im telling anyone how to 'suck eggs' but its not intended.. I honestly had no idea of this and i attend health checks regularly really?? even i knew this and i don't have a pussy altho i have been around alot of them " Ditto. Johnny. | |||
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"okay.... now i am going to ask a stupid "man question"... so forgive me... I know that the perfumed stuff can cause issued.... would that be the same of the "ph neutral" stuff I see in chemists?" The vagina is a naturally acidic environment. Off the top of my head, I believe it's 5.5...I'm not entirely sure what they actually mean by PH neutral on packaging...actually neutral ie. PH 7 or PH compatible with the vagina... ...there are some very good products based on lactic acid that help for day to day balance before it gets to the BV stages... | |||
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"As a FYI to the original thrush discussion Women should also urinate just after cumming. T" That doesn't actually help with thrush but can flush any bowel bacteria out of the urethra that have been transferred there by sexual activity-hence possibly helping to prevent cystitis... | |||
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" nope... Not me.. Aware of thrust so i know not to use perfumed products but not just douching... Might make me thick or just naive but Im a quick learner!! Not knowing something doesn't make you thick, we all have things we don't know and we don't know we don't know them until we do know them " Good thread OP. | |||
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"I have just been for a recent health check and was 'told off' for being too clean.. Apparently I had washed away some healthy bacteria and made my vagina too Alkaline You can image my surprise being told that i shouldn't cleanse internally or douche as it could cause BV I was totally unaware of this and thought i would share it with all you ladies that also douche just so you was aware that you may cause a chemical imbalance to your body. Sorry if Im telling anyone how to 'suck eggs' but its not intended.. I honestly had no idea of this and i attend health checks regularly " So you are telling us you have a hostile vagina? | |||
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"Yes, the vagina has natural bacteria to keep it healthy. Any change to this, can cause issues. So it's good that you have brought it up. It amazes me how some products are marketed to consumers into thinking something that is totally normal into something into abnormal. had always been in my routine of getting ready for any meet... Cleaned out front and back... I guess only my rear will be getting the internal cleansing treatment from now on " I think washing with water is ok, it's just the soap the ruins the natural Ph and all.... | |||
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"Was vaginal douching ever a "thing"? Not being snotty or anything but I never even would've thought of doing it. - Amy. x" It was, and i think still is, a huge thing in the states where they sell special mixtures with different aromas. It used to be common practice to tell ladies to use one after that time of month, or if they felt they needed you freshen up. They even sell medicated ones for thrush. | |||
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"Was vaginal douching ever a "thing"? Not being snotty or anything but I never even would've thought of doing it. - Amy. x It was, and i think still is, a huge thing in the states where they sell special mixtures with different aromas. It used to be common practice to tell ladies to use one after that time of month, or if they felt they needed you freshen up. They even sell medicated ones for thrush. " Well, you learn something new every day! I was taught from a very young age that the vagina is a self-cleaning mechanism so admittedly, even if I had known, I probably still wouldn't have done it, but I'd never even heard of all this up until now. | |||
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"I've had bouts of thrush - always brought on by antibiotics but never that I'm aware suffered with bv, what are the common symptoms? " You can be asymptomatic (without symptoms). | |||
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"I really struggle with only using water as I don't feel clean and fresh with just water although I try not to douche often but again am so obsessed with keeping myself clean that I struggle not to. I always use fem fresh wipes after the loo and I use fem fresh wash in the shower. Fem fresh gave me thrush " was reading down this and thought femfresh is supposed to be a neutral product - then i read your comment | |||
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"I have just been for a recent health check and was 'told off' for being too clean.. Apparently I had washed away some healthy bacteria and made my vagina too Alkaline You can image my surprise being told that i shouldn't cleanse internally or douche as it could cause BV I was totally unaware of this and thought i would share it with all you ladies that also douche just so you was aware that you may cause a chemical imbalance to your body. Sorry if Im telling anyone how to 'suck eggs' but its not intended.. I honestly had no idea of this and i attend health checks regularly So you are telling us you have a hostile vagina? " let me show you how hostile it can be ... I would fear for your safety | |||
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"Yes, the vagina has natural bacteria to keep it healthy. Any change to this, can cause issues. So it's good that you have brought it up. It amazes me how some products are marketed to consumers into thinking something that is totally normal into something into abnormal. had always been in my routine of getting ready for any meet... Cleaned out front and back... I guess only my rear will be getting the internal cleansing treatment from now on I think washing with water is ok, it's just the soap the ruins the natural Ph and all...." i was told any kind of douching with or without soap products! | |||
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"Looking for a safe and efficient alternative to vaginal douching ? Try 'my willy' guaranteed to restore the ph balance of any attractive vagina the way nature intended....' I tried love's willy and have never looked back' said miss gullible of sexyville. For a free, satisfaction guaranteed trial of 'my willy' please respond by return (please note, a good clean out is required before trial) All joking aside, thought in knew what this meant but googled to be sure I wasn't a muppet, water and vinegar? Surely not a good idea? I was surprised. Thank god my bits are external. Poor girls " vinegar is very slightly acidic so in mild solution can help restore ph balance but not the malt stuff you put on your chips... | |||
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" vinegar is very slightly acidic so in mild solution can help restore ph balance but not the malt stuff you put on your chips..." Why not? | |||
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"Looking for a safe and efficient alternative to vaginal douching ? Try 'my willy' guaranteed to restore the ph balance of any attractive vagina the way nature intended....' I tried love's willy and have never looked back' said miss gullible of sexyville. For a free, satisfaction guaranteed trial of 'my willy' please respond by return (please note, a good clean out is required before trial) All joking aside, thought in knew what this meant but googled to be sure I wasn't a muppet, water and vinegar? Surely not a good idea? I was surprised. Thank god my bits are external. Poor girls vinegar is very slightly acidic so in mild solution can help restore ph balance but not the malt stuff you put on your chips..." Slightly acidic??? Erm.....it is an acid??....I'll have chips with my fish and vinegar thanks!!.....but I think I'll leave my foof to sort itself out thanks. I've never felt the need to douche....it's clean enough. | |||
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"Looking for a safe and efficient alternative to vaginal douching ? Try 'my willy' guaranteed to restore the ph balance of any attractive vagina the way nature intended....' I tried love's willy and have never looked back' said miss gullible of sexyville. For a free, satisfaction guaranteed trial of 'my willy' please respond by return (please note, a good clean out is required before trial) All joking aside, thought in knew what this meant but googled to be sure I wasn't a muppet, water and vinegar? Surely not a good idea? I was surprised. Thank god my bits are external. Poor girls vinegar is very slightly acidic so in mild solution can help restore ph balance but not the malt stuff you put on your chips... Slightly acidic??? Erm.....it is an acid??....I'll have chips with my fish and vinegar thanks!!.....but I think I'll leave my foof to sort itself out thanks. I've never felt the need to douche....it's clean enough." If you read my earlier posts, I'm not advocating douching at all. The vagina is a self cleaning orifice and introducing so called "cleaning" products is madness exacerbated by the school of thought that women's parts are somehow "dirty" or "smelly"...but there are some schools of thought that once unbalanced by the over use of alkaline solutions such as soap and other cleaning products, a mild alkaline solution such as acetic acid can help to restore the balance if used carefully. I use cleaning products based on the lactic acid in milk after finding soap too harsh and it's great... | |||
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""a mild alkaline solution such as acetic acid can help to restore the balance" Lmao! chemistry not your strong point? Stick to water! Please!" typo...it was early...ooops! Perhaps the years of working in and researching womens sexual health doesn't completely qualify me to comment... | |||
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"Balance activ gels are a godsend. They work out at like £1 a tube. Cam buy them from pharmacy or even just local tesco. I find the chlorine in hot tubs/ swimming pools can set me off with it or if my partners cum is particularly strong. Just squeeze a tube into the vagina before bed (use a panty liner for leakage) and do that for 3 or 4 days and it'll sort it right away. I sometimes just use the one for preventing it when I know it might occur e.g after my period, when I've been having lots of unprotected sex with the Mr..." Yep...I swear by these too, practically anything will set me off but these keep it at bay | |||
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"From what you've written so far I'd say no it doesn't. In order to "restore balance" you'd need to first test the ph of the vagina. Not just guess, then carefully prepare a solution to neutralise. Or just use water and time. You can't assume a ph is to high then wash an acid up there in the hope it even things up! Your advice is dangerous." read my previous posts...I am not recommending douching at all...the imbalances are generally already caused by doing that. The vagina is generally a self cleaning orifice and doesn't need anything introducing to it. Someone asked about vinegar and I answered the query... | |||
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" nope... Not me.. Aware of thrust so i know not to use perfumed products but not just douching... Might make me thick or just naive but Im a quick learner!! Not knowing something doesn't make you thick, we all have things we don't know and we don't know we don't know them until we do know them " how much of the not knowing is to do with the brainwashing from the cleansing product industry that using thier product is good for you and you MUST use it or you will be ostrasised by your peers because you have a smelly fanny /cheesy cock ? its in their interest to persuade yu to buy their products and saddly we have all fallen for it | |||
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