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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

Although I have been a member on this site for over a year I do log in every few weeks for a browse etc.

What I would like to know is how best to get noticed on this site. Even in the year I have been on here I haven't had any friend requests or any communications of any sort (I know, sad isn't it...lol), so any tips on how to boost your profile and to get noticed would be greatly received.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paint your willy green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeap go blonde pout a lot and shake your booty on cam,,,,,sorted!

well it works for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi everyone,

Although I have been a member on this site for over a year I do log in every few weeks for a browse etc.

What I would like to know is how best to get noticed on this site. Even in the year I have been on here I haven't had any friend requests or any communications of any sort (I know, sad isn't it...lol), so any tips on how to boost your profile and to get noticed would be greatly received.

Thanks in advance"

Do you contact anyone? What would make you notice a profile? Think about that and apply it to your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL, damn it, I knew there was something obvious I wasn't doing right

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Get out and meet people at socials, go to clubs, get on camera, join in the forum.

Stating that you can only meet lunchtimes and afternoons narrows who you can meet anyway. For others it may make them think you are married and therefore not for them.

Be proactive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read your own profile to yourself then ask, would I meet me?

The number of single guys to single women and couples are high, so it's a competitive market!

Treat your profile as your shop window and make it personal to yourself.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply, honestly I am to bloody shy and wouldn't know what to say...lol.

From the profiles I have looked at many on here are seasoned pro's and I tend to move on for fear of looking a tit .

Confidence man....confidence

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Tell everyone you are super rich and have a 12" cock

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thanks for the reply, honestly I am to bloody shy and wouldn't know what to say...lol.

From the profiles I have looked at many on here are seasoned pro's and I tend to move on for fear of looking a tit .

Confidence man....confidence "

I've now read the text properly and you say that you are married. That will put some off but not others.

Confidence is always the key when trying to meet others. If you haven't got it and what you want is a someone to guide you and find you then you will be waiting for some time.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Tell everyone you are super rich and have a 12" cock"

Don't forget he's got to have a heart condition and looking for someone to leave his vast wealth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell everyone you are super rich and have a 12" cock"

Oh yea,well I wont fall for that one again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paint your willy green"

Luminous green works better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, thanks everyone, I am going to change my profile so that it contains something along the lines of - "Bloody rich ££££'s, ripped athletic body with a 12" (green) cock, own many super cars, have a house in each major city, charm to die for but the cuteness every woman lusts for....."

Getting there lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Ok, thanks everyone, I am going to change my profile so that it contains something along the lines of - "Bloody rich ££££'s, ripped athletic body with a 12" (green) cock, own many super cars, have a house in each major city, charm to die for but the cuteness every woman lusts for....."

Getting there lol "

I really like your avatar picture. That's a plus.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Ok, thanks everyone, I am going to change my profile so that it contains something along the lines of - "Bloody rich ££££'s, ripped athletic body with a 12" (green) cock, own many super cars, have a house in each major city, charm to die for but the cuteness every woman lusts for....."

Getting there lol "
You know it makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see that no one shot this guy down and actually give him some advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aaww, thanks, so there is at least one plus in there then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell everyone you are super rich and have a 12" cock"

Don't tell everyone your secrets!!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If you send me your debit card number expiry date and security code

I ll send you the magic formula..honest

Regards

Prince from Nigeria

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If you send me your debit card number expiry date and security code

I ll send you the magic formula..honest

Regards

Prince from Nigeria

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If you send me your debit card number expiry date and security code

I ll send you the magic formula..honest

Regards

Prince from Nigeria

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post... "

Unfortunately mate there are quite a few people on here that are a bit grumpy/aggressive You will soon see what I'm talking about if you hang around long enough.

On the plus side there's plenty of nice people on here to.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Might I suggest you change the colour from green?... Might slightly go against you. X

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Or you cpuld post the same post multiple times... . #sonyarecrap,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, thanks for the tip, green was from a man's perspective, what colour would a woman prefer?

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"Ok, thanks for the tip, green was from a man's perspective, what colour would a woman prefer? "

Quite like the idea of a purple one... You'd def stand out with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, thanks for the tip, green was from a man's perspective, what colour would a woman prefer? "
it was luminous green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, thanks for the tip, green was from a man's perspective, what colour would a woman prefer? "

Just a big red bow will do fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk into the middle of a crowded room and shout 'BOGIES'

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post...

Unfortunately mate there are quite a few people on here that are a bit grumpy/aggressive You will soon see what I'm talking about if you hang around long enough.

On the plus side there's plenty of nice people on here to."

As you clearly have a pleasant and personable manner, a good sense of humour, capable of taking well-intended advice, and,above all, not a trace of moaning, griping, or sense of entitlement, I doubt very much you'll get any hassle on the forums, so welcome and hope things get better on here for you.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"lol, is that what usually happens then as this was my first forum post...

Unfortunately mate there are quite a few people on here that are a bit grumpy/aggressive You will soon see what I'm talking about if you hang around long enough.

On the plus side there's plenty of nice people on here to.

As you clearly have a pleasant and personable manner, a good sense of humour, capable of taking well-intended advice, and,above all, not a trace of moaning, griping, or sense of entitlement, I doubt very much you'll get any hassle on the forums, so welcome and hope things get better on here for you."

^ . ??

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Crap... Those to ?? Was supposed to be a smiley that obs don't work on here. Doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mikki bounces into the room on her space hopper blowing a whistle and waving a huge flag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers matey

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Crap... Those to ?? Was supposed to be a smiley that obs don't work on here. Doh"

That's ok. I figured those must be something positive and upbeat as I saw the thumbs up

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Tell everyone you are super rich and have a 12" cock

Don't tell everyone your secrets!!"
oops, let that one out the bag didn't i

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Cheers matey

"
Oh and going back to your OP

You just got yourself noticed

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Might I suggest you change the colour from green?... Might slightly go against you. X "

I'm changing ma goatee from green to violet soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers matey

Oh and going back to your OP

You just got yourself noticed "

Indeed, might have to use this again as it is the best way to date to at least have some banter and communicate with peeps

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Cheers matey

Oh and going back to your OP

You just got yourself noticed

Indeed, might have to use this again as it is the best way to date to at least have some banter and communicate with peeps "

See now this is how a thread where the OP is asking for help and advice should be.

All suggestions taken on board..all light-hearted banter, no nastiness, and, praise be!, not one gripe or whiff of a whinge from the OP.

Result: Happiness all round...

Such a refreshing change from the whinefests we so often get on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paint Fabswingers and username to the side of your van in big bold type. Both sides!

Then continue with your usual routine fresh in the knowledge that your requirements are being brought to the attention of the local populous.

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