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By *oughnut and radox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

When I left My husband l took only what I could carry. He said latter on that he destroyed everything of mine. But have seen a pic of him on another Web site with his new g/F using one of my old toys on her, now the question is I wondent like an X g/f toy used on me and l don't like seeing something that personal used on her. What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it is very unusual, how do you know it's the exact same one?

But I do wonder why anyone would look at pictures of an ex playing?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Probably best to move on and not bother.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

For my own peace of mind if I were in your situation I would forget it and never look again.

This I suspect is about far more than a sex toy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless it is very unusual, how do you know it's the exact same one?

But I do wonder why anyone would look at pictures of an ex playing? "

I agree, I dont think I would like to watch an ex playing unless the relationship was short and not serious

And unless the toy had a certain scratch or mark on it then he could have got a new one that is the same as what he had with you

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By *oughnut and radox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

It was my wand and it had black tape where the wire went into as it was cracking up so unless they all do it it was mine

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By *oughnut and radox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

Wasn't checking up on him but who was about in SS postcode

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It was my wand and it had black tape where the wire went into as it was cracking up so unless they all do it it was mine "

Seriously I would leave it. If it was obviously second hand I wouldn't have let it near me personally but you will achieve nothing by wondering about it but anguish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless it is very unusual, how do you know it's the exact same one?

But I do wonder why anyone would look at pictures of an ex playing?

I agree, I dont think I would like to watch an ex playing unless the relationship was short and not serious

And unless the toy had a certain scratch or mark on it then he could have got a new one that is the same as what he had with you"

I would look at pics of mine. No big deal. I would recognise my toys too

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

It IS a little bit "makes your skin crawl"... Must be annoying too if you paid for it but it's probably something that would annoy me for all of 5mins and then I'd shrug ny shoulders and get on with it. - I certainly wouldn't want it back now! Plus if it's obvious it's the 2nd hand and the new lady is happy for it to be used on her, I guess that's her choice.

I know it's not exactly the same thing but as we have a lot of mutual friends, I once caught a glimpse of my ex's new GF wearing one of MY old necklaces (with the caption of "Look what XXXXX bought me for our anniversary!").

I always knew he was a cheap git and it was strange to see something so personal on someone else but I just thought more fool the both of them... Says a lot about him and I almost feel a little sorry for her.

- Amy. x

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