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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe take a break if your feeling like that

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I think it happens to all of us,, good days and bad,, don't be too hard on yourself, you're a beautiful woman I'm sure,,,

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Sometimes I list all of my good qualities,, then look in the mirror and say them to yourself,, very American I know but self affirment really worked for me xxxx good luck beautiful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate "

If I'm on a downer fab usually (not always) makes my mood worse but if I'm in a good mood fab seems to help that too. But do agree my confidence has taken a battering on here at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once walking through Trafalgar square when this gorgeous young woman came up to me and asked me if I wanted a hug. I was totally taken aback... until I spotted her t-shirt had "hug a stranger" written on it. Of course I said yes and I got a lovely big hug. Walking onward I saw several people offering hugs.

That kind of thing should happen more in life. So... here's a virtual hug to you all... I hope it helps bring a little more of a spring to your step

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once walking through Trafalgar square when this gorgeous young woman came up to me and asked me if I wanted a hug. I was totally taken aback... until I spotted her t-shirt had "hug a stranger" written on it. Of course I said yes and I got a lovely big hug. Walking onward I saw several people offering hugs.

That kind of thing should happen more in life. So... here's a virtual hug to you all... I hope it helps bring a little more of a spring to your step

Mr"

This happens all over the place , sanctimonious twats invading your personal space , offering a free hug .

What a load of crap - but I am glad it helped you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate "

Weather ... Hormones... how your day has been ... Lots of factors. Far too many to name i think it's human nature to feel up and down.

Chin up chuck! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all. Some days I like my look and think I look pretty good. Today I looked at my pics and just see the man inside looking a fool in a skirt.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate "

Biorhythms. You'll feel better soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens to us all. Some days I like my look and think I look pretty good. Today I looked at my pics and just see the man inside looking a fool in a skirt. "

You don't look a fool x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happens to us all. Some days I like my look and think I look pretty good. Today I looked at my pics and just see the man inside looking a fool in a skirt. "

Legs and arse that look like that in stockings would do wonders for my confidence right now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have days like that quite a few times I've wondered why i,m here other times its great .take a break if it gets too much and I hope you feel good soon. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mood can really affect your perception. I'm sure we've all looked in the mirror and seen the same person looking back only some days we like what we see and some we don't.

Today my mirror is my pictures and I see a man.

OP; you look amazing. Others don't see what you see. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up Hun we all get them days I've even changed my mirror lol only joking we are taking a break due to illness we don't feel sexy and randy but keep being possitive we are . Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has there bad days when that happens to me I just don't come on here period

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust


"Happens to us all. Some days I like my look and think I look pretty good. Today I looked at my pics and just see the man inside looking a fool in a skirt.

Legs and arse that look like that in stockings would do wonders for my confidence right now!!!"

Me too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate "

I felt low yesterday (fab related) but I was on a pre -arranged day out with my mum. By the time I got home the retail therapy and the company plus not being able to get on here much, helped a lot. So like others have said, have a timeout. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have up and down days I think anyone does. In a lot of respects I'd like to think I was a likeable, respectful and humourous guy but some days I could easily find a cave and shut myself away. On those days I find any sort of internet can be a downer, unless it involves the Muppet version of "Windmills of my Mind" or scenes from "Life of Brian"...

I have been through this a bit on here though in truth, days where I've felt close to deleting my profile, especially recently so can appreciate where the OP is coming from.

But for now its chin up and smiles

Hope things are on the improve for all those that have been feeling a little low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate "

I know exactly what you mean, I suffer from really low self confidence and panic attacks and think about leaving all the time, then someone comea along and makes me feel so good about myself I stay. Wish I could be more confident in vanilla life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that one day you have it and feel all good about yourself, looking forward to meets and no issues and the next day you just don't feel you should even be here looking, wondering why anyone would even bother?

Feeling inadequate "

It is strange how it ebbs and flows. Last week I was on top of the world, feeling fit, sexy, passionate, looking forward to meeting people. Yet now wondering why I'm here, how I arrived at this point and having lost some of my bounce.

I think the previous posts are right, step away from the swingers, go find something else, something fun and do that instead. As for a hug from a random, that would be serendipitous right now.

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