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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me but do people talk but not meet on here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people meet, it seems they're just not meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me but do people talk but not meet on here"

Taken a look at your profile and just waiting for your impending forum bashing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Is it me but do people talk but not meet on here

Taken a look at your profile and just waiting for your impending forum bashing! "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be the one that says but.............it's you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely you mate....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Is it me but do people talk but not meet on here

Taken a look at your profile and just waiting for your impending forum bashing! "

He hasn't asked for profile advice though.

OP, there are some people on here who use the site as wank fodder, and once they've led someone on and had their fun they will be happy to drop that person and move on to the next gullible fool (not insulting the OP by the way - Get taken in by these people too).

All you can do is persevere and maybe attend socials and clubs and you'll soon start meeting the genuine article.

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

People only meet if every one is compatible.

Some might be on here just for a shag and no questions asked, but most of them are the single men that think this is a knocking shop and all married women aren't getting enough at home.

The concept of swinging is all should get on, be able to hold a conversation, have something in common, and then the fun can begin.

If you are after sex with minimal contact then you should try the clubs.

Not saying it will be any easier, but generally more go there for fun so there is less communication so to speak, as its all on the night rather than over several days weeks.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

youve met - more than most that complain about not getting any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meet some but there a lot of talk and not meet or no showsw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you would have sex bareback with someone you've just met???? Go back to school for some sex ed classes, you obviously need them you obviously don't care about your sexual health or others

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I talk about meeting before the meet, I meet and talk during it and then talk to my meet after my meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get test often thanks also cant do bareback much

and talk about meets before so we both help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get test often thanks also cant do bareback much

and talk about meets before so we both help"

You shouldn't be doing bareback with anyone you don't know, but hey it's your sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you would have sex bareback with someone you've just met???? Go back to school for some sex ed classes, you obviously need them you obviously don't care about your sexual health or others"

That's what I was waiting for!!! Here here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you would have sex bareback with someone you've just met???? Go back to school for some sex ed classes, you obviously need them you obviously don't care about your sexual health or others

That's what I was waiting for!!! Here here! "

^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet so it must be you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just for everyone fact i dont bareback if i can help in im not want to get anything like std or ever a kid thank you very much but i also see how many judgemental people they is one here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for everyone fact i dont bareback if i can help in im not want to get anything like std or ever a kid thank you very much but i also see how many judgemental people they is one here"

Yes you can help it!!! By putting a condom on!!! What a shit excuse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with all this bb talk ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's with all this bb talk ?"

thanks there do listen to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say about 90% chat 10% meet lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say about 90% chat 10% meet lol."

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We meet! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for everyone fact i dont bareback if i can help in im not want to get anything like std or ever a kid thank you very much but i also see how many judgemental people they is one here

Yes you can help it!!! By putting a condom on!!! What a shit excuse!!"

Don't worry once it falls off there will be no more bareback and no need for the condoms ever again

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"We meet! Z"

But we wouldn't meet any one who has bareback sex with strangers - ever. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for everyone fact i dont bareback if i can help in im not want to get anything like std or ever a kid thank you very much but i also see how many judgemental people they is one here

Yes you can help it!!! By putting a condom on!!! What a shit excuse!!"

What does that mean you get forced to have sex without a condom!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I couple of people have wanted bareback i tend to do that with a girlfriend just and i been single since last year

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

It is you.......

Just because they aren't meeting you doesn't meant they aren't meeting anyone else....

So rather than blaming everyone else, which is a massive kop-out, it would probably be more constructive to look in the mirror and say "what can I do differently"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just for everyone fact i dont bareback if i can help in im not want to get anything like std or ever a kid thank you very much but i also see how many judgemental people they is one here

Yes you can help it!!! By putting a condom on!!! What a shit excuse!!"

OP you have asked whether anyone meets and the fact you bare back is a valid point to raise. For some a minor issue like whether you have chest hair or use text speak will put people off meeting you. Admitting you bare back, whilst honest, will put off many more. It's your sexual health you are risking. Others are protecting theirs by not meeting people like you.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Is it me but do people talk but not meet on here"

some meet some dont ,

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Plenty of people meet, it seems they're just not meeting you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet , and quite often

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If people have preferences for who they meet, and are thus selective - most of us are - then they will have the majority of communications with people where one or both of them don't match the other's tastes and needs. If we were not selective, then almost every message would result in a shag fest.

Which would you prefer - a quality time with people that you're probably well matched with on both sides, or a lot of random meets where anything could happen?

The forums are talking shops, where we chat about anything and everything that's permitted - so do expect lots of chit chat that's not usually leading to shagging.

Keep your focus on what you want, and find other people who are likely to want to meet someone like you. And dont just rely on an internet service to meet all your needs - fab can supplement a full life, including a swinging one, where we visit clubs and have social gatherings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me but do people talk but not meet on here"

Look at the commenters verifications, people clearly meet here. It's how you get there that has to be learned.

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By *iscreetguy62Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Think you attitude is wrong swinging is a social thing not just a sex thing if the chemistry is right evedything follows

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