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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you were approached by a couple to play but you thought he may be pushing his partner into it a bit, would you give them a chance or run for the hills??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any slight feelings that things arn't right. We are off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills, you wouldn't want any repercussions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I kinda think but maybe I'm being a little unfair

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any slight feelings that things arn't right. We are off "

What they said. Why would you want to play with someone you thought wasnt 100% happy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"That's what I kinda think but maybe I'm being a little unfair "

To who? This is when you need to let your brain do the thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any slight feelings that things arn't right. We are off

What they said. Why would you want to play with someone you thought wasnt 100% happy? "

I'd be playing with him to start with her watching then joining in when she feels ready..... But your right I wouldn't want to play with someone who didn't want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's what I kinda think but maybe I'm being a little unfair

To who? This is when you need to let your brain do the thinking."

Maybe she is just very shy?? But no I think I already made up my mind it was a bad idea, just kinda wanted to know I'm not being a bitch!!

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We met a couple earlier this year and I'm sure she was just doing it for him. We had a slight feeling before we even met them. But we gave them a chance as it was her first time with a woman so we thought maybe it was just nerves. Anyway after that I wouldn't meet anyone again if I thought that they weren't 100% up for it.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Wouldn't see our arses for dust! Deff off in other direction!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"That's what I kinda think but maybe I'm being a little unfair

To who? This is when you need to let your brain do the thinking.

Maybe she is just very shy?? But no I think I already made up my mind it was a bad idea, just kinda wanted to know I'm not being a bitch!!"

She might be shy but thats something only she can tell you. We met a couple socially and she assured us that she wad one hundred per cent keen despite her demeanour telling us otherwise, we went ahead with a meet at which it became clear that she just didn't want to be there and even then she denied it. We just don't want to be involved in that dynamic and I would advise anyone else against it too there are games people play that are fucked up.

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

Same here, we only meet couples where it is clear the lady ( and man) are clearly both interested

As a bi woman, I find it very off putting when it appears that the lady is not comfortable. I can understand nerves ( and that can be quite sexy) but not really wanting to endure and feeling uncomfortable is not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There appears to be so.many couples with over eager males and uninterested females i dont think.majority of them want to be here !! Hence timewasters !

Im a bi fem so.many couples want bi fems yet we get cancelled on everytime.

I love to have fun & play !

Mrs. Kinky

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

It's one of the reasons we always meet socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were approached by a couple to play but you thought he may be pushing his partner into it a bit, would you give them a chance or run for the hills??

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I have been in a similar situation. I did not trust my instincts. I arrived at the couples house and it was clear she was only dong it to please him. I didn't go through with the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There appears to be so.many couples with over eager males and uninterested females i dont think.majority of them want to be here !! Hence timewasters !

Im a bi fem so.many couples want bi fems yet we get cancelled on everytime.

I love to have fun & play !

Mrs. Kinky "

it's not just females who are pushed into things, there was a couple at a party we once attended where the woman was clearly very much the driving force and he was very uncomfortable...unfortunately there was a very unpleasant scene when he wanted to leave and she didn't, let's just say, she guaranteed that nobody would go near either of them...

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

This is why it's so difficult to find compatible couples. Too many variables involved x4. The search continues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Run away'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me....a guy and his "greedy slut g/f"...she was clearly bricking it. Made them a brew and showed them the door. They we're unlos within 3 days!

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