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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men it harder to get verified on here then finding a cop when you need one.

I have played with a bunch of people couples, ladies, and some cucks before I met him and the wifey all say they had a great time but no verification from the one that where verified. I think its just plain rude. Or is it me?

When your done do you ask if they can do that for your or is it bad form.

I feel it is holding me back so many will not talk to you if your not verified it kind of suck.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

It doesn't get much better when your verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men it harder to get verified on here then finding a cop when you need one.

I have played with a bunch of people couples, ladies, and some cucks before I met him and the wifey all say they had a great time but no verification from the one that where verified. I think its just plain rude. Or is it me?

When your done do you ask if they can do that for your or is it bad form.

I feel it is holding me back so many will not talk to you if your not verified it kind of suck."

I was under the impression that bulls were meant to be assertive...yet you can't even ask people for a verification? I must have been mistaken...

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

At the time or shortly after the meet I usually offer to write a verification for the couple which usually, but not always, elicits a verification from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say they will leave you a veri , and then don't , then yes it's rude . You can't leave them one until you are verified so it's totally one sided , and you can't win .

A shame , just can't understand why this is happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my verifications disappeared when they left so i did have 5 veris on mine now i have none grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. Just message them and ask them to veri you. Simples

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"all my verifications disappeared when they left so i did have 5 veris on mine now i have none grrrr"

Yes that is annoying but at least you display your summary, which helps, even if specific details of the meets are no longer visible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all my verifications disappeared when they left so i did have 5 veris on mine now i have none grrrr"

but you still have the tick and summery so that's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men it harder to get verified on here then finding a cop when you need one.

I have played with a bunch of people couples, ladies, and some cucks before I met him and the wifey all say they had a great time but no verification from the one that where verified. I think its just plain rude. Or is it me?

When your done do you ask if they can do that for your or is it bad form.

I feel it is holding me back so many will not talk to you if your not verified it kind of suck."

To be honest I would question just what you are doing or saying on meets if you have had that nany and they have all subsequently refused to verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently met with a woman on here, and when we both went to veri each other we then discovered that neither of us could because we hadnt been veried by someone else that had been veried. fkn pointless system. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've played with a couple of veri couple online and a meet but no veri I guess I'll ask. I just didnt want to come off as a rude prick. It appears that most of the singles I've played with are just photo verified.

As for my bullness I happen to be very polite before and after the date is done. I am only a prop for the wife to use to cuckhold her man. I can be as big of a asshole that she wants me to be or tender if she want me to show him how to make passionate love to her in front of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all my verifications disappeared when they left so i did have 5 veris on mine now i have none grrrr"

Will still give you the "tick" and you can also display a verification summary showing how many fems, couples etc.

I have had almost 100 veris from people who have now left (is it me lol?) I still have over 100 showing tho.......and to those who say "it's hard on here"..... No it ISN'T....not if you put in a bit of effort!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If the users still remember you then if asked they may post a veri. Users are here primarily for themselves rather than making others lives easier or more sexually satisfying, so dont think too badly of them if they dont. Meeting people socialy is a less issue based reason to verify you - no pressure to identify they have shagged you etc. Meet fab people who are great and see how they can help out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently met with a woman on here, and when we both went to veri each other we then discovered that neither of us could because we hadnt been veried by someone else that had been veried. fkn pointless system. lol "

How is it pointless? Being able to verify anyone when not being verified yourself would be pointless! Its easy to get verified at a social, there are so many organised ones these days and they are a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently met with a woman on here, and when we both went to veri each other we then discovered that neither of us could because we hadnt been veried by someone else that had been veried. fkn pointless system. lol

How is it pointless? Being able to verify anyone when not being verified yourself would be pointless! Its easy to get verified at a social, there are so many organised ones these days and they are a good laugh."

I totally understand what you are saying, but unless someone that had already been verified could be bothered verifing me then no-one would know that I had been there.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I recently met with a woman on here, and when we both went to veri each other we then discovered that neither of us could because we hadnt been veried by someone else that had been veried. fkn pointless system. lol

How is it pointless? Being able to verify anyone when not being verified yourself would be pointless! Its easy to get verified at a social, there are so many organised ones these days and they are a good laugh.

I totally understand what you are saying, but unless someone that had already been verified could be bothered verifing me then no-one would know that I had been there."

I imagine that the likelihood of meeting and mixing with somebody at a social event who is verified is pretty high, so it would then be up to you to make an impression there to get yourself verified....maybe bring it up in conversation if things are going well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this whole verficaton s stange one I always leave one for anyone I meet but find they don't leave one I have asked them and the reply oh no I don't do that despite they have put one from me on thers ?? or if people leave the site veriications leave witht hem. I have one on my padge but have seen more than that cnat win either way. good manners cost nothing does it?x

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"this whole verficaton s stange one I always leave one for anyone I meet but find they don't leave one I have asked them and the reply oh no I don't do that despite they have put one from me on thers ?? or if people leave the site veriications leave witht hem. I have one on my padge but have seen more than that cnat win either way. good manners cost nothing does it?x"

I have met couples who just don't verify and that's fine. Others whom I have verified have not verified me but it really doesn't bother me; I think it should be entirely up to each individual whether to verify or not, and not feel any duty to reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me the verification thing.. I would still shag women whose not verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men it harder to get verified on here then finding a cop when you need one.

I have played with a bunch of people couples, ladies, and some cucks before I met him and the wifey all say they had a great time but no verification from the one that where verified. I think its just plain rude. Or is it me?

When your done do you ask if they can do that for your or is it bad form.

I feel it is holding me back so many will not talk to you if your not verified it kind of suck."

Why didn't you just ask for one?

Heck your a bull with a cuck couple you could have even worked it into the meet such as making the guy write a verification for you while your ducking his wife, her telling him to write how good your funking her while he's knelt on the floor leaving you a review

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

I ask if they want one...I don't display so don't require one from them

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By *ave667Man
over a year ago

manchester

Go to clubs and socials you will meet people they will know you are genuine and things will happen. Not that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont leave a veri if i didnt have fun.

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