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"Any advice for a first timer?" It's really not bad. I get one every couple of months. Deep breathes! ![]() | |||
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"I would be too embarrassed " I thought that too but it was absolutely fine. I highly recommend it. It is so much easier than self-depilation. | |||
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"I would be too embarrassed My friend is a waxer and she says that she's seen so many lady parts that she barely notices anymore. Don't be embarrased ladies! I bet you'll love the feeling once it's done. " I've been having mine done for nearly 2 years now - the results are great. I admit first time was a bit painful but now don't even flinch Trick is not to leave it longer than 5-6 weeks ![]() | |||
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"I would be too embarrassed My friend is a waxer and she says that she's seen so many lady parts that she barely notices anymore. Don't be embarrased ladies! I bet you'll love the feeling once it's done. I've been having mine done for nearly 2 years now - the results are great. I admit first time was a bit painful but now don't even flinch Trick is not to leave it longer than 5-6 weeks ![]() Second to last time i was in i took a call in the middle of it. Lol! It's like anything else that's new. It may seem a bit uncomfortale to start with but you soon get used to it. About 3 years ago i had to change beauticians and the new one asked me to get on all fours to do the "trickier area". It totally threw me off coz my last waxer had just had me lift a leg up while lying down. It felt pretty funny being on all fours and i jokingly said "I don't normally do this on a first date." She wasn't amused. | |||
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"Any advice for a first timer?" Is this him or her? ![]() | |||
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"I would be too embarrassed My friend is a waxer and she says that she's seen so many lady parts that she barely notices anymore. Don't be embarrased ladies! I bet you'll love the feeling once it's done. I've been having mine done for nearly 2 years now - the results are great. I admit first time was a bit painful but now don't even flinch Trick is not to leave it longer than 5-6 weeks ![]() Omg that's made me laugh!! But yes I usually have to go on all fours too so I know exactly what you mean ![]() | |||
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"Any advice for a first timer?" For your first time, trim to about a half inch(not too short though) so there aren't long hairs to get claggy with wax as this makes them harder to pull off. Beauticians all have different ways especially for what they coyly call 'round the back': all fours, you holding your legs in the air etc. You've just got to laugh with it! ![]() | |||
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"It's really worth it I've been getting it done for 15 years. The hair grows back weaker and thinner - take a couple of paraceutamol half an hour before it takes the edge off it." yeah that works for me...cple of pai.killers does tge trick. it nay be embarrassing at first but you soon get over it. imagine how i feel when im being waxed...the waxer is my ex sister in law and asks me if im dating yet as hes gonna love my smoothness lol | |||
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"Still think I would be embarrassed although I really want it done " Me too ![]() | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha" I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! | |||
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"Any advice for a first timer? For your first time, trim to about a half inch(not too short though) so there aren't long hairs to get claggy with wax as this makes them harder to pull off. Beauticians all have different ways especially for what they coyly call 'round the back': all fours, you holding your legs in the air etc. You've just got to laugh with it! ![]() half an inch!!! Its never been that long lol crikey!!! | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed !" sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() | |||
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"I would be too embarrassed " Why embarrassed? Have you got something weird down there? All women are insecure about their genitalia, its eons of men making us feel peculiar because our bits are different to theirs. Most men wouldn't care a fig about anyone looking at their bits. Your lady parts are individual to you in the same way as your face is, they don't smell nasty, they don't look like road kill (despite many threads on here) they are beautiful and no one ever would make you feel bad when they attend to them, be they gynaecologist, midwife or waxer. Go to it, get the fanny you want ![]() | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() I am a club goer .... | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() oh well surely other people will see your fanny then... | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() Why would they | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() because your in an environment with other people, having sex... Sex tends to mean you need no knockers on ![]() | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() ![]() For you perhaps , some choose to be private | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() ![]() You keep your "knockers" on when you have sex in a club? Why is that? Is it your kink? | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() ![]() If I have sex in a club , it's in private | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() ![]() I'm sorry, I may be really being dense but if you want private sex why do you go to a club? Surely swingers clubs are all about mucking in, swapping, swinging? When I want private sex I stay at home, close the curtains, I certainly don't go to a swingers club, seems a bit expensive to achieve something That can be free at home? Each to his own though, whatever floats your boat as they say ![]() | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() ![]() why don't you just do it at home with the light off and save the £20? | |||
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" If I have sex in a club , it's in private why don't you just do it at home with the light off and save the £20?" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Going to a club is not all about sex , neither is swinging So anyway back to my reply , I would love a Hollywood wax but would feel embarrassed . " Look, and I reiterate: Why embarrassed? Have you got something weird down there? All women are insecure about their genitalia, its eons of men making us feel peculiar because our bits are different to theirs. Most men wouldn't care a fig about anyone looking at their bits. Your lady parts are individual to you in the same way as your face is, they don't smell nasty, they don't look like road kill (despite many threads on here) they are beautiful and no one ever would make you feel bad when they attend to them, be they gynaecologist, midwife or waxer. Go to it, get the fanny you want | |||
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" If I have sex in a club , it's in private why don't you just do it at home with the light off and save the £20? ![]() ![]() ![]() Because some people like a fun night out, with the added bonus of maybe a shag or two. I have lost count of the amount of men I've had sex with in clubs who insist on a private room with the viewing window covered when I want to bare all. ![]() | |||
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"Why embarrassing? Surely we are all used to getting our kit off in front of an audience, swinging and all?? Also, 12 people watched me give birth, cant be that bad!! Hahha I don't get my kit off in front of an audience !! Giving birth is a different matter Embarrassing as completely exposed ! sorry, maybe im speaking from a club goer point of view ![]() ![]() ![]() For me going to a club isn't just about sex, it's about meeting new people, having a drink and a laugh and being sociable with people with similar interests. Sometimes I'll play at the club In a private room and others in public, depends on what mood I'm in. | |||
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" why don't you just do it at home with the light off and save the £20?" Because we don't have a room.with the same equipment in it | |||
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" For me going to a club isn't just about sex, it's about meeting new people, having a drink and a laugh and being sociable with people with similar interests. Sometimes I'll play at the club In a private room and others in public, depends on what mood I'm in. " Absolutely this ^^^ | |||
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"Any advice for a first timer?" Embarrassing for me first time. It's fine now and I love the feeling afterwards. Not sure if all men like them? | |||
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"Any advice for a first timer? Embarrassing for me first time. It's fine now and I love the feeling afterwards. Not sure if all men like them? " Still not 100% sure what it is but if it's completely bald then I love it X | |||
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"Not only is it aesthetically pleasing, it is also environmentally friendly. After I made a request, the staff in my local salon, 'Growler Groomers', have been collecting the hair coated strips, particularly the bushiest ones from the first timers. I have recycled them as draught excluders and have sealed around every door and window in my house. Not only that, thanks to a busy summer of ladies preparing for bikini wear, I am now on the bidding list to de-draught all the social housing in the borough. I might be in with a chance too if they don't mind multi coloured draught seals round the doors and windows. Well done the girls! " What a fantastic recycler! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's really worth it I've been getting it done for 15 years. The hair grows back weaker and thinner - take a couple of paraceutamol half an hour before it takes the edge off it." This... and don't go on pmt week! ![]() | |||
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"Any advice for a first timer? Embarrassing for me first time. It's fine now and I love the feeling afterwards. Not sure if all men like them? Still not 100% sure what it is but if it's completely bald then I love it X" It's bald | |||
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"Got my own wax pot, & do it every 10days or so been doing it for a very long time now. Personally there is no other way." Wow (bows down) I loved being waxed but certainly couldn't do it to myself!! Well done It's a great result though isn't it? Feels sexy and smooth afterwards | |||
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"Was wondering how many of the waxers actually get turned on being so close to you lovely ladies bits all day." I expect zero,its just a job,if I got turned on by every body part I saw on a daily basis at work I would be permanently aroused which im not ![]() | |||
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"Banshee dosn't matter what you do you'll always have the sweetest tasting pussy on fab x ![]() thanks xx ![]() | |||
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"Do you have your hands around women's genitalia and bottoms all day ![]() That's a little freaky!! ![]() | |||
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"I'm a little confused as to how people would be embarrassed to get a hollywood wax when we are all on a swinging site? ![]() For me it's different. I wasn't overly keen on all and sundry having a look when I was in labour either. Same as I wouldn't sunbathe nude etc. | |||
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"I thought I'd be too embarrassed too but so worth it when you see the results. I've since had laser hair removal which were even longer sessions lying with everything on show lol !!" Any info on laser removal please?? | |||
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