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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a meet next week with a guy I have known since I was 6!! We went through school together and I even had a crush when we were teenagers. When he messaged me on here and we each realized who thethe other was, we decided we would meet up for some fun.

For some reason though I am SO nervous about it I am not sure I can go through with it! He is still hot as hell and I still fancy him. Is it just too weird to fuck someone you have known for that long?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Go for it, or you will always regret it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Go for it if your happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it, or you will always regret it!"

That's kind if what I think. I should have my fun and take advantage of the opportunity to have something I wanted so long ago. But the nerves are just horrendous!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Meet him. When you're on your deathbed never regret what you didn't do, only regret things you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has disaster written all over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on with it!

Crumbs you have been waiting years

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

go 4 it ,enjoy his company remenis the old days n c were it leads 2 ,,,,gud luk ,,u never no cud make u feel like teens alover again ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy yourself!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better to regret doing something than regret not doing it.....most of the time

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope. Not weird. I've been shagging the boy next door on and off for the last 20 years. He's one of my best mates. Have a blast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. The additional nerves are a throwback to your feelings as a teenager. I hope it's fantastic fun for you both

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes you should definitely do it at least twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it

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By *imherukCouple
over a year ago

fun town

he is probably as nervous as you.. go have a great time with him maybe you will both be made for each other

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.

Oh come on, its a gift horse. Go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you should definitely do it at least twice. "

only twice?

aaah, playing it cautious

go for it OP, you'll kick yourself if you bottle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet up for a social with no pressure to play. You'll probably both feel nervous and maybe a bit silly but chances are, because of your history, you'll hit it off really well, have a few laughs.. and you might even end up inviting him back to yours for 'coffee'

This is how wonderful love affairs start... so you go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact him and tell him exactly what you said in your post....

You have to meet him....it's fate (or summat)

Then report back

Good luck and wear white at the wedding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, as many have said better to regret what you've done rather than what you haven't.

Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it, as many have said better to regret what you've done rather than what you haven't.

Good luck and have fun "

I believe the truism usually goes...

In life you rarely regret what you've done.... you mostly regret what you didn't do

Even more reason to go for it

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By *highbootMan
over a year ago

margate

In 1950 I fell in love with a 15 year old , we courted for a while then when she started work in 1951 we drifted apart,(she lived near herne bay) seen her twice over the years (briefly...passing ships in the night, no words only glances of recognition exchanged)

I would give almost anything to meet that young lady again....so many regrets !!!

Just go for it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the encouragement guys. I will let you how it goes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is an opportunity,

it might even possibly be even more fun then you might of imagined, in earlier years

give it a go if you dont you will be thinking about for years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar situation. I think you get nervous because ypu have two lifes when you do this, mixing them makes you nervous

But, it was one of my best meets. Were regulars because we clicked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a similar situation. I think you get nervous because ypu have two lifes when you do this, mixing them makes you nervous

But, it was one of my best meets. Were regulars because we clicked "

I think that's it. It crosses over from fab life to normal life. If it goes well, it has its problems and if it goes badly, that also has its issues x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

as someone has said, just use the meet as a social/wander down memory lane type of thing, then both decide if you want to take it further.

treating it as a social/catchup will relieve any play pressure

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meet but be under no pressure to do anything other than catch up. If it feels right then explore more. Also be sure about your interest in him - would you prefer something other than a one off? It does not matter how long you have known someone, you remain in control at all times over what youre doing, so dont follow others pressure. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it, or you will always regret it!

That's kind if what I think. I should have my fun and take advantage of the opportunity to have something I wanted so long ago. But the nerves are just horrendous!! "

its something you wanted for years and now its possible I think you are nervous with anticipation and excitement not fear, go for it or you may regret it later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you thinking so hard about? You are more likely going to enjoy the hell out of this encounter than regret it. I can get you there are people who have fantasies about what you are willing to turn down. It is hot, naughty and fiendishly erotic.. Go grab his balls and own him for one night !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Go grab his balls and own him for one night ! "

that needs to be on a T-shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're currently friends beyond fab then I might approach it with a bit more caution because I wouldn't want to lose the friendship, but a social meet up with the possibility of play could be a good option as it takes the pressure off and allows you both the opportunity to say no if it's just too weird...or have lots of fun if you're both still up for it after a coffee! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known my now husband since I was 7, that's 38 years. We have been together 21 years and married 18 next week....so no, I don't think it's wierd....some of us just don't want to rush things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a similar situation. I think you get nervous because ypu have two lifes when you do this, mixing them makes you nervous

But, it was one of my best meets. Were regulars because we clicked

I think that's it. It crosses over from fab life to normal life. If it goes well, it has its problems and if it goes badly, that also has its issues x "

Remember we are all here for same reason but I agree, have a social meet. If ypu can trust him that he wont go arpund talking about ypur private life like a fool, then ypur good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!"

Hurrah!!! Glad you had a good time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!

Hurrah!!! Glad you had a good time! "

that's fantastic, looks like this could be the start of something good

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!"

well done, at least you havn't got to worry about regretting what could have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a happy ending

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I have a similar youthful crush on someone who the last time I saw her was looking fantastic, great figure lovely smile and a cleavage to jump into.

Any body know Jacqui C. Now let me know she was a moneybroker in the eighties/nineties be about 45 ish now maybe a little older....She appears in my fantasies at least once a week.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad it went well for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well last night was the night! And holy fuck what a night it was!! Still can't believe I had sex with him. A total fantasy come true. No need for me to be nervous at all. He confessed to being nervous too. Once the clothes came off the nerves disappeared and the desire took over. It best not be another 25 years is all I can say!"

well done you

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

How wonderful for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delighted for you x

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