FabSwingers.com forum: Sorry not interested ??

By *hmed7894 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

What do my fellow fabbers think if for example we had an option when deleting a message to click a button and an automatic messege was sent back saying SORRY NOT INTERESTED or something along the lines of that ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its still a button to press lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do my fellow fabbers think if for example we had an option when deleting a message to click a button and an automatic messege was sent back saying SORRY NOT INTERESTED or something along the lines of that ???"

So you want a message sent, to state the obvious?

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By *hmed7894 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"its still a button to press lol"

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol

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By *hmed7894 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

So you want a message sent, to state the obvious?

Just a nicer way to say it that's all I think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

How'd that look? Give you that nice and warm fuzzy feeling of having really connected with another human being? Lol

I thought not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SORRY NOT INTERESTED

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

How'd that look? Give you that nice and warm fuzzy feeling of having really connected with another human being? Lol

I thought not

I know you arent interested...but do u do anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SORRY NOT INTERESTED

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

How'd that look? Give you that nice and warm fuzzy feeling of having really connected with another human being? Lol

I thought not

I know you arent interested...but do u do anal?"

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

[this message has been sent to you by the automated response system give-me-a-fuk-2000 v2.978.1]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SORRY NOT INTERESTED

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

How'd that look? Give you that nice and warm fuzzy feeling of having really connected with another human being? Lol

I thought not

I know you arent interested...but do u do anal?

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

[this message has been sent to you by the automated response system give-me-a-fuk-2000 v2.978.1]"

I think fabs crashed...theres no way she'd say no...OR probably a fake or some guy pretending to be a couple...anyway..I'll try one of my different profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its still a button to press lol

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol"

Those people would then bemoan that people use the button and should send a personalised message

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"its still a button to press lol

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol

Those people would then bemoan that people use the button and should send a personalised message"

And shouldn't say no because, let's face it, they aren't exactly a stunner and all the women here are so rude and far too up their own arses and we're all here for the same thing...etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah just delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

So you want a message sent, to state the obvious?

Just a nicer way to say it that's all I think ?"

So you want to log onto fab, get all excited coz you see that you have 27 unread messages, only to go to your inbox and find that they all say 'sorry not interested'!

And you think thats a 'nicer' way??

Totally pointless in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how is an inbox full of "Sorry not interested" replies any better for the self esteem, sometines ignorance is bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a deleted message without reply says the exact same thing??

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

Cos feck off usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would just replace the 'boo hoo nobody replies to my messages' threads with 'People are so impersonal sending automated replies' threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Totally pointless.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"SORRY NOT INTERESTED

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

How'd that look? Give you that nice and warm fuzzy feeling of having really connected with another human being? Lol

I thought not

I know you arent interested...but do u do anal?

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

[this message has been sent to you by the automated response system give-me-a-fuk-2000 v2.978.1]"

We haven't replied not that we are not interested.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

So you want a message sent, to state the obvious?

Just a nicer way to say it that's all I think ?

So you want to log onto fab, get all excited coz you see that you have 27 unread messages, only to go to your inbox and find that they all say 'sorry not interested'!

And you think thats a 'nicer' way??

Totally pointless in my opinion

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By *hmed7894 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

Lol now thats the message i'd love to send out, i'd use it alot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

This is an excellent suggestion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol Admiiiiiin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry, I would but I'm washing my keyboard that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its still a button to press lol"

So had the delete button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin tried it. People complained the automated response was impersonal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find just typing sorry you not what I'm looking for does the trick. Well most of the time but then the block. If the person don't take the hint. Try it it works .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would only work if there was another automated reply of

"WHY NOT, I'M A REALLY NICE PERSON?"....

to bounce back....

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By *hmed7894 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It would only work if there was another automated reply of

"WHY NOT, I'M A REALLY NICE PERSON?"....

to bounce back....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please hold the line your Message is really important to usm An automated response will be generated as soon as one of our advisors is free

Knobcheese Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SORRY NOT INTERESTED

SORRY NOT INTERESTED

How'd that look? Give you that nice and warm fuzzy feeling of having really connected with another human being? Lol

I thought not

This is funny but if I sent messages I'd rather receive a delete, no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its still a button to press lol"

Some people are too lazy (or they will say "too busy" ) to do even that! It could be an option next to the plain delete message button.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"its still a button to press lol

Some people are too lazy (or they will say "too busy" ) to do even that! It could be an option next to the plain delete message button."

If you could bulk-reply the same as you could bulk-delete, we would use it but people will still find a reason to moan either way.

"Why are people too ignorant/rude to send a personal reply?! Blah blah blah".

We don't have time to waste sending "No thank you" to every single message and we still don't see how an inbox full of rejections would do the ego any better than a no reply (which the FAQ's clearly state should be taken as a "No thank you").

People spend way too much energy focusing on their outbox.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"its still a button to press lol

Some people are too lazy (or they will say "too busy" ) to do even that! It could be an option next to the plain delete message button."

so in your logic of it been lazy not replying to every message, tell me why should I log on, spend 20/30 mins reading and replying to messages from people who, havent read profile/ dont match what we are looking for/ we dont fancy or just plain and simply dont want to meet, because they think they should always get a reply no matter what, or should I in fact pick out the ones I want to reply to and delete the rest, freeing up my time to do what I want with the site, like searching for people myself, or using the forums.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Or people could just accept no response IS no interest .....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"its still a button to press lol

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol

Those people would then bemoan that people use the button and should send a personalised message"

Yep: number one complaint on a site I'm on that sends automated responses for a number of things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

Well said lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking it personally that we don't get enough messages to ignore now.

Must be fabs fault!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

Well said lol x"

I have a keyboard shortcut saying pretty much that...I do use it a lot.

I'd like a delete and block button in addition to just the normal delete button.....that would be more use then an automated "sorry not interested" button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood why some can't accept a no reply and delete of their message is a no thanks, not interested. They often message again and I believe they get a warning come up that they've messaged before and the person didn't reply. Crystal clear to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a "random excuse" button where some gentle '"let down" was picked for me....i.e.

She's washing her hair.

She looks NOTHING like her pictures.

Lucky escape mate, she's nuts!

She's on a mega dose of antibiotics.

There's a strong smell of fish....

52? Aye...right!

You get my drift...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"its still a button to press lol"

Your fingers are ALWAYS too busy elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its still a button to press lol

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol"

Think this is a great idea for those of us who like to respond even to just say 'no thanks' rather than ignorantly just deleting and blocking x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I would like a "random excuse" button where some gentle '"let down" was picked for me....i.e.

She's washing her hair.

She looks NOTHING like her pictures.

Lucky escape mate, she's nuts!

She's on a mega dose of antibiotics.

There's a strong smell of fish....

52? Aye...right!

You get my drift...

Made me

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"its still a button to press lol

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol

Think this is a great idea for those of us who like to respond even to just say 'no thanks' rather than ignorantly just deleting and blocking x "

Create a standard 'no thank you' response in Notes. Copy paste...Bob's your uncle

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

You also have to try and keep track of who has fucked you off.

I have enough trouble with that, let alone having to keep tally of my unread mail compared to the swathe of 'Nob off baldy' auto replies I would receive.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"You also have to try and keep track of who has fucked you off.

I have enough trouble with that, let alone having to keep tally of my unread mail compared to the swathe of 'Nob off baldy' auto replies I would receive.

Are you bold? Or bold?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Are you French or French ?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Are you French or French ?"

I am both!!! Fancy a duel?? Bold vs French!!!

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

So you want a message sent, to state the obvious?

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no reply is not an obvious answer. I've meet a few that deleted my first message.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am bold enough to accept that challenge. Baldness is a sign of high testosterone levels and this can be linked to risk taking behaviour. Grrr

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

So you want a message sent, to state the obvious?

no reply is not an obvious answer. I've meet a few that deleted my first message. "

I can't see what would be the point of a not interested button, just grow a pair and live with it. I've seen people before suggest that if you get no reply you should just block the person so you don't waste your time mailing them again. In the past I've had no reply but some months or even a year or so later contacted the person despite the warning that comes up. I've sometimes ended meeting up with them after the second mail, often more than once. People think different things at different times.

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By *hmed7894 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"its still a button to press lol

Just a thought really for all the people moaning abt no reply and straight delete lol

Think this is a great idea for those of us who like to respond even to just say 'no thanks' rather than ignorantly just deleting and blocking x "

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"If we're going to have an automatic reply can I have one that says:-

Thank you for your message but had you bothered to read my profile it's pretty clear that you're not what I'm looking for, so you could have saved yourself the bother in the first place!

Thanks

Perfect!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I've never understood why some can't accept a no reply and delete of their message is a no thanks, not interested. They often message again and I believe they get a warning come up that they've messaged before and the person didn't reply. Crystal clear to me."

I'm sorry to say but this is one of the most perpetuated fab myths

Not receiving a reply is absolutely not a reliable indicator that the intended recipient has objectively dismissed and rejected the sender

Many messages that are sent to ladies remain unregarded and deleted . My personal experience is about 30 percent

I suggest a thanks no thanks delete button it's clear and simple. Not for manners as I don't think that's relevant but it would help confirm one is undesirable as apposed to overlooked.

For those so fearful, you would receive a torrent of abuse, just block and forget then we know we're rejected

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