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"not too young for me.... your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging" Sorry, tht was done by mistake. Will only be looking for men at certain times | |||
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"not too young for me.... your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging" Maybe they look for their own men | |||
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"not too young for me.... your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging Sorry, tht was done by mistake. Will only be looking for men at certain times " no worries. you know where I am now, lol. | |||
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"not too young for me.... your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging Maybe they look for their own men " Quite right miss coco | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " Not to young for me either, not that I'm much older. In the past I was too young for some people but once they saw my maturity age really was just a number. Your profile reads well, one thing I would change is remove the 'young' words when describing yourselves, or even full stop. Have fun. | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! Not to young for me either, not that I'm much older. In the past I was too young for some people but once they saw my maturity age really was just a number. Your profile reads well, one thing I would change is remove the 'young' words when describing yourselves, or even full stop. Have fun." Little bit tricky seeing as our name is 'youngcouple95' | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! Not to young for me either, not that I'm much older. In the past I was too young for some people but once they saw my maturity age really was just a number. Your profile reads well, one thing I would change is remove the 'young' words when describing yourselves, or even full stop. Have fun. Little bit tricky seeing as our name is 'youngcouple95'" Lol from the profile text not your name | |||
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"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!) But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer! Stick at it this site takes time & patience! If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal ! Enjoy x" We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x | |||
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"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!) But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer! Stick at it this site takes time & patience! If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal ! Enjoy x We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x" Most of my timewasters have been middle aged men. You have to socialise with other couples so people get to know you and decide if you are mature enough for them | |||
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"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us. You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it." we all have to start somewhere | |||
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"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us. You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it." Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah! | |||
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"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us. You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it. Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah! " Yes, not saying that you are, but webcam veris mean nothing as they are easily gained and can be faked, and pictures for picture veris are similarly easily faked. Both are often viewed with suspicion, especially on new profiles. So if you want to improve your chances of meeting, going along to your local club and meeting some people in person who will verify you will probably make things easier for you. | |||
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"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us. You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it. Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah! Yes, not saying that you are, but webcam veris mean nothing as they are easily gained and can be faked, and pictures for picture veris are similarly easily faked. Both are often viewed with suspicion, especially on new profiles. So if you want to improve your chances of meeting, going along to your local club and meeting some people in person who will verify you will probably make things easier for you." Can't see how picture veri's can be fake as we have to show our faces and have our name written down? May just be us being ignorant but... | |||
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"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!) But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer! Stick at it this site takes time & patience! If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal ! Enjoy x We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x" Most clubs are 21 and require ID perhaps ring before you go to avoid disappointment x | |||
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"... Then again Mr S said he would so maybe the men have a different view? " I think you've hit the nail on the head there. | |||
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"... Then again Mr S said he would so maybe the men have a different view? I think you've hit the nail on the head there." In my experience its a lot of men's fantasy to be with a barely legal girl. I have a daughter who's 18 so I don't find it acceptable. However, I don't know how I'd feel when for example my daughter is 30 will I still feel the same or see them as an adult and so fair game haha | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " I suppose you could reverse the question and ask are people over 50 too old for swinging...clearly not but you don't want to meet them in exactly the same way as other people don't want to meet you I don't have children so have no issues that you could be the same age as any but you're not for us purely because of your age and the fact that I would be unable to feel any sort of common ground or connection with either of you. Age really isn't just a number, it gives indications of all sorts of things that are important for us when choosing who we meet and have sex with...common cultural references, experience, lifestyle...All important factors that for us would rule you out Hope you find what you're looking for though | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " Too young for us also. It always seems more difficult getting meets when you are at either end of the 'age spectrum'! Maybe get along to a social to meet people initially. We wish you lots of luck and fun! | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " Not at all, age is just a no. In my eyes ! | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! Not at all, age is just a no. In my eyes ! " I'd just like to add within reason and legal obviously lol | |||
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"I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result?" Spot on | |||
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"I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result?" Very good point | |||
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"I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result? Very good point " My philosophical musings on the nature of relationships stimulating parental instincts - or my penis? | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " give it time... you've only been on a week (as frustrating as that week is) | |||
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"Way too young for us I'm afraid - my eldest grandchild is not far off your age - but I'm sure plenty of people will jump at the chance of playing with a couple as young as you. " same here | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " Kage at partners tends to have a lot of very young people. Could be worth a trip last Sunday of the month. Meet some people and with it being kage night you can remain clothes if you wish (formal or fetish clothing though not street clothes) | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " Yes you are a bit too young. The average age of swingers is 30s-50s. Some like us have got children older than you. In fact some of us have got clothes older than you lol. We've had em in their 20s but teenagers is a bit spooky | |||
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"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us. You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it. Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah! Yes, not saying that you are, but webcam veris mean nothing as they are easily gained and can be faked, and pictures for picture veris are similarly easily faked. Both are often viewed with suspicion, especially on new profiles. So if you want to improve your chances of meeting, going along to your local club and meeting some people in person who will verify you will probably make things easier for you. Can't see how picture veri's can be fake as we have to show our faces and have our name written down? May just be us being ignorant but..." I think you're possibly misreading what people mean by fake, yes the photos might be you but whether you will actually show is for a meet is probably what people mean. I take no notice at all of webcam verifications. I see your interests include gang bangs, I do lots and have loads of verifications and not so far to travel. Come to one of mine when there's going to be another woman so even if you didn't show it wouldn't be a problem. You could end up with lots of verifications then | |||
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"Well, for those who do think we are fake then fair enough. We have been on the site for a week, we are not going to have about 50 verified meets. Not fair that we are being presumed as fake just because we only have a cam verification. We will be staying photo verified and cam verified until we decide to meet a genuine couple that we feel comfortable with, until then it's your loss " I think you are not wholly understanding where the couple from Bristol are coming from in their comment about you being fake, they are saying that those verified by cam are fake because of their experiences in the past so they are preferring to err on the side of caution where someone is verified only by cam. You have only been here a week so are not yet conversant with the ways of the members of the site but you will soon learn | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! " I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time . Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older. perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us. | |||
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" In fact some of us have got clothes older than you lol. " Who said you could inspect my wardrobe? | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time . Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older. perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us. " Or perhaps, as we are more than happy with who and how often we meet, you should concentrate on how you run your own profile instead of telling us all what we should be doing... | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time . Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older. perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us. " I genuinely wouldn't find an 80 year old attractive tbh | |||
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" In fact some of us have got clothes older than you lol. Who said you could inspect my wardrobe?" I have clothes older than Morrigan! | |||
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"If this thread was to be used as research, it would appear that age is more important than personality or appearance. I understand those with kids the same age, could feel very wrong. If you are legal (which you are) then shouldn't age be at the end of the criteria? " No not for me, age comes first and if someone isn't my age group I wouldn't chat further as no point | |||
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"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us. But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age. Are we really too young?! I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time . Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older. perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us. " I don't need to as have age set | |||
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"Well, for those who do think we are fake then fair enough. We have been on the site for a week, we are not going to have about 50 verified meets. Not fair that we are being presumed as fake just because we only have a cam verification. We will be staying photo verified and cam verified until we decide to meet a genuine couple that we feel comfortable with, until then it's your loss " The main things you need to be aware of us that the site is open to all kinds of people you have to make sure that the ones you meet are right for you ?veris are the only safe way to confirm you are who you say and vice versa ? Don't be in such a rush ! Take time to learn about the site and the way too stay safe and have fun ? Try and find locally someone you can social with even if it doesn't go any further I'm sure they would give you some advice and even a veri ! I hope that you find what your looking for , enjoy it but be safe while doing it ? ( god so sound like a parent lol ) | |||
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"No not too young. Maybe too young for some on here but in a club it's different, there are no filters in a club and people judge you for who you are rather than a number. In a club if it feels right then do it regardless of age. You might struggle though as older people will rule you out because they'd think you were only interested in people of your own age group so you might have to make the first move. There are quite a few nice clubs near to you. If you'd like someone to show you the ropes... " Not necessarily, some of us would rule them out because of their age | |||
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"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!) But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer! Stick at it this site takes time & patience! If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal ! Enjoy x We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x" Why don't you try a couple of socials? If you're not too sure about clubs then socials are a good way of getting some verifications and meeting people, and perhaps arranging to have some fun too. | |||
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