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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

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By *hitedukeMan
over a year ago

derby

not too young for me....

your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging

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By *semymouth_2024Man
over a year ago

swanwick, Alfreton

not at all

enjoy life's too short

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not too young for me....

your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging"

Sorry, tht was done by mistake. Will only be looking for men at certain times

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"not too young for me....

your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging"

Maybe they look for their own men

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By *hitedukeMan
over a year ago

derby


"not too young for me....

your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging

Sorry, tht was done by mistake. Will only be looking for men at certain times "

no worries.

you know where I am now, lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not too young for me....

your profile says looking for men, but blocked from messaging

Maybe they look for their own men "

Quite right miss coco

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Way too young for us I'm afraid - my eldest grandchild is not far off your age - but I'm sure plenty of people will jump at the chance of playing with a couple as young as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

Not to young for me either, not that I'm much older. In the past I was too young for some people but once they saw my maturity age really was just a number.

Your profile reads well, one thing I would change is remove the 'young' words when describing yourselves, or even full stop.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

Not to young for me either, not that I'm much older. In the past I was too young for some people but once they saw my maturity age really was just a number.

Your profile reads well, one thing I would change is remove the 'young' words when describing yourselves, or even full stop.

Have fun."

Little bit tricky seeing as our name is 'youngcouple95'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

Not to young for me either, not that I'm much older. In the past I was too young for some people but once they saw my maturity age really was just a number.

Your profile reads well, one thing I would change is remove the 'young' words when describing yourselves, or even full stop.

Have fun.

Little bit tricky seeing as our name is 'youngcouple95'"

Lol from the profile text not your name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!)

But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer!

Stick at it this site takes time & patience!

If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal !

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!)

But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer!

Stick at it this site takes time & patience!

If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal !

Enjoy x"

We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us.

You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it.

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By *v_heatherTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I think the scene is being ruined with too many young attractive couples with nice boobs (at least on the female anyway

And they all seem to have this thing for middle-aged tranny's when I'm trying to have quiet drink

Seriously - if you're comfortable with yourselves and what you're doing then that's what matters. At least for me sex appeal isn't just about age, looks, body etc but about spark, personality, confidence and a whole host of other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!)

But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer!

Stick at it this site takes time & patience!

If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal !

Enjoy x

We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x"

Most of my timewasters have been middle aged men. You have to socialise with other couples so people get to know you and decide if you are mature enough for them

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By *hitedukeMan
over a year ago

derby


"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us.

You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it."

we all have to start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us.

You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it."

Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us.

You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it.

Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah! "

Yes, not saying that you are, but webcam veris mean nothing as they are easily gained and can be faked, and pictures for picture veris are similarly easily faked. Both are often viewed with suspicion, especially on new profiles.

So if you want to improve your chances of meeting, going along to your local club and meeting some people in person who will verify you will probably make things easier for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us.

You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it.

Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah!

Yes, not saying that you are, but webcam veris mean nothing as they are easily gained and can be faked, and pictures for picture veris are similarly easily faked. Both are often viewed with suspicion, especially on new profiles.

So if you want to improve your chances of meeting, going along to your local club and meeting some people in person who will verify you will probably make things easier for you."

Can't see how picture veri's can be fake as we have to show our faces and have our name written down? May just be us being ignorant but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry guys you would be too young for us to personally message and start a conversation to meet up etc.

would be more than happy to talk at a party social etc but it's the same old thing we have children older than you(Mrs S)

Then again Mr S said he would so maybe the men have a different view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!)

But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer!

Stick at it this site takes time & patience!

If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal !

Enjoy x

We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x"

Most clubs are 21 and require ID perhaps ring before you go to avoid disappointment x

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"...

Then again Mr S said he would so maybe the men have a different view? "

I think you've hit the nail on the head there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Then again Mr S said he would so maybe the men have a different view?

I think you've hit the nail on the head there."

In my experience its a lot of men's fantasy to be with a barely legal girl. I have a daughter who's 18 so I don't find it acceptable. However, I don't know how I'd feel when for example my daughter is 30 will I still feel the same or see them as an adult and so fair game haha

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

At the risk of sounding like a dirty old man... I think 18 is fantastic! You are adults in every respect ie; alcohol, tax, work and yes sex. I'd love to hear from the couple but know I wont so all I'll say is don't worry about what others think... enjoy life and do what makes you feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure you will have a lot of fun once you get into the swing of things ( no bun intended) lol age is just a number to some you will get rejections on here but dont let it drag you down Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

I suppose you could reverse the question and ask are people over 50 too old for swinging...clearly not but you don't want to meet them in exactly the same way as other people don't want to meet you

I don't have children so have no issues that you could be the same age as any but you're not for us purely because of your age and the fact that I would be unable to feel any sort of common ground or connection with either of you. Age really isn't just a number, it gives indications of all sorts of things that are important for us when choosing who we meet and have sex with...common cultural references, experience, lifestyle...All important factors that for us would rule you out

Hope you find what you're looking for though

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

Too young for us also. It always seems more difficult getting meets when you are at either end of the 'age spectrum'! Maybe get along to a social to meet people initially. We wish you lots of luck and fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 28 and often considered to young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way, way to young for us. Legal or not, just doesn't seem right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, it makes life far easier and you will be judged by personality alone, you will also get lots of valid veri's , not to mention lots of fun with whom you get on with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't take it too personal, its nothing agaist you... The age issue is usually down to the fact we have children in that age range and so morally we feel uncomfortable with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes age is usually a problem here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

Not at all, age is just a no. In my eyes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

Not at all, age is just a no. In my eyes ! "

I'd just like to add within reason and legal obviously lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result?"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To young for me yes, to young to swing no

I'm just not attracted to really young, baby faced people, i like my men to look like men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result?"

Very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a perfectly natural 'male' thing to be attracted to youth (within legal reason obviously), but for older couples, I wonder if sometimes having made that commitment to one another and the relationship, perhaps makes them feel more paternal/maternal (I've read so many comments over the years on here, stating things like 'I have children not far off your age' etc) toward younger swingers, and less sexually attracted as a result?

Very good point "

My philosophical musings on the nature of relationships stimulating parental instincts - or my penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me most definitely yes, 35 years older than you is seriously wrong even consensual

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over a year ago

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

give it time... you've only been on a week (as frustrating as that week is)

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You will be too young for some, not for others, we all have our likes and dislikes; kinks and fantasies (I am not pushing mine here at all).

I am too old for you two, your limit is set at 50 so it works both ways; having said that I am sure you will have fun on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While you are too young for us, I would say that you come across as mature for your age in the way that you've posted on this thread and also are clearly an articulate couple. I think you'll do fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're too young for us, we're too old for you, its the way it goes. Good luck enjoy and never regret

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, for those who do think we are fake then fair enough. We have been on the site for a week, we are not going to have about 50 verified meets. Not fair that we are being presumed as fake just because we only have a cam verification. We will be staying photo verified and cam verified until we decide to meet a genuine couple that we feel comfortable with, until then it's your loss

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

As long as it's legal ages doesn't come into it. For me it's simple if personalities get on, there's attraction on the essential fronts and we're certainly going to make ourselves then bingo.

As a 40's single guy it's super horny when finding myself being an accessory to a younger younger cpl, spoiling & sharing the sexy female half Likewise for them I'm assured.

It beats robbing banks or mugging old ladies thats for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not too young for me....just too far away sadly!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Way too young for us I'm afraid - my eldest grandchild is not far off your age - but I'm sure plenty of people will jump at the chance of playing with a couple as young as you. "

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

Kage at partners tends to have a lot of very young people.

Could be worth a trip last Sunday of the month. Meet some people and with it being kage night you can remain clothes if you wish (formal or fetish clothing though not street clothes)

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

You both and your profile are wonderful, but you would be too young for me and my partner, only because I have a son older than you.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

For me personally 18 is way too young as I have a 14 year old daughter. Swinging or not I would avoid anyone closer to my daughters age than mine. To me it would just feel wrong and like I'm taking advantage of someone elses child.

As for the learning quicker and faster being young I totally disagree as I was pretty much clueless at 18 and in an abusive relationship. I didn't learn much in the sexual world until I was 29 and left my oh so dull husband. I learnt so much I those first few single months where as before I knew nothing about whst iliked or wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think 18 is a bit young but also comes down to the individuals personality and maturity aswell.

Some 18 year olds are a lot more mature than some of the 40+ on here.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

Yes you are a bit too young.

The average age of swingers is 30s-50s.

Some like us have got children older than you.

In fact some of us have got clothes older than you lol.

We've had em in their 20s but teenagers is a bit spooky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youll be seen too young for some and some will be seen too old for you. Were not much older than you and have had some good interest in us. Definitely got to stick at it if it's what you want. Youll fine some people thatll be interested regardless of your age as its not always whats looked at. We have an age limit on our profile but have gone to some parties and have been interested in people we later find out are above what we say our age range is. We dont stop contact because of it. Socials are the best way to meet people. Can be hard just trying to organise a private meet especially when people do see your age

(Her)

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"A very young couple with a solitary webcam veri from another couple with webcam veris would scream fake to us.

You may not be, of course, but speaking purely personally that's how we would read it.

Really? Fake? Wow.. With a picture verification from the site, surely it's quite hard for us to be fake? We have one solitary webcam veri as we have only been on for a week and haven't got proper stuck in yet. But I can 110% assure you we aren't fake hah!

Yes, not saying that you are, but webcam veris mean nothing as they are easily gained and can be faked, and pictures for picture veris are similarly easily faked. Both are often viewed with suspicion, especially on new profiles.

So if you want to improve your chances of meeting, going along to your local club and meeting some people in person who will verify you will probably make things easier for you.

Can't see how picture veri's can be fake as we have to show our faces and have our name written down? May just be us being ignorant but..."

I think you're possibly misreading what people mean by fake, yes the photos might be you but whether you will actually show is for a meet is probably what people mean. I take no notice at all of webcam verifications.

I see your interests include gang bangs, I do lots and have loads of verifications and not so far to travel. Come to one of mine when there's going to be another woman so even if you didn't show it wouldn't be a problem. You could end up with lots of verifications then

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

another possible problem is regarding older couples and yourselves. I know all swingers have open and totally honest relationships with each other so this will probably come across as totally impossible. Yes some of the male halves of couples is thinking 'sounds good', nut the female halves are saying 'oh no, way too young.' The halves will then reply yes dear, let's post that on the forum this minute'

On another point if 'Miss' is sub I know a lady who loves gang bangs, especially ones with sub women there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, for those who do think we are fake then fair enough. We have been on the site for a week, we are not going to have about 50 verified meets. Not fair that we are being presumed as fake just because we only have a cam verification. We will be staying photo verified and cam verified until we decide to meet a genuine couple that we feel comfortable with, until then it's your loss "

I think you are not wholly understanding where the couple from Bristol are coming from in their comment about you being fake, they are saying that those verified by cam are fake because of their experiences in the past so they are preferring to err on the side of caution where someone is verified only by cam. You have only been here a week so are not yet conversant with the ways of the members of the site but you will soon learn

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By *otpair255Couple
over a year ago

Langley

Well it depends. Like others already said if you are matured enough and know your expectation than for us you are fine we had already a pleasure to be with 18 lady and was a brilliant experience. We are more than certain that a lot of people would like to meet you and have a fun. Just to make sure to proof that you are genuine and ready. Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your never to young age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will discount you for your age because of the fact your will be the same age as your children or grandchildren. How ever there will be many that are happy to meet, finding 4 people who all get on isn't easy but you will get there.

We would recommend a club but for some you have to be over 21.

Your both young though so take your time you have many years ahead of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it's quite hard to find meets, just as when you get to our age interest seems to tale off

It will be interesting to see what your thoughts are in a few years time. Did it help you stay together or was it just a bit of fun 2 teenagers decided to have together.

Have fun and be nice to each other and be respectful to other people.

Good luck

xxx

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?! "

I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time .

Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older.

perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve been chatting to this couple a bit and they are respectful - W is away so we are going to chat when we all tgether - we have fantasies to fulfill

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"

In fact some of us have got clothes older than you lol.

"

Who said you could inspect my wardrobe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time .

Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older.

perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us.

"

Or perhaps, as we are more than happy with who and how often we meet, you should concentrate on how you run your own profile instead of telling us all what we should be doing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time .

Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older.

perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us.

"

I genuinely wouldn't find an 80 year old attractive tbh

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

If this thread was to be used as research, it would appear that age is more important than personality or appearance.

I understand those with kids the same age, could feel very wrong.

If you are legal (which you are) then shouldn't age be at the end of the criteria?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In fact some of us have got clothes older than you lol.

Who said you could inspect my wardrobe?"

I have clothes older than Morrigan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years old and you think you want to seing...whats your rush?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this thread was to be used as research, it would appear that age is more important than personality or appearance.

I understand those with kids the same age, could feel very wrong.

If you are legal (which you are) then shouldn't age be at the end of the criteria? "

No not for me, age comes first and if someone isn't my age group I wouldn't chat further as no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to see our young age as a really good thing. Allows us to learn quicker and faster and it's even a little naughty if it's an older couple to play with us.

But on the other hand, a lot of couples seem to be put off by our age.

Are we really too young?!

I cant really believe this, Single guys have a harder time .

Is age really something we should base our meets on, I go by interests rather than age after all we were all young once and we only get older.

perhaps we all need to examine how we judge those who contact us.

"

I don't need to as have age set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, for those who do think we are fake then fair enough. We have been on the site for a week, we are not going to have about 50 verified meets. Not fair that we are being presumed as fake just because we only have a cam verification. We will be staying photo verified and cam verified until we decide to meet a genuine couple that we feel comfortable with, until then it's your loss "

The main things you need to be aware of us that the site is open to all kinds of people you have to make sure that the ones you meet are right for you ?veris are the only safe way to confirm you are who you say and vice versa ?

Don't be in such a rush ! Take time to learn about the site and the way too stay safe and have fun ?

Try and find locally someone you can social with even if it doesn't go any further I'm sure they would give you some advice and even a veri !

I hope that you find what your looking for , enjoy it but be safe while doing it ?

( god so sound like a parent lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I fall into this category, shame... I mostly

meet people older than me so you can blame those

older that have corrupted me.... ha!

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

No not too young. Maybe too young for some on here but in a club it's different, there are no filters in a club and people judge you for who you are rather than a number. In a club if it feels right then do it regardless of age. You might struggle though as older people will rule you out because they'd think you were only interested in people of your own age group so you might have to make the first move. There are quite a few nice clubs near to you. If you'd like someone to show you the ropes...

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This last year I've had sex with a single women of 19 and many more of varying ages through to 68. TGirls it's been from about 20 to mid 50's.

My daughter's 24 but she just has what seems to be what I think is a positive attitude towards life and other people. I'm noticing it in more and more younger people. It's basically an 'do what you want as long as you're not giving anyone else problems' attitude.' Nowt wrong with that really is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not too young. Maybe too young for some on here but in a club it's different, there are no filters in a club and people judge you for who you are rather than a number. In a club if it feels right then do it regardless of age. You might struggle though as older people will rule you out because they'd think you were only interested in people of your own age group so you might have to make the first move. There are quite a few nice clubs near to you. If you'd like someone to show you the ropes... "

Not necessarily, some of us would rule them out because of their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that age is just a number but our kids are older than you guys so wouldn't feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy yourselves, life's too short... No age is to old or young. Don't be put off by others, be yourselves and have fun..... We do x

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By *entAltCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Weve been finding it hard to find younger couples (under 30), but when we do they tend to think they're gods gift to man and think theyre only worthy of model looking people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are you and struggle to find meets but it's all preferences and there's always someone that matched yours somewhere just need to keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's the experience that's puts most older people off. From my experiences older women are alot more naughty but I've met some very naughty young girls. Age doesn't matter to me long has they sexy and naughty.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Iam sure some folk on here would think that 'young' folk are synonymous with tinewasters etc (not suggesting that!)

But Iam sure a lovely couple will take you under their wing then you 'll be off to a flyer!

Stick at it this site takes time & patience!

If you feel confident enough perhaps try a club then couples will know your the real deal !

Enjoy x

We're certainly not time wasters, I can assure you that much. We have been thinking of clubs but perhaps would want a private meet first x"

Why don't you try a couple of socials? If you're not too sure about clubs then socials are a good way of getting some verifications and meeting people, and perhaps arranging to have some fun too.

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