FabSwingers.com forum: 7 views in one day but no meets

By *obbyCock36 OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

No you shouldn't, never let what goes on here make you feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will not know if they are compatible with you if they don't look. We get loads of looks a day. The only ones you should worry about are the ones that message you

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No. People can only see your avatar, name and location. They need to see your profile for age, pics, interests and everything else. Wouldn't pay much attention to the view to messages/meets ratio

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

A whole 7

I get 7 in about 0.34 minutes

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The last 100 people to view me have all been in the last 5 hours.

That doesn't include the ones that have their profile set to not show on that list.

Only 5 have messaged me.

The other 95 either like my pics or looked and didn't think we were compatible.

Don't sweat the small stuff!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

A whole 7

I get 7 in about 0.34 minutes

You just got another xxxx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

You're doing well mate

Just be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition."

It really isn't, and women comparing to a guy isn't gonna help him resolve his question.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You're doing well mate

Just be patient

He will have a few more now

Posting in the forums is a good way to bring yourself to people's attention.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

Were any of them women?

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Put a face pic on your profile......

And sadly you cannot accommodate, so why not say you can do hotel meets instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks fine, but i would agree with the face pic suggestion and i would query why you aren't showing your verifications x

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By *ong-legged-divaTV/TS
over a year ago

Fleetwood

On average for me, 100 views in a day = 1 decent meet

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition."

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 81 view so far lol

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

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lol and yes your right there

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Your profile looks fine, but i would agree with the face pic suggestion and i would query why you aren't showing your verifications x"

Does he have to show his verifications? I know lots of women that don't show theirs as its their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition."

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition.

It was infact putting it into perspective that views dont equal meets, as i said i have hundreds a day and dont have a lot of meets, 7 views is verrrry little to then expect meets just because his profile has been looked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice pictures and good profile, I would be put off by men not showing their verifications though. at least a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said; you get more looks by posting on the forums. Gets you noticed and you no longer look like a newbie.

Just by being online seems to trigger looks and messages. I have no idea how many looks I get a day because it only lists the first 100 but the oldest look becomes far more recent when I'm active on here. Posting a new pic sends your inbox mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile looks fine, but i would agree with the face pic suggestion and i would query why you aren't showing your verifications x

Does he have to show his verifications? I know lots of women that don't show theirs as its their business."

No he doesn't but it would help, for me I'm looking for a particular thing and many others may be to.. I like to read the verifications to identify if certain words or phrases have been used... how a meet is interpreted by each other is very important to me... Much more then the profile as it's another persons opinion... Not just their own words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had any views lol

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By *obbyCock36 OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Thanks for the comments folks, just to clarify it was a genuine question I asked, not to generate views

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you? "
lol I know and no you didn't embarase me, my views are now 98

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By *obbyCock36 OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Happy for you to embaress me hun! I'm a little kinky like that

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you? "

Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Happy for you to embaress me hun! I'm a little kinky like that

Its probably the guy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you?

Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind "

I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you?

Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind

I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?"

If you read a few up you will see i explained why i posted what i did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

No you shouldn't, never let what goes on here make you feel bad."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you?

Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind

I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?

If you read a few up you will see i explained why i posted what i did

I did. I was referring to you criticising me for being more interested in other people's posts than the op in a post not relevant to the op. I just thought you might see that it was somewhat ironic.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have 81 view so far lol

Its not a competition lol the fab police says so

Oh dear, did I embarrass you?

Why would you have? Just noticed your always the same on posts, more interested in other peoples replies than the OP, chip and shoulder comes to mind

I see. And this post of yours is relevant to the op in what way?

If you read a few up you will see i explained why i posted what i did

I did. I was referring to you criticising me for being more interested in other people's posts than the op in a post not relevant to the op. I just thought you might see that it was somewhat ironic."

I was replying to snide comments from the usual suspects, before that i only made a comment in reference to the OP but thanks for your ..... Concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

Don't be daft! We get tons of views but don't get a great deal of messages when compared to views.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I got 25 views in one day....

One of the best days of my life....

No emails or meets though....

But I was chuffed someone took time to read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy asked about the number of views he'd had not how many other people get. It isn't a competition."

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I got 25 views in one day....

One of the best days of my life....

No emails or meets though....

But I was chuffed someone took time to read my profile "

Its not a competition lollll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm relieved some of my views have not resulted in messages and a meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm relieved some of my views have not resulted in messages and a meet

Lol. There is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8, I just viewed your profile... I am not interested in meeting you, but often view profiles of people who post on the forums.

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By *iguy39Man
over a year ago

manchester

I had 50 views yesterday and no meets. Dont worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha pmsl we get loads looks and very few meets get over it !!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Should I be feeling as though I'm doing something wrong?

Hey Bobby! I looked and I liked...but I'm in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have very unrealistic expectations...all someone has to do is view you and they want to jump your bones? Get real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seem to have very unrealistic expectations...all someone has to do is view you and they want to jump your bones? Get real!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid predictive text.

Was just saying I've never looked at how many views I've had.

And asked if there is a prize?

It doesn't matter now, as I wouldn't win it anyway.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You seem to have very unrealistic expectations...all someone has to do is view you and they want to jump your bones? Get real!"

This

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"You're doing well mate

Just be patient

He will have a few more now

Posting in the forums is a good way to bring yourself to people's attention."

Its nice to be looked at ..

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Just be yourself (unless you are a twat, in which case, try to be less of one).

I would never put my face on my profile, nor do I show any veris and its never done me any harm.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You're doing well mate

Just be patient

He will have a few more now

Posting in the forums is a good way to bring yourself to people's attention.

Its nice to be looked at .."

It is and most of us are here to get noticed one way or another.

Incidentally, has the op been back at all?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Happy for you to embaress me hun! I'm a little kinky like that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You're doing well mate

Just be patient

He will have a few more now

Posting in the forums is a good way to bring yourself to people's attention.

Its nice to be looked at ..

It is and most of us are here to get noticed one way or another.

Incidentally, has the op been back at all?"

Yes I see that he has

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By *ilthydirtyfuckersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lose the batman belt buckle photo !

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By *obbyCock36 OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Lol the Batman buckle has been quite popular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol the Batman buckle has been quite popular! "

I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 365 look so far today and only about 50 messages! Should I be upset 315 didn't like the look of me? Hell no, I'm glad I didn't have all those messages to ignore lol

As somebody else pointed out they are only looking and may see that you are not compatible for them for whatever reason its no reflection on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8, I just viewed your profile... I am not interested in meeting you, but often view profiles of people who post on the forums.

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if it is a competition can I enter? I had over 1000 one day! Pmsl

Views mean nothing people have to look to see if you are what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 365 look so far today and only about 50 messages! Should I be upset 315 didn't like the look of me? Hell no, I'm glad I didn't have all those messages to ignore lol

As somebody else pointed out they are only looking and may see that you are not compatible for them for whatever reason its no reflection on you."

Still like to see who's looking though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 365 look so far today and only about 50 messages! Should I be upset 315 didn't like the look of me? Hell no, I'm glad I didn't have all those messages to ignore lol

As somebody else pointed out they are only looking and may see that you are not compatible for them for whatever reason its no reflection on you.

Still like to see who's looking though?"

Oh no that'd be worse. If I thought they were fit and matched my requirements I'd be thinking what's wrong with me!?!? Pmsl

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By *omeplaywithmexCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Found this post quite funny as I'm starting to feel like I'm practically begging someone to just have some skype fun with us! No not the 7 views thing! I can handle a million views and not be disappointed especially when you get all these random weirdo's on here! Please we ain't that bad..I hope lol I do think tho if a decent couple or woman would love to restore my faith hehe add us on skype and to be clear it's the female half talking

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By *obbyCock36 OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I know what you cum cometryus!

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By *obbyCock36 OP Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I know what you mean cometryus!

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