FabSwingers.com forum: getting meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive been on this site now for over a year but getting meets with cpls/fems seems to be getting harder i have good verifications why do you think this is

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Your profile is very poor.

Punctuation, spelling, grammar, all poor!

And cock shots are off putting, particularly as your main pic!

Invest your time in revamping your profile, getting it right...

Then and only then can you expect to get results.

Effort in = rewards out!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you send any messages out? Your profile seems to imply that you're waiting for people to contact you. Apart from that I have seen worse profiles. We would never contact anyone with a cockshot as their main picture for me it speaks volumes about where a persons main focus lies especially if it's the only public photo they have.

In short I would say change your avatar, send out a few messages and maybe go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 verifications in the last month suggests that youaren;t struggling that much...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i send messages everyday to cpls and fems but dont get much responce i have face pics on my private pics so maybe changing my avaitor pic would be better

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"3 verifications in the last month suggests that youaren;t struggling that much..."

What they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets are like buses wait for ages then lots come but then again some ppl just meet for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the cock avatar. Have one in your profile by all means, but read the forums - ladies don't really like to see cock after cock after cock.

Just my opinion though from what I've read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive been on this site now for over a year but getting meets with cpls/fems seems to be getting harder i have good verifications why do you think this is "

Nothing to do with you or your profile. Its simply because there are so many single guys for couples and females to pick from. Too much competition

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

3 verifications in the last month is ok but over a year 7 meets is not at all great to be honest

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Your worried about meets, but seem have 3 in July, are you expecting a meet from everyone you message???

Most guys would be more than happy with the amount of meets that you have had.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"3 verifications in the last month is ok but over a year 7 meets is not at all great to be honest"

That is really good going, some guys get nothing for a year.

Why are you so worried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of the cock avatar. Have one in your profile by all means, but read the forums - ladies don't really like to see cock after cock after cock.

Just my opinion though from what I've read."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok maybe 7 meets is good didnt know so many men were on here so seems the men out number the cpls and fems so i cant really complaine

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

there are many clubs within an easy reach from your area and it may be worth you travelling to them to met more people on here

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"3 verifications in the last month is ok but over a year 7 meets is not at all great to be honest"

says who....

maybe your expectations are out of step with the realities of swinging, because I know a lot of people who would say.... 7 people, bloody lucky fellow!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

maybe your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics get blocked. By a lot of women. I've never understood why you guys think one pic of your cock will make a woman meet you but clearly some of them do since you've had meets. I suppose it depends on what kind of women you want to attract.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok i will look at revamping my profile but escort i deffo am not

thanks for the advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok i will look at revamping my profile but escort i deffo am not

thanks for the advise"
lol not you the gimp that had the post.... Took it off Avin a bad day lad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im looking to attract a mid 30s woman who likes to chat aswell as have fun with i like slim women really seems to be alot of bbw women on here tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my god yet another bloke whinging about meets yet has some get a grip fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im looking to attract a mid 30s woman who likes to chat aswell as have fun with i like slim women really seems to be alot of bbw women on here tho "

I'm noticing you haven't changed a single thing on your profile as yet...

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Cock pics get blocked. By a lot of women. I've never understood why you guys think one pic of your cock will make a woman meet you but clearly some of them do since you've had meets. I suppose it depends on what kind of women you want to attract."

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Op asked for advice - got it - ignored it - Z

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Get rid of the cock avatar. Have one in your profile by all means, but read the forums - ladies don't really like to see cock after cock after cock.

Just my opinion though from what I've read."

and its true!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op asked for advice - got it - ignored it - Z"
pmsl

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is a competitive market place for you single guys. They can check who is against them and improve their profiles. So can you. People find the visual attraction from seeing photos. Those who display pics are going to win more than those who dont. But the pics need to be good and of the sort that people want - cock pic overload is a loser. Get the pics right, and load your profile with what you offer to others that may entice them. Plus dont just rely on the internet for swinging. The east and west mids has good clubs and socials. Get out and about and be sociable with anyone decent.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Op asked for advice - got it - ignored it - Z"

As per!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op asked for advice - got it - ignored it - Z

As per!

He removed the cock profile pic, its a start lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

check how many Ladies there are compared with Men.

Search for Ladies seeking men within 30 miles of you then reverse the search looking at Men seeking Ladies

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Op asked for advice - got it - ignored it - Z

As per!

He removed the cock profile pic, its a start lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 verifications in the last month is ok but over a year 7 meets is not at all great to be honest"
How often do you attend clubs if any ?

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