FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters with poss fake verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a couple (if indeed it is a couple) on here who are well known on another swinging site as time wasters. They have a verification on here which I suspect is a fake one that is the single guy has not met them at all. However how do you know they haven't met? On the other site many single guys complained that this couple are fakes and time wasters. I haven't seen them on that site for quite some time and certainly not in the chat rooms where they would be challenged by single guys they had let down. We all hate time wasters and fakes and they spoil it for us genuine ones be it single guys or couples. I am supposed to have a meet with this couple(again)tonight but doubt I will hear anything more from them as has always been the case in the past. BTW they don't know I am one of the guys from said other swinging site who is also on here and they have agreed to meet tonight. We shall see but i'm not exactly optimistic they will show.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Good of you not to prejudge....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if they dont i suggest you contact admin and tell them the story xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if ur no been let down yet why

moan if its no happen YET

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL

"if ur no been let down yet why

moan if its no happen YET

xx"
Here Here!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I've seen it all now.....outing people as timewasters and fakes before they have actually let you down on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you letting it bother you and what has it got to do with you when it hasnt affected you?

How do you know their verifaction is fake?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What if they came to this site for a fresh start, and they're now genuine BUT have a personal emergency tonight?

It's all too complicated...I'm going for a lie down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if someone started false roumers on the other site and then you are comming on the forums doing the same without knowing all the facts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen it all now.....outing people as timewasters and fakes before they have actually let you down on this site.

Haa haa haa haa haa haa haa sorry, it's been a long day but this thread is hilarious!!

I'm also confused: if the OP has heard such awful things about this couple, they've not turned up in the past and he believes they're fakes then erm, why bother?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not moaning just stating FACTS. If you read what I have written then you will read I have been let down before on another forum along with many others on there. BTW they are 10mins late already not that I expect them to appear as said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not moaning just stating FACTS. If you read what I have written then you will read I have been let down before on another forum along with many others on there. BTW they are 10mins late already not that I expect them to appear as said. "

Why arrange to meet them then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh right. Have I mentioned any names cos I can't see any? If you can't then your wrong I haven't outed anybody

As to why bother. Well I thought the idea was to try and get shut of fakers and time wasters but then perhaps you have something hide hey

Yes I can clearly see you are somewhat confused.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Why broadcast it on the forums to start with?, surely better to contact admin if and when they blow you out?

And have to agree with others....why the feck would you bother making an arrangement to meet them if you are already convinced they are timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didnt say it was fake read again I said "I suspect its fake". BTW its got lots to do with me they are now 15 mins late. Yeah emergency they may have for the umpteenth time along with all the other guys they have let down then run away out of chat when challenged by any of them. Still if you have no problem with time wasters and fakers then you won't care will you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am giving them the chance others have suggested as they are new to this site. However past history is hardly encouraging and now 20 mins late and no word. I have to admit its what I only expected but I did give them and are giving them a chance.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Since you know they have let so many people down before....what would possess you to become another of their victims?

Sorry but your predicament reminds me of the Homer Simpson sketch where he is hanging off the power lines trying to retrieve his beers, he knows he is going to get another shock.....but he still grabs those beers!

So in short.......DOH!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

27 minutes late now......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still cant understand why you would want to make arrangements to meet them in the first place if you think they are fake,i know we wouldnt.

You stated the thread before they were due to arrive,accusing them of being timewasters maybe they seen the thread and thought sod you! I know we wouldnt go to a meet if we saw the guy slagging us of in the forums before we even got there!

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By *all_and_modestMan
over a year ago

Near You

It's not as if they committed murder. There's always time wasters on which ever site you go to. Just let them carry on.

Happy swinging to all the genuine people out there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I simply gave them a chance as suggested above that's why I agreed to meet them. I wasn't doing anything tonight anyway so little lost but I gave them a chance. 50mins late now and I think we can safely say they are time wasters.

Thanks for all your concerns ans expressions of doubt etc. I think we can end this thread here as point proven even if I didn't get any replies to my original question. Thank you.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Maybe they came onto FAB tonight and noticed the "nice man" they were supposed to be meeting had decided to start a thread up about them being thought of as timewasters and decided that they didn't want to meet you after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that you've proven is that you seem desperate.

Despite all the 'bad press' this other couple appear to have received - you still wanted to meet them

Oh hang on, I've just read your post again - you 'gave them a chance' how kind and considerate

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By *all_and_modestMan
over a year ago

Near You

I think you might be right

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

yep exactly what i was thinking to be honest . had i arranged to meet you tonite and had read this post then theres is absolutly NO WAY id turn up !

i can see what you were trying to do however may of been wiser to keep things to yourself and had you then been proved right just report to admin to monitor . even if they didnt turn up as ppl have said could purely be as simple as an emergency cropping up.as far as i see youve done all this and wasted ur own nite for something that just cant be proved .plus genuine ppl may now be put off arranging anything with you as this hasnt been done descreetly and they may fear being a subject of a post if god forbid they couldnt make meet or changed their mind .

i appricate time wasters are the baine of all genuine folks on here and certain not sujesting they should be excused or tolerated .however it can be a fine line between what one person calls time wasting and anothers view .

some ppl would call anyone who calls/txt to change plans a time waster .others it could be if youve just chatted on line short time and refuse to arrange a meet ! lots of shades of grey here as even the most genuine folks on here at times have to miss meets or change arrangements . as they say LIFE HAPPENS !

in my opinion as i said would of beens best to give admin the heads up so if they did start reciving complatiants that ppl were makeing arrangmnts they blanently werent gonna keep they could act on it .also to just block the profile and not waste any of my energies on them .

at end of the day only takes em minutes to scrub current profile and set up a total diffewrent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think we can end this thread here as point proven even if I didn't get any replies to my original question. Thank you. "

What exactly was your question ? To be honest I couldn't see a question in your OP, only a few incoherent ramblings

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

I am gonna do something I rarely do, and side with couples...

I met someone who cancelled 5 previous meets. It was frustrating, but the end was worth it, (all the cancellations had been due to nerves). People pull out for all kinds of reasons. Before calling them fakers, bad boy timewasters, ask yourself why you want to meet them in the first place, and then decide whether they are worth the effort.

But I would advise you to hold your tongue, sorry, stay your fingers.

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By *xstephbxxCouple
over a year ago

hyde

Even if they were 'genuine', surely to god a simple phone call, text message to say sorry something has turned up and we cant meet.

Its not much to ask is it !!..even from the fakes !!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if they were 'genuine', surely to god a simple phone call, text message to say sorry something has turned up and we cant meet.

Its not much to ask is it !!..even from the fakes !!.."

Surely he would have had their phone number,he must have chatted to them on phone.. And if he didnt then more fool him!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Why would you even consider arranging to meet someone who you 'know' to be fake? For God's sake I've seen everything now! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just spent 20 mins Reading this.....I'll never get that 20 mins back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did chat to him on the phone. He phoned me and withheld his number. I can understand that with genuine people but I can assure you only one of us is genuine. This guys or couple are serial time wasters as I have proved along with many others. I hope non of you get caught by them. As for reporting them/him to admin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many times do I have to answer this question for gods sake

and I haven't seen or read it all yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did chat to him on the phone. He phoned me and withheld his number. I can understand that with genuine people but I can assure you only one of us is genuine. This guys or couple are serial time wasters as I have proved along with many others. I hope non of you get caught by them. As for reporting them/him to admin

Lol what was up with the wife chatting on phone? Was she too shy to talk?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right enough's enough. at least there has been a few laughs along the way. Some people can't read what I wrote others seemed to want to read what I didn't write. But hey this is a chat forum is it not and I thank you for your time and posts. I don't think I have anymore to add as its simply getting repetitious esp for those who ask the same questions. BTW I doubt very much indeed this couple will ever read these forums but I wish they would do and answer but we all know they wouldn't do that. Time wasters and fakers seldom do

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"How many times do I have to answer this question for gods sake

and I haven't seen or read it all yet

Answer as many times as you want to, it is an open forum after all

There is still the question as to why, when you arranged to meet them tonight, would you put a post up like this knowing there was a possibilty they could see it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why are you reporting them to Admin ? Cos they didn't turn up

I've got a feeling that I know what the answer will be - Unless of course you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that they are fake - but you mustn't know that for sure otherwise you'd have not arranged to meet them in th 1st place ..

"Move on - block and forget" - best advice I can give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times do I have to answer this question for gods sake

and I haven't seen or read it all yet

Answer as many times as you want to, it is an open forum after all

There is still the question as to why, when you arranged to meet them tonight, would you put a post up like this knowing there was a possibilty they could see it?

I would love to know the answer to that...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Ah well, some folks are at their happiest when they've got something to moan about! That's the only reason why anyone would agree to meet a suspect 'couple' - just to have something to complain about! I'd rather arrange to meet genuinely, genuine people! Z

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Right enough's enough. at least there has been a few laughs along the way. Some people can't read what I wrote others seemed to want to read what I didn't write. But hey this is a chat forum is it not and I thank you for your time and posts. I don't think I have anymore to add as its simply getting repetitious esp for those who ask the same questions. BTW I doubt very much indeed this couple will ever read these forums but I wish they would do and answer but we all know they wouldn't do that. Time wasters and fakers seldom do

Actually I hope they don't read the forums and come on here to defend themselves and all hell breaks lose.

The ADULT thing to do on an adult site was to report any timewatsers AFTER they have done some timewasting.

To start threads about couples on the off chance they are timewasters and saying " but it is ok I didn't name them " isn't acceptable.

The rules on the forums say not to bad mouth people, it doesn't say you can bad mouth them as long as you don't name them.

Use the report button not the forums to out timewasters. There is a good reason for this, if they are serial timewasters, Admin will see a pattern.

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