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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " Some men join this site thinking the women on here are cock hungry sluts to be used. I saw "my balls are full, my cock won't suck itself!" once. Now I ask you! | |||
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"I would gladly pleasure a women without getting anything in return. Hearing them pant and moan is enough." I kind of agree it's more important to me for the lady to to receive more pleasure And as she does it turns me on more I try to go for the 3-1 ratio she cums 3 me 1s | |||
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"I would gladly pleasure a women without getting anything in return. Hearing them pant and moan is enough." I agree completely ... Not say this is how it should be everytime.... But yes, certainly "Ladies First"! | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " I'd be happy to turn up, lick pussy (or anything else the fem wanted for her pleasure only) and thwn leave. Love giving out a nice big oh oh orgasm. Such a turn on | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " They would be disappointed with me then. I don't suck them till they cum. But I always explain that upfront. No complaints yet | |||
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"Some say one thing, then another lol What if they don't make you cum, very sure of himself whoever wrote that Her" If they dont make you cum? Does that happen? Maybe ive just been lucky but everyone so far came! C'mon guys up your game, get your girl off! | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? Some men join this site thinking the women on here are cock hungry sluts to be used. I saw "my balls are full, my cock won't suck itself!" once. Now I ask you! " As a statement its probably true, as a message its likely to mean the statement remains true, | |||
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"I wouldn't want a man to just lick till I cum I need the whole deal and thats give and take for me " | |||
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"Some men join this site thinking the women on here are cock hungry sluts to be used. I saw "my balls are full, my cock won't suck itself!" once. Now I ask you! " I see similar status all the time on my home page, and more often than not from the same [unverified] men, which says it all really | |||
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"I make sure my woman is satisfied even before I cum that turns me on more s " Me too. Horniest thing ever to make a woman cum, especially more than once! | |||
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"Some say one thing, then another lol What if they don't make you cum, very sure of himself whoever wrote that Her If they dont make you cum? Does that happen? Maybe ive just been lucky but everyone so far came! C'mon guys up your game, get your girl off!" It happens, I don't always cum, it doesn't mean I don't enjoy myself though and I find it much harder to cum if all the focus is on my own orgasm. I feel like a performing monkey and that puts me under pressure which makes it twice as hard to relax enough to cum. I find it a massive turn on giving pleasure to the man but I'm stopped as guys feel they have to get me to pop first. Tbh 99 times out of a 100 I would say my fingers are involved in my orgasm in the end anyhow | |||
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"Personally I disagree with both points of view. It about both not just female or male. Point being. It should be mutual fun both getting equal pleasure out of the not a competition to see who comes first and how many times Just as long as both leave having had a great time. When I say both it maybe 3,4 or 5 Well that's my opinion anyway Him " I agree it has to be about mutual fun for all parties . Sometimes I don't think this can happen when it's a one off there is always the thrill of the unknown but for total pleasure I think you have to get to know someones likes. | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " Ive met a guy happy to pleasure you then leave my moans were good enough reward for him. rare treat as i agree op so many blokes ask for it in messages and have it as a status | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? Some men join this site thinking the women on here are cock hungry sluts to be used. I saw "my balls are full, my cock won't suck itself!" once. Now I ask you! " I've seen lots of profiles like that. All angry unverified men. They think this site is full of free prostitutes. OP- this type of men aren't thinking about the woman at all. And never will. | |||
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"I have had men lick my pussy till I cum then go. I had six men do it in one day after one left the next one knocked on door " Lucky bitch!!! | |||
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"I love sucking cock and really enjoy doing it that wasn't my point really. It was women don't post just for a lick and go while men do. I've had men say "i love to lick pussy for hours" then after 30 seconds they have had enough lol. A message I got was " pick me up in your car suck my cock swallow then drop me off". I don't know how many takers he got with that one. " Well I guess the moral of this thread is that if women actually like the idea of men turning up, licking them till they cum, and then going... they should ask for it because a lot of men quite like the idea. If women don't really like the idea...well maybe that explains why they don't post it. Being a bloke, I'll leave that for the women to figure out | |||
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"That's how it should be. But I would say 50% of messages are suck my cock. " And you reply to these messages as well? | |||
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"I think very few men would just lick a woman til she cums, which could take awhile, and get nothing back. They might agree to the meet while thinking more will happen. " either he is doing it wrong or very self centred.....always like a lady to cum multiple times before me lol | |||
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"I think very few men would just lick a woman til she cums, which could take awhile, and get nothing back. They might agree to the meet while thinking more will happen. either he is doing it wrong or very self centred.....always like a lady to cum multiple times before me lol" The OP is suggesting that most men wouldn't just lick a woman till she came and then leave without getting a BJ or something in return. I'm probably in the minority, as I'd be more than happy with such a naughty encounter...but it seems most men's replies here pretty much confirm what she said Still...I say...if you don't ask you don't get | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " Some men ...not all | |||
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"That's how it should be. But I would say 50% of messages are suck my cock. " I'm guessing that you could read messages whilst hovering your finger over the block button. | |||
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"I think very few men would just lick a woman til she cums, which could take awhile, and get nothing back. They might agree to the meet while thinking more will happen. " I did, we have and it was fun. Not all males are single dimensional characters. I learnt a lot and came away with some new skills which have given me more pleasure than a simple BJ ever could. | |||
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"I'm always more eager to give oral than receive " If I had received oral for every time a man has said that to me I wouldn't be such a disappointed woman | |||
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"Fuck that, i want me shirt ironin in that deal as well. . . . . . . ( runs and hides ) " I love ironing too!! Could of struck a deal but a lit larger than an 18! | |||
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"I'm always more eager to give oral than receive If I had received oral for every time a man has said that to me I wouldn't be such a disappointed woman " Haha! So true | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " The men this way don't say that they are for more into pleasing women maybe its Warrington men. | |||
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"I haven't seen it here, but on craigslist it's pretty rife. That's if they're not bots! Male or female, that approach is hardly successful. Play is a more mutual AND relational thing!" I would say that any woman coming on here who wants to explore a range of erotic encounters entirely on her own terms i.e. entirely one-sidedly... would certainly find those who would be more than happy to help out. I don't think it's greedy or even unfair... it's just a certain type of role play in which the woman is empowered and the man is the facilitator/witness. I get my orgasmic fulfillment from Mrs Passion. If a lovely sexy woman phoned me up and said "get down here and lick me hard"... I'd go skipping off happily. Any man who says "what's in it for me?" is a fool imo | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " They don't think that is enough for a woman. They don't think about the woman full stop. They don't like women. I can't stand men like this. | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? They don't think that is enough for a woman. They don't think about the woman full stop. They don't like women. I can't stand men like this. " | |||
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"I wouldn't want a man to just lick till I cum I need the whole deal and thats give and take for me " I agree, in fact the goal, if you have to have one, is to have fun with passion. I like giving, such a turn on, and if the other(s) enjoy giving too and its all passionate fun then surely that's swinging. Mutual masterbation, for instance is loads of fun, of course I prefer to use my lips and tongue rather than my fingers.... Or both. | |||
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"Ladies, you would be inundated if you asked..." Ok... I'm asking.... | |||
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"'Lick my pussy til I cum then go'. . . ? Could be worth a try as a status update, gotta try everything at least once ain't ya ? " If you were local id be at your door now! | |||
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"Ladies, you would be inundated if you asked... Ok... I'm asking.... " I'll be there in an hour lol x | |||
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"I very rarely block anyone and wouldn't block for a message like that I'd just delete it. I'm not bothered about the messages I was just pointing out only men seem to do it. And yes I agree not all men. I'm going to have to try this and state come and lick me and when I'm satisfied fuck off home lol. See who actually would do it. " Volunteer here!! (Stretches hand up as far as possible) let me know when lol xxx | |||
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"I get messages from men saying " meet to suck their cock swallow their cum then go". I've noticed women don't say the equivalent is it just a man thing? Why do men think that doing that is enough for a woman? Why is their enjoyment and pleasure more important? " Some people are so immersed in porn that they simply see women as a means to an end. | |||
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"I don't get the fascination with wanting to just turn up and go in ten mins or what ever! No thrill in just a blowjob for me! " Who mentioned 10mins? ? | |||
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"I make sure my woman is satisfied even before I cum that turns me on more s " Couldn't agree more..... It almost makes me cum when I know the woman has just cum | |||
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"Wouldn't mind it now but heyho lol. nearest I'll get to asking, too shy " Don't be shy, I'm sure you'll be inundated with offers. | |||
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"That's how it should be. But I would say 50% of messages are suck my cock. " ok suck my balls and go | |||
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