FabSwingers.com forum: East Anglia

By *ast anglia guy OP Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

Hi Folks,

I'm in the East Anglia area and don't really get any replies to messages etc, does anyone else out there find it the same? Have had one meet locally, just a social, no fun, aww poor me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find Suffolk fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people in King's Lynn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Folks,

I'm in the East Anglia area and don't really get any replies to messages etc, does anyone else out there find it the same? Have had one meet locally, just a social, no fun, aww poor me lol."

I hope you don't mind me saying if you read your profile would you bother replying and how many clubs or socials have you attended to build up a network of friends

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

In 10 months you have made no effort to fill out your profile. It's your sales board. You are one of thousands of single guys, yet you have made no effort.

That would be like putting an advert in a paper "car4sale" and nothing else...

Like most things in life.... You get out what you put in... It looks like you have found that out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the area thats the problem

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It's so easy to blame something you have no control over - the area you live, the age you are, the colour of your skin.

Try a little personal responsibility. You are to blame here, it has jack shit to do with where you live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, first profile I've ever seen with nothing on it. Instant delete for most I'd guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, first profile I've ever seen with nothing on it. Instant delete for most I'd guess. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in this area and got no probs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in the area also, never had a problem, like others have said you need to sell yourself much better than do, Wipe out your profile and start again.... Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also says that you are "Straight" but you have been verified by a man, it just looks odd to me... Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live in the area also, never had a problem, like others have said you need to sell yourself much better than do, Wipe out your profile and start again.... Ruby"

There is nothing on there to wipe out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problems - the main one for us is finding a single guy that won't let us down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a strange post...

Do you really believe the area is devoid of action or are you just seeking attention and advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live in the area also, never had a problem, like others have said you need to sell yourself much better than do, Wipe out your profile and start again.... Ruby

There is nothing on there to wipe out

"Joke"

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Shit. Too many white men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's Shit. Too many white men lol "

Dip them in chocolate.

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By *ast anglia guy OP Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

True, this was a kind gent' did it as being new I couldn't message etc.. Still some gents out there hey lol.

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By *ast anglia guy OP Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

True, this was a kind gent' did it as being new I couldn't message etc.. Still some gents out there hey lol.

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

You have no photo on your profile......

You cannot accommodate......

And you have put absolutely NO effort into your profile whatsoever!

And you wonder why you don't get meets!

EFFORT IN = RESULTS OUT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have no photo on your profile......

You cannot accommodate......

And you have put absolutely NO effort into your profile whatsoever!

And you wonder why you don't get meets!

EFFORT IN = RESULTS OUT!

SIR! YES SIR!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no problems - the main one for us is finding a single guy that won't let us down"

I'm over here!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Hi Folks,

I'm in the East Anglia area and don't really get any replies to messages etc, does anyone else out there find it the same? Have had one meet locally, just a social, no fun, aww poor me lol."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Now consider how useful my post above is.

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By *upcake68Woman
over a year ago

Ely

And still the profile remains void of anything!! Yes, definitely the area!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

How slow am I. I've just realised it's one of those look at me threads.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How slow am I. I've just realised it's one of those look at me threads.....

There's nothing to look at lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No picture

No name

No profile text

What are you looking for? Clairvoyants?

It is nothing to do with east anglia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No picture

No name

No profile text

What are you looking for? Clairvoyants?

It is nothing to do with east anglia.

I travel all over, inc London and I've found more genuine people in E Anglia than anywhere else. Including Makat!

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By *peedypeteMan
over a year ago

derby

Despite some replies saying there is no problem with East Anglia, I have found a problem there too. It a band from East Anglia and across the Midlands, where people rarely have the courtesy to reply to a well constructed message.

On my last visit to the area though I found a gem of a couple so have to have faith, but its just getting harder to find these gems among the ignorant timewasters and posers.

Go South of the M25 or North of Leeds and then you will have some fun!

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By *ast anglia guy OP Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

:There certainly been a few replies / comments / advice which I thank one and all for. I will say that I always welcome folks I message to ask me any questions to find more out about me, but alas they don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

":There certainly been a few replies / comments / advice which I thank one and all for. I will say that I always welcome folks I message to ask me any questions to find more out about me, but alas they don't.

Of course they don't. If you can't be bothered, why should they do all the work getting to know you? There's nothing to help anyone judge if it would be worthwhile.

With so many other people on here who have made an effort, they'll move on to people who are of interest, rather than wasting time on someone who may or may not be what they're looking for.

I wouldn't contact you and since I always check the profile before reading a message, I'd delete any message from you unread.

The bottom line is if you can't be bothered to make any effort, don't expect results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No picture

No name

No profile text

What are you looking for? Clairvoyants?

It is nothing to do with east anglia.

I travel all over, inc London and I've found more genuine people in E Anglia than anywhere else. Including Makat!

Thanks Slow hand - you are so kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not gunna lie I have found east Anglia harder to get a meet than other places I have lived, just seems to be less selection than in other more populated places

probably doesn't help that we are classed as 'east midlands' too which makes finding people nearby harder sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no problems - the main one for us is finding a single guy that won't let us down"

I know how you feel..but we have now got lots of single reliable sexy men that we could call on and if they say they will be there then yes they turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no problems - the main one for us is finding a single guy that won't let us down"
seriously!!! Aha

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