FabSwingers.com forum: How many times...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message?

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By *ifornowCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

You are never obliged to message anyone. People will view profiles for many different reasons and just because they do, it doesn't mean that they are interested in you. If they are interested then they may wink or write to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obliged? Your making it sound like your doing them a favour lol

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message?

Yes message and block it cuts out the middle man. I would say ten looks equals one message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message?

are you interested in them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple (fairly local) who check my profile 2 or 3 times a day..... They been doing it for months. Do I have a stalker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few regulars who look several times a day, 2 can't message as they're not verified but that's easily rectified if they really wanted to contact me, the others could if they wanted to but I guess they don't. I look at profiles and fab pics but it doesn't mean I'm interested in a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a couple (fairly local) who check my profile 2 or 3 times a day..... They been doing it for months. Do I have a stalker?"

Check the trees opposite your house and red dots flickering around the room.

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over a year ago

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

A place nearby

Someone looked at me once haha.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Sometimes we check profiles just for a laugh.

We do use stealth mode though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't even know how many are looking in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message?

Block them they are vampires that do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...does someone have to look at my profile before I'm obliged to message them?! Or should I just block them now to save them the trouble after I send them a message?

You post in the forums a lot. People sometimes look at the profile of posters. It does not mean they fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not obliged! If they're interested, they'll message you surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like browsing in the forums and sometimes check out profiles just to see who is posting. Doesnt mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like browsing in the forums and sometimes check out profiles just to see who is posting. Doesnt mean anything."

this for me to, to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont message them . Simple

they will let you know if they are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a couple (fairly local) who check my profile 2 or 3 times a day..... They been doing it for months."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think my original post may have been taken more seriously than I intended...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Have a very sexy couple from up North that views me every couple of days (for the last 3months)...but I cannot message them as I'm 2 years out of their age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer to that is 42. I have thought very carefully about it.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

Twelvety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to be looked at ( sigh ) if only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh to be looked at ( sigh ) if only

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stop that woe is me Mr.Toshn

Her

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By *sThunderThighsWoman
over a year ago

Toy Land

"Oh to be looked at ( sigh ) if only

Oh I look at you every hour on the hour !!! You just don't know it !!!!

oh shite !!!! You do now !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why people get arsey about it, I quite like the idea that someone looks at my profile repeatedly. It's a back handed compliment. Also the criteria and aggressive rants you read in some profiles is enough to make anyone who lacks a little confidence scared to message. I don't see what harm it does. But also for those who simply don't have the skills to compose an appealing message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obliged? Your making it sound like your doing them a favour lol

Her"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"The answer to that is 42. I have thought very carefully about it. "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We used to message serial lookers to say hello after a while..that seemed to make them disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a few regulars who look several times a day, 2 can't message as they're not verified but that's easily rectified if they really wanted to contact me, the others could if they wanted to but I guess they don't. I look at profiles and fab pics but it doesn't mean I'm interested in a meet. "

You don't have to be verified to message....unless you have blocked the option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the new way to 'cold call' persistently being asked for something you don't want. lol :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh to be looked at ( sigh ) if only

Your on my hotlist! Trust that your looked at lol

I'm positive I shouldn't have said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to be verified to message....unless you have blocked the option?"

I know. I've blocked non verified members.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"We used to message serial lookers to say hello after a while..that seemed to make them disappear.

That would never work on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The answer to that is 42. I have thought very carefully about it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have people who look at me regularly. Some could message, some can't. It is a bit strange especially if they look daily and more than once a day but it's their choice but a shame they don't as I think we might get on but I don't message them as it's their choice and I respect that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look to see who's looked any more but I used to have a few that looked every day several times but never messaged,my filters are open so they could message they choose not to so I would never make a fool of myself and message them first

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I just joined as a site supporter and had a little look at who looked at me. Actually after looking I would have preferred to have not known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just joined as a site supporter and had a little look at who looked at me. Actually after looking I would have preferred to have not known.

and theres that fact too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a couple (fairly local) who check my profile 2 or 3 times a day..... They been doing it for months. Do I have a stalker?"

Sounds like you are their wank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever pleases you mate

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