FabSwingers.com forum: profile help please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can someone look at our profile and give us some advice please.

we thought it was ok and it says my hubby is 100% straight (and yes he really is).although we have nothing against couples with a bi male ( we do have some people on our friends list with bi males)as long as they respect our boundaries like we would respect theirs.we have had bi males asking to play with my hubby. dont know if somewhere in our profile it says something that gives the impression he would play with a man or vice versa.

advice please and thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is, there are people that lie about their sexuality, I'm sure they have their reasons, but that has a bit of a knock on effect where people feel the need to ask rather to be sure.

Don't let it dishearten you, at least people are making sure rather than assuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's nothing wrong with your profile,its just knobheads that can't read or people just hoping to push there luck.we get it too.

happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Problem is, there are people that lie about their sexuality, I'm sure they have their reasons, but that has a bit of a knock on effect where people feel the need to ask rather to be sure.

Don't let it dishearten you, at least people are making sure rather than assuming.

thanks, dont mind people asking because we know there are people who lie about lots of things but its the way some do it, they dont ask politely they just say they will suck his c**k and i will enjoy watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's S's 'cute arse' that's attracting them ..

Mind you, being bi myself, a cute arse does nothing for me, but to others - who knows.

Try saying that he has a fat flabby arse and see if it makes any difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Problem is, there are people that lie about their sexuality, I'm sure they have their reasons, but that has a bit of a knock on effect where people feel the need to ask rather to be sure.

Don't let it dishearten you, at least people are making sure rather than assuming.

Hmmm, we must be lucky as we've never experienced this, we have been asked, hence it stating on our profile there is no doubt that the male is straight here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont do younger vs older thing, had some lad message me and he said that some people say that but they dont really mean it, got very indignant when i said that i meant it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile clearly says I am straight, but I get quite a lot of messages from gay/bi males asking if I'd be interested, some polite, others not so! There's even a few of these messages from guys who are straight on their profile which I find a tad odd.

I just accept it will happen and reply saying thanks but no thanks, and good luck with whoever they're after..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of swinging!

You could have straight in flashing, neon lights you'd STILL get bi/gay men contacting you. Some don't read profiles, if they do they disregard it because THEY like what they see, ergo you MUST reciprocate!

I'm looking for a local, white, straight, single, sub male over 45.

It doesn't stop men from Lands End to John O'Groats, Dom, young, married, ethnics etc contacting me!

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