FabSwingers.com forum: how can i tell if my girlfriends a virgin???

By *illy big knob OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

When i try penetration there seems to be something stopping me from entering fully and she says it hurts.......any advice would be greatful thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be physiological

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to take the Tampon out..oh and you could always ask her

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask her if she is a virgin

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

a good start would be ask her! lol

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By *dam246Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Send her to me

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By *illy big knob OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Ive asked her and she just goes silent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive asked her and she just goes silent "

Well you do say your _illy big knob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she goes silent then its a blatant yes geez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could be physiological "

psychological

Fuck knows what happened there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could be physiological

psychological

Fuck knows what happened there. "

It could be either or neither

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not a very good start to a relationship if you haven't even been able to discuss if she's a virgin or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Are you trying to fuck her belly button?

2. Has she got a midget already in there?

3. Was she a bloke and the doc never gave her a deep pussy during the op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try some foreplay before shoving it in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youve already penetrated her is that not having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try some foreplay before shoving it in there

Or Castrol GTX

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Ive asked her and she just goes silent "

mmmm not the best of starts to a relationship we would say, if your not able to talk about that you may be heading for a rocky time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did remove the wrapping before inflating her ?

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gf but I want reg fb? This smells of I'm going to big myself up n sound really cool sorry if I got it wrong but so many guys chat shit on here trying to sound good for attention your 35 and on a swingers site I find it hard to believe u wouldn't have sorted this matter with her yourself and even harder to believe your dating a shy virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gf but I want reg fb? This smells of I'm going to big myself up n sound really cool sorry if I got it wrong but so many guys chat shit on here trying to sound good for attention your 35 and on a swingers site I find it hard to believe u wouldn't have sorted this matter with her yourself and even harder to believe your dating a shy virgin"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got to be honest, a 35 year old on a sex site asking for advice on how to tell if his girlfriend is a virgin sounds iffy to me too, surely a mature male would know the signs of a inexperienced woman who needs things to be taken slowly??

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"When i try penetration there seems to be something stopping me from entering fully and she says it hurts.......any advice would be greatful thanks"

Ask her to take her tights off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive asked her and she just goes silent "

Repeat the question

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Maybe try some foreplay before shoving it in there

Or Castrol GTX "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You did remove the wrapping before inflating her ?

Gimp"

...and again...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Maybe try some foreplay before shoving it in there

Or Castrol GTX "

I was thinking more "lard".... but GTX would do.....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I thought I was being cynical!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

buy a virgin detector kit.

you get one pot of blue paint, one pot of green paint and a baseball bat.

paint one of your nuts blue, and the other one green. when you show her your painted nuts, if she says "i've never seen nuts that colour before" you hit her with the baseball bat

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"When i try penetration there seems to be something stopping me from entering fully and she says it hurts.......any advice would be greatful thanks"

If it is really difficult to penetrate her she COULD have a medical/psychologocal condition, I emphasise could because I don't now either of you and I'm not a doctor.

What she needs is sensitive handling and medical help, not questioning as to if she's a virgin or not.

I suggest sitting down with her with a glass of wine and talk, tell her she can trust you (if she can) and ask her to confide in you...it might take a few goes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"When i try penetration there seems to be something stopping me from entering fully and she says it hurts.......any advice would be greatful thanks"

There could be any number of reasons Billy.

It's best you find out what makes penetrations comfortable and make sure you are ticking all the boxes.

Good luck xxx

P.S. Is her name Mary ? Just sayin' like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive asked her and she just goes silent "

Dear Deirdre,

I am a grown man with a g/f I don't know how to talk to...ffs man, get her to talk to if not you then a doctor and if she really has a problem it needs attention. Now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all in the mind,

I'm not sure if its her mind or his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try some foreplay before shoving it in there

Or Castrol GTX

I was thinking more "lard".... but GTX would do.....

A sprinkling of sharp sand in the Lard will spice things up..

Allegedly

Gimp

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok the man is asking for advice, not to be bitched at or have his profile torn apart or to have a disgusting comment implying a vile act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP....it could be for many reasons why you can't penetrate but it might not mean it is because she is a virgin as you probably know.

Are you using foreplay first...is she relaxed enough....has she had any problems before etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok the man is asking for advice, not to be bitched at or have his profile torn apart or to have a disgusting comment implying a vile act

Who's implying a vile act????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife was like this ok we had sex butbit would hurt her ended up with three major operations lazer of the out side womb lazered half her cervix away. And done a sterilisation.

Turned out during pmt the blood flow wasnt running right and caused clots the size of tennis balls instead of the nornal pmt.

All come down to deteraiting cervix. To this day the ops have stoped the pmt altogether . Without having a hiysterectomy.

This is just our situation that happened two years ago.

Id sit down and chat

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Have you not seen teeth ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you not seen teeth ? "

Ouch the tought of it now if we on to the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask her..?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Ok the man is asking for advice, not to be bitched at or have his profile torn apart or to have a disgusting comment implying a vile act

Who's implying a vile act????"

The post I removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok the man is asking for advice, not to be bitched at or have his profile torn apart or to have a disgusting comment implying a vile act

Who's implying a vile act????

The post I removed"

No he is asking for attention not advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to doc

Or have a nice meal, chill and relax

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Watch the wicker man, if she goes white when you ask for matches and kindling.... She is.

Good luck x

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Ah sex education amazing we never had such good fortune to be experts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God damn, we love this place!! How much fun more fun, with the exception of deep throat, can anybody have apart from trolling these forums!!

Y'all make us laaaaaarrrrrffff x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she has druids waiting out side her house with a pile of wood and a match every time there's a full moon then yes she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op are you fully hard at the time?

As if you've lost a bit from the a break putting condom on etc you'll find it hard to get it in as you'll just bend and pop out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest sitting down with her with a glass of wine and talk, tell her she can trust you (if she can) and ask her to confide in you...it might take a few goes.

Given he's on here and meeting I'm gonna take that as a no she can't lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I suggest sitting down with her with a glass of wine and talk, tell her she can trust you (if she can) and ask her to confide in you...it might take a few goes.

Given he's on here and meeting I'm gonna take that as a no she can't lol"

Well I very occasionally like to give people the benefit of the doubt....unlike me I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP sounds like a real catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You did remove the wrapping before inflating her ?

Gimp"
Now that tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she knows you are on here....that might make her tense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of points.

1 you have to have a girlfriend first!

2 you then have to get undressed.

3 you then have to get her undressed.

4 goes quiet when asked if a virgin? Probably trying to remember where you are on the bedpost list.

5 as for being tight, well maybe she just plain old simples does not like you! ( if she is real that is)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a swinger site , had meets , found a virgin for a girlfriend..... still on a swinger site ???!!! Just a few things to think about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the OP was deleting his account 6 weeks ago

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Who else remembers girls reading "Just 17"?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i try penetration there seems to be something stopping me from entering fully and she says it hurts.......any advice would be greatful thanks"

Simple bit of advice. Speak to her not us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couple of points.

1 you have to have a girlfriend first!

2 you then have to get undressed.

3 you then have to get her undressed.

4 goes quiet when asked if a virgin? Probably trying to remember where you are on the bedpost list.

5 as for being tight, well maybe she just plain old simples does not like you! ( if she is real that is)"

Pretty sure a couple is 2 but then again this is fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a virgin too touched for the very first time

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"When i try penetration there seems to be something stopping me from entering fully and she says it hurts.......any advice would be greatful thanks

There could be any number of reasons Billy.

It's best you find out what makes penetrations comfortable and make sure you are ticking all the boxes.

Good luck xxx

P.S. Is her name Mary ? Just sayin' like."

PMSL. ...... Sorry but this made me cry with laughter. Note to self stop laughing at serious problem.....

Fucking brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shakes head in a slow sad sort of way.

hope the OP is joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his girlfriend has found out he has an account on here?

Seriously tho, talk to her.

Maybe she suffers from virginitsm

I think that's how you spell it.

It's a condition where the muscles contract tightly sometimes causing the male to become stuck inside.

Maybe she nervous

Never mind sure you must have a harem of luvvies wanting you,hence why you on here and have a girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the Op and all the posts.... I needed cheering up. Pmsl YDFB.

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By *hefockkersMan
over a year ago

york

Ask her to remove her tights!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When intimacy begins, primarily use a sex toy on her to 'loosen' her up (a dildo or similar - NOT nipple clamps!).

Jools_fun: is their REALLY such a condition? I previously thought 'vaginism' there was a disruption in her supplies of lubricant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When intimacy begins, primarily use a sex toy on her to 'loosen' her up (a dildo or similar - NOT nipple clamps!).

Jools_fun: is their REALLY such a condition? I previously thought 'vaginism' there was a disruption in her supplies of lubricant."

Apparently there is the vaginal muscles tighten causing them to clamp tight

It has been known that people have been stuck together and taken to hospital that way

Also sometimes the muscles contract prior to intercourse preventing entry

All usually due to physiological reason's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You did remove the wrapping before inflating her ?

Gimp"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read Bob Monkhouses autobiography.

In one chapter he tells how he went on a date with one of the chorus girls.

When he got her in bed and mounted her he noticed that his cock would only go so far in no matter what position he tried.

When he asked her why she was so 'shallow' she replied " That was as deep as they could make it!", she was a transsexual.

Apparently this was a true tale, as was his experience with Frankie Howard........but that's another story!

XXXX

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