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By *am Valentine OP Woman
over a year ago

Worthing

Just changed from a couple to a single woman and was looking for some feedback on my profile!

Any suggestions?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My only bit of advice is to male it a bit more positive there are lots of do's and don't which you can add it but add a bit of humour into them and it won't sound so much of a rant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gissa Shag n that will get a decent Veri on there

Gimp

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By *am Valentine OP Woman
over a year ago

Worthing

Ok thanks I will do some adjusting! X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's very ranty and negative, doesn't seem to invite anyone or say who/what you are looking for, sorry, just my feedback.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It comes across as very negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH, its pretty negative, but I like the pic with the white knickers!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol"

of course it matters you put peanuts in you will get monkeys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First sentence comes across quite negative and shouty with the caps.

If people message you from far away just delete the message, I'm pretty sure they wouldn't even take that opening statement in board any way when they message you.

And more pictures showing a bit more of you, like your body and such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does read negatively and ranty in my opinion,, lots of 'i wont do' 'do not' and the 'i wont entertain'

rather than focus on the negative you could word it more positive

'i prefer to meet locally as this suits my circumstances and being a single female prefer to meet gents who are verified as its more reassuring'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I could do with updating my profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

of course it matters you put peanuts in you will get monkeys...

Hey, Cheeky Monkey, fancy a nibble on me nuts or 'nana???

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

of course it matters you put peanuts in you will get monkeys...

Hey, Cheeky Monkey, fancy a nibble on me nuts or 'nana???"

Oooooooo waaaas oooo waaaa of whatever sound a monkey makes I'll have a nibble on your nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol"

For most men that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

For most men that is."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

For most men that is."

For some men, a pulse is a bonus.... just so long as the corpse is still warm, it will suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

of course it matters you put peanuts in you will get monkeys...

Hey, Cheeky Monkey, fancy a nibble on me nuts or 'nana???"

Haha sorry. I ain't a nut nibbler lol

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I understand why it is aggressive in tone.....men just dont pay attention.

Mainly because they don't read profiles!

I like the 'insert a word etc in title' method because it means you know they have read about you.

Then you can concentrate on making your profile attractive to the kind of men you like rather than being a Rottweiler to those you dont.

Just my opinion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think it matters what a lady puts in her profile.

If it has a pulse............. Lol

For most men that is.

For some men, a pulse is a bonus.... just so long as the corpse is still warm, it will suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly all your verifications are for a couple. Could you not get them to re-verify you as a single and remove the couples ones?

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By *am Valentine OP Woman
over a year ago

Worthing

Right I have made a couple of adjustments now! Hopefully it is a bit better! Suppose it will be a work in progress!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vast improvement, good luck with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right I have made a couple of adjustments now! Hopefully it is a bit better! Suppose it will be a work in progress! "

Miles better. Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile, have fun

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I agree it is much better.

Have you thought about putting in what you ARE looking for.

I dont mind when a lady says...no bald men or shaven please....as this just ensures I dont bother them.

If I see 'big manly man' then I message them.

It may cut down on unwanted men.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You've written 'conservation' where you mean 'conversation'.

Hope that is helpful!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's much better now go and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads well to me, how far is Shorham from Woodford Green ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Nearly all your verifications are for a couple. Could you not get them to re-verify you as a single and remove the couples ones? "

The couples ones are less of a problem than the one singing the praises of the ex from a solo meet of his!

You might want to lose that one!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

The couples ones are less of a problem than the one singing the praises of the ex from a solo meet of his!

You might want to lose that one!

I thought that as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the first pic is very sexy an suggestive

and also the boob one

But I may be in a minority here but I think I'd leave the other harder ones in friends ! A lot of women don't like cock shots immediately an believe it or not some men think similar

also I think a lot of blokes would read all the text an think no chance ! Hope this helps

I couldn't privately reply cos of the age restriction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its very good, great pictures and straight to the point maybe a little more about interest and preferences but thats about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adjust the text as suggested by many. Your pics are a strong point tho...some very interesting angles etc...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you want a connection but tbh there's nothing on your profile that a guy could use to start a conversation about something other than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice profile op, only problem is your to far away hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gissa Shag n that will get a decent Veri on there

Gimp"

Lol are you the swinging equivalent of an ambulance chaser?

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