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bi or straight....hmmm

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By *iziz32 OP   Man
over a year ago

Camberley

here is my problem

do i put bi or straight on my profile..

i dont "like" guys really, oh if there is no fem available then i have no problem playing with the boys.

apparently i give some very good deepthroat...who knew!!

i'll happily "sit in his lap" so to speak.

if he is sexing up a lady and slips out, hey i'll put that back there for you mate...lol

i've met two or three couples for "social" where the m is straight, his conversation suggested he was worried that i would be looking at his dick or even coming within six feet of it...lol. the fem half was well up for some fun, but declined as the guy was not comfortable with a "bi"

so....what do i do? i like having bi on my profile, its honest, but it has lost me some fun too.

any help would be great

gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should stay honest. There are plenty of people out there who will play, you just gotta play the waiting game x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to put the truth. There isn't an option to tick, but in your profile put, bi playful or horny bi

We are more put off by guys that say straight, message us, then say they are bi.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I prefer bi peeps.... Just be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and deal with the flack , me and the misses had to postpone a meet and the guy replied .. Kinda glad was worried you would just come meet and fuck me up the ass... Really bi-curious not full on , and the phrase " thus does detest to much " comes to mind..://

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

we also have bi on our profile and yes will agree it does block the odd meet or 2 but then in honesty would you really want to meet them any way.

my husband once replied to somebody who was horrified that he was bi with so your telling me your missus is so ugly I will only want to fuck you, strange we never heard off them again lol.

so stay true to yourself and when those meets do come they will be far better ones xxxxxxxxxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

be true to yourself...... and stand proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi only for cpl i try tv and i don't want any more lol atm but i like do bj but i don't Meet with single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im bi only for cpl i try tv and i don't want any more lol atm but i like do bj but i don't Meet with single male "
so im bi or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with your guns so to speak. If there uncomfortable with you being bi. It's their issue. By default you may get less meets, but quality far out ways quantity in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain.

I'm bi but never been penetrated and never penetrated anyone else (due to size) but I love giving head. I put curious on my profile in case family see my profile as I'm not out.

But curious still shows I'm interested in cock but If never wanted to kiss a guy.

But single men thing I'm just after them. I don't say a thing about being bi and yet they feel I'm just going to be all over their bits. Please!!! I'm just open minded and like to please.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Be honest, more couples will probably prefer you as a bi guy. If you're doing anything involving 2 or more men a man who is frightened of touching another man is a bit of a nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest...makes it really hard work for us to filter through the str8's that are in fact bi (and our block list is growing daily)

You will find plenty of people on here that are up for meets with bi or bi curious on a profile.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"here is my problem

do i put bi or straight on my profile..

i dont "like" guys really, oh if there is no fem available then i have no problem playing with the boys.

apparently i give some very good deepthroat...who knew!!

i'll happily "sit in his lap" so to speak.

if he is sexing up a lady and slips out, hey i'll put that back there for you mate...lol

i've met two or three couples for "social" where the m is straight, his conversation suggested he was worried that i would be looking at his dick or even coming within six feet of it...lol. the fem half was well up for some fun, but declined as the guy was not comfortable with a "bi"

so....what do i do? i like having bi on my profile, its honest, but it has lost me some fun too.

any help would be great

gary"

Thats concise why not put those details on your profile it gives a clear picture of you.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon


"Be honest...makes it really hard work for us to filter through the str8's that are in fact bi (and our block list is growing daily)

You will find plenty of people on here that are up for meets with bi or bi curious on a profile.

Good luck!"

you better block me

there you go that was an easy one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've put bisexual on my profile. The hormones/genetics/too much porn have me confused at times as I often play straight but also happy with interacting sexually with a guy in an mmf. Don't fancy men, don't want anal, don't want to meet a guy on my own. So I decided I was straight with some bi-ness as opposed to bi with some straightness. It doesn't matter what label I give myself. I'm just me. I know what I like and I meet people who like the same. I sometimes wonder how my fab swinging life would be if I were straight. Would I get any meets? No idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest...makes it really hard work for us to filter through the str8's that are in fact bi (and our block list is growing daily)

You will find plenty of people on here that are up for meets with bi or bi curious on a profile.

Good luck!

you better block me

there you go that was an easy one "

Blocked, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I saw 20 penis pics there lol

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"I prefer bi peeps.... Just be honest x"

Well hello you

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Bi nice to suck a nice cock xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading your post it is simple and clear cut. You are BI....end of.

Straight men don't ever, under any circumstances deep throat another guy.

We are often bi tolerant...in group situations there will be close contact ... Bound to be.

But any guy tries to put a cock in my mouth, or slip one up my jacksie had better have an appetite for hospital food.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"Reading your post it is simple and clear cut. You are BI....end of.

Straight men don't ever, under any circumstances deep throat another guy.

We are often bi tolerant...in group situations there will be close contact ... Bound to be.

But any guy tries to put a cock in my mouth, or slip one up my jacksie had better have an appetite for hospital food."

To be fair if anyone tries to do anything without another persons permission there's a word for it, be that male, female, tv/ts, straight, bi or gay!

Simple fact is no means no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this post for real straught or bi well if you dont know then what can we say

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is this post for real straught or bi well if you dont know then what can we say "

For the distraught, I imagine. I do know. I'm complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest...makes it really hard work for us to filter through the str8's that are in fact bi (and our block list is growing daily)

You will find plenty of people on here that are up for meets with bi or bi curious on a profile.

Good luck!

you better block me

there you go that was an easy one

Blocked, thanks! "

Sorry for being dim but are us bi people blocking M&M or those if us that pretend to be straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I am on here is for bi fun, hopefully with a Cpl but M ok as well. My wife just doesn't want anything to do with bi fun and she made that quite clear. So just have to go it alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does everything have to be labelled !!!!! We've all had a same sex crush of some sorts in our lives

A profile we checked out earlier.. Woman bi man straight...

Any bi or gay man attempting to contact us you will be blocked .. Knob end x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First you should be honest.

I know it feels like you lose some meets by not putting straight down, But you may gain some (very good!) meets by putting bi down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We specifically look for bi guys as that's what we're after, imo you should be honest and if you're willing to play with guys that makes you bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy. You miss out on a few meets because the hubby is iffy with it but the way I look at it, I want to meet people 100% comfortable with us just having fun. Someone worried or scared about me is going to result in a bad meet for me.

Also remember it swings both ways. I pretty much always turn down guys with "straight" on their profile.

End of the day its just more fun if you get on, can relax and take the experience for what it is.

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