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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

unsure where to post so try here as well

Anyone got any advice on different ways to humiliate or punish my hubby? I'm new to it all but we both want to do this. but I'm struggling on ideas!! and I don't want him suggesting as I feel I'm not he is leading and I don't want that! thanks for any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without more details of what you're after it's hard to suggest anything.

You describe yourselves as a cuckold couple; does this mean he's in chastity for long periods of time? Are you playing with guys in front of him? On your own?

Does he want your bull to be part of the punishment/humiliation?

Are you considering making him uncomfortable by making him wear women's underwear or clothing? A little 'unwelcome' bi play?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have made him wear a chastity device before. But not at moment. I play alone! We have children so difficult to have people around. bi play not an option. but I'm open to any suggestions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and I make him wear panties everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chastity is a great tease. When we play with chastity, and yes it is a game to us rather than a lifestyle, once it's on she chooses how many dice to throw.

The number she then throws will decided the number of days chaste or number of guys she'll have before my release. In our case it can also be the number of guys I'll have to entertain too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We do the dice at moment it's the number of days/weeks till I allow him sex! with a condom on though!!!!!!

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Put him on a collar and lead and make him crawl.

Make him kneel on all fours in front of you and use him as a foot rest.

Speech restriction

Tell him he's worthless etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dice can be cruel! We have twelve.

We let chance choose everything sometimes;

Tossed a coin to choose one or two dice.

It chose two so she threw two dice to choose how many dice would choose my lockup duration.

She then threw the seven dice.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want him suggesting as I feel I'm not he is leading and I don't want that!"

I suggest you change your attitude here - if he has ideas totally squeeze them out of him. You're still in control because you choose which ideas to implement, when and how. Plus you can up the verbal humiliation a notch when doing to him the silly and perverted things he specifically requested - how pathetic

Hopefully the more you do the more ideas/ inspiration you will get. But do use his ideas, you're in it to please him too so what he suggests is more likely to work for him than what a stranger suggests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Put him on a collar and lead and make him crawl.

Make him kneel on all fours in front of you and use him as a foot rest.

Speech restriction

Tell him he's worthless etc

I do have a collar and lead may try that!!

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By *panker53Man
over a year ago

leeds

have you met another guy for him to b forced to watch or even help get you dressed to go out to meet a guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want him suggesting as I feel I'm not he is leading and I don't want that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put him in chastity and his panties and go and meet a guy. Ring your hubby as your having sex so he has to listen to you getting fucked by another guy. Maybe send him the odd picture. He will be at home and locked up and not able to play with his locked cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dice can be cruel! We have twelve.

We let chance choose everything sometimes;

Tossed a coin to choose one or two dice.

It chose two so she threw two dice to choose how many dice would choose my lockup duration.

She then threw the seven dice.....

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sounds fun!! dice are fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Put him in chastity and his panties and go and meet a guy. Ring your hubby as your having sex so he has to listen to you getting fucked by another guy. Maybe send him the odd picture. He will be at home and locked up and not able to play with his locked cock"
think I'm going to invest in a new cage any suggestions on the best ones??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punishment? As in pain?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Punishment? As in pain?"
pain yes anything! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever taken him along to watch you? You could lock up his cock and take him on your next meet. Make him watch from the corner wearing just panties.

Tell him he has to thank the guy for servicing you after.

If the guy is ok with it you could then take cucks ass with your strapon in front of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest punishment is to just go out and not tell him where you are going or who you are meeting. His mind will go into overdrive!! Even if it's just a coffee/drink with friends. If you do meet a guy take naughty pictures and maybe send him 1 every few days.

With regards to a device we once bought a nice pink silicon one from ebay for a slave we had. It was lightweight and describe and he was able to wee and shower and was so was ideal. Keep him locked and then unlock and really edge him close to orgasam and lock him up again until he completes certain tasks for you. Maybe milk him with prostate play and don't touch him cock directly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever taken him along to watch you? You could lock up his cock and take him on your next meet. Make him watch from the corner wearing just panties.

Tell him he has to thank the guy for servicing you after.

If the guy is ok with it you could then take cucks ass with your strapon in front of him. "
mainly meet alone as struggle for babysitters but I use a strap on regularly on him. and he is always in panties! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The biggest punishment is to just go out and not tell him where you are going or who you are meeting. His mind will go into overdrive!! Even if it's just a coffee/drink with friends. If you do meet a guy take naughty pictures and maybe send him 1 every few days.

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sounds interesting! tasks any ideas or suggestions on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever taken him along to watch you? You could lock up his cock and take him on your next meet. Make him watch from the corner wearing just panties.

Tell him he has to thank the guy for servicing you after.

If the guy is ok with it you could then take cucks ass with your strapon in front of him. mainly meet alone as struggle for babysitters but I use a strap on regularly on him. and he is always in panties! !"

Perhaps next time you get a sitter you could use him as something to be bent over as you get fucked. That way he feels every thrust and how you respond to it.

I sat in a corner seat with my lady laid back on me as she took a couple of guys one after another in chams. I could look down over her shoulder and see them inside her and feel her body taking the pounding. It was very erotic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever taken him along to watch you? You could lock up his cock and take him on your next meet. Make him watch from the corner wearing just panties.

Tell him he has to thank the guy for servicing you after.

Perhaps next time you get a sitter you could use him as something to be bent over as you get fucked. That way he feels every thrust and how you respond to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send him to a shop to buy himself some panties.

He needs to take pictures in a public places of him wearing panties.

Make him go out plugged.

Wank into a glass and drink his own cum?

Get him to clean you up with his tongue after you have received a facial / pearl necklace from another guy.

Buy some nipple clamps, spanking paddles and canes. Verbally abuse him x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Really this is only restricted by what you dare to do.

Be openly flirty at work. See if a guy will try to have an affair with you. Have a regular bf. Arrange a date for a night when he is to be released. So preferably a Saturday. You could spend hours getting all sexily dressed. He is looking forward to his release. Then you release him but as he comes to kiss you, you stop him and remind him you promised to release him not fuck him. The preparation was not for him but a sexy fella you have been chatting to at work. Does not matter if it's a guy off the net.

Then get him to fetch your shoes and go.

Don't answer calls or texts from him. When you get back tell him how wonderful it was. How sexy the guy was and when you plan to meet next. But do not play with hubby sexually.

But tease him mercilessly with your outfit choices. Take him shopping with you as you choose a nee outfit for your new fella.

There are plenty of worsening things to do. The key will be him not knowing if it's still a game or is this now his life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Send him to a shop to buy himself some panties.

He needs to take pictures in a public places of him wearing panties.

Make him go out plugged.

Wank into a glass and drink his own cum?

Get him to clean you up with his tongue after you have received a facial / pearl necklace from another guy.

Buy some nipple clamps, spanking paddles and canes. Verbally abuse him x"
will try these ideas thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really this is only restricted by what you dare to do.

Then get him to fetch your shoes and go.

Don't answer calls or texts from him. When you get back tell him how wonderful it was. How sexy the guy was and when you plan to meet next. But do not play with hubby sexually.

But tease him mercilessly with your outfit choices. Take him shopping with you as you choose a nee outfit for your new fella.

There are plenty of worsening things to do. The key will be him not knowing if it's still a game or is this now his life.

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love the idea of whether it's a game or life!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He loves pain and to be humiliated but struggling on ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex once invited 4 of her friends around , they did not know what we was into . She also invited a bloke around . And went upstairs to our bed and stated playing with him , while I was sat with her friends being humiliated by there comments and sniggers . We could all hear her and the bed going and they could see I was hard . Afterwards they come down and all sat drinking , while I did the fetching and carrying . I was so humiliated but turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unsure where to post so try here as well

When you have a meet with your husband present make him feed the other guys cock into your pussy.

Have your husband lick your clit as you get fucked from behind. As he does that tell him to watch how a real man fucks you.

If you bareback once the guy has cum get your husband to lick your pussy clean. If you don't bareback get the guy to cum over your arse and get your husband to lick it up.

When you are being fucked use verbal humiliation. Tell your husband how much you are enjoying the other mans cock, tell him to watch how a real man fucks you, call your husband a useless wanker, get your husband to say out loud he is a useless fucker and cannot satisfy you, etc.

Use your husband as a fluffer. Get him to suck your lovers cock hard for you.

After you have finished having a fuck get your husband to suck your lovers cock clean.

Occasionally tease him. When you are out with friends or family call him a cuckold when there is a possibility a friend or family member may hear. Also do things like ask him if he has his knickers on. Make him squirm.

Openly flirt with his friends.

If you are out having drink get somebody to fuck you in the toilet. Make sure you leave some cum on your dress for everybody to see.

When you have a meet make your husband prepare you. Make him bathe, shave and dry you. Then make him dress you.

When you go on a meet make your husband say to your lovers "I am a useless fucker and cannot satisfy my wife. I have brought her here so you can show me how a real man fucks a woman."

Laugh, grin, giggle or shake your head in contempt every time you see your husbands dick.

Get a tattoo in prominent place that says something like slut. You can get a temporary one.

Make him get a tattoo that says cuckold.

Whenever you go out with him even if just for something mundane like food shopping always wear skimpy or revealing clothes.

Find other hotwives to out with.

From now on live life like a princess. Make your husband do all the cooking, cleaning, ironing, DIY, household bills, shopping, etc. Any important decisions like where you go out for a meal, where you go on holiday etc make sure you choose and not him.

Go to hotel bars and make your husband watch as you pick up some stranger to fuck you. Take him up to they guys hotel room with you. Put a blindfold on him and let him listen as he sits there in his frilly knickers.

If you are out and see a man you fancy make your husband go over and ask if he would like to fuck you.

Let men feel you up in public.

Do things with other men you have never done with your husband.

Fuck your husbands boss. Fuck your husbands friends. Of course make him watch.

Suck off a man in front of your husband and spit the cum in your husband’s mouth.

Make your husband lick your lovers asshole.

Make your husband wash and wax your lover’s car while you fuck in your bed.

Make your husband pick out and pay for gifts for your lovers.

Have your lovers humiliate your husband.

Bring home used condoms and give them to your husband. Make him drink the cum.

Make your husband thank your lovers for pleasuring you.

Make your husband pay for all items and services related to your fucking other men.

Tell your girlfriends your husband is a cuckold and you fuck other men a lot.

When out buying slut clothes, take your husband with you and make it clear to the sales staff that the clothes will be worn for other men, not your husband. Say things like, “Oh! my lover will love that my dear husband,” Or, “Mmm, my dear husband I know I can pick up a lot guys with that!”

Tell your lover you love him in front of your husband.

Get fucked on a webcam. As your lover fucks you make hubby sit there in only a pair of frilly knickers and a ball gag. Make sure people watching can see your husband. Maybe also give your husbands friends the website address so they can watch also.

If you are at bar and see a guy you want to fuck say out loudly to your husband so others can hear "I want to fuck that guy. Go and ask him if he wants to fuck me. Tell him I am a sexy slut and you cannot satisfy me"

Submit yourself to a master.

Get your lovers to fuck your husbands arse.

Get your lovers to masturbate and ejaculate over your husbands face.

Make him do all household chores wearing only frilly knickers.

Whenever you order pizza, get a parcel delivery, etc make your husband go to the door wearing only his frilly knickers.

Get your husband to sign a cuckold contract. Search Google for cuckold contract. Once he has signed it get it framed and put it up on a wall.

Take photos of your husband wearing his cock lock, frilly knickers etc. Show them to his friends and your friends.

Get your husband to video you when you are with your lovers. Show yours and his friends the videos. Post some videos on the internet.

If your husband is not with you when you are with your lover get him to send you a picture of his useless cock via his mobile so you can show your lover. Also phone your husband as you are being fucked so he can listen.

Tell your girlfriends any time they want some free pussy licking you will make your husband do it. After he has pleasured them get them to piss on him.

Piss on your husband.

Get your lovers to piss on your husband.

Save you lovers cum in condoms. When it is dinner time put the cum all over your husbands food.

If you are at a party suck a guy off while your husband is sitting down with friends or family. When you come back make sure you have some cum on your chin so everyone can see.

Openly call him names like little dick.

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio

"Put him on a collar and lead and make him crawl.

Make him kneel on all fours in front of you and use him as a foot rest.

Speech restriction

Tell him he's worthless etc

Doing all those while having a girlfriend or two over as well. Making him orally worship and service you and them if your ok with that, strap on fucking him in front of your gf's. Definitely doing all this in front of a Bull, making him fluff the Bull before he watches you take a good fucking from him. Making him kneal at the ready for the Bull to pull out of either of your holes to pump his thick warm load down hubby's throat if your both open to bi play. If so take him to a soana or abs or a gloryhole and force him to suck of a couple strangers as you watch and verbally abuse and humiliate him.

Wish you both much luck and intense fun.

Doing all those while having a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex once invited 4 of her friends around , they did not know what we was into . She also invited a bloke around . And went upstairs to our bed and stated playing with him , while I was sat with her friends being humiliated by there comments and sniggers . We could all hear her and the bed going and they could see I was hard . Afterwards they come down and all sat drinking , while I did the fetching and carrying . I was so humiliated but turned on "

I love this idea as other ladies even if not told will guess why they are there ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unsure where to post so try here as well

you can absoloutely milk this... tell him to do the dishes, housework and any other little jobs you cant be bothered to do and tell him you are getting off on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow how hot another one on my bucket list

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Cum denial is the best kind of punishment, force him to watch you or satisfy you and also like previously mentioned you can throw dice in with this type of play (say for example he rolls a 6 and gets to cum).

Also denying and forcing someone to cum in their boxers can be really humiliating. Other than that chastity is the way forward, working towards prolonged use (Look for a CB-6000 they are amazing).

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Come and have sex with me and Tina, and he can watch on skype

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

buy him a season ticket for Arsenal

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