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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I'm extremely new to this, an I get crazy nervous.

Does anyone have any tips on how to at least calm them down a tad?

Or even tips on how to stop thinkin too much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely new to this, an I get crazy nervous.

Does anyone have any tips on how to at least calm them down a tad?

Or even tips on how to stop thinkin too much lol "

Your Veri suggests you can manage this...! Perhaps have a small drink or two..? Think positive - dont worry what others think!! Have FUN...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really get to nervous, excited yes but not so much nervous just try and relax and enjoy

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By *ewexperience83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I can manage it really, just over think prior to a meet or whatever . I'm fine once I'm their though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely new to this, an I get crazy nervous.

Does anyone have any tips on how to at least calm them down a tad?

Or even tips on how to stop thinkin too much lol "

The nervousness and anticipation is part of the fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what you feel comfortable with. Maybe do a social just to start and see how you feel

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I get the collywobbles big time before a meet. Usually it's a case of me worrying that they will look like their pics or it really is them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the collywobbles big time before a meet. Usually it's a case of me worrying that they will look like their pics or it really is them lol "

Are you going to be nervous before you meet me on Sat? mwaaaahhhaaa

Seriously tho just relax and enjoy. See it as a new experience. If you don't like then at least you tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely new to this, an I get crazy nervous.

Does anyone have any tips on how to at least calm them down a tad?

Or even tips on how to stop thinkin too much lol

The nervousness and anticipation is part of the fun for me. "

Were a sensitive lot in Bury lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get nervous too, racing heart and generally a bit twitchy but it's all part of the experience, your body is getting into a heightened state of awareness, you'll certainly enjoy yourself if you get past it!

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Xanax is brilliant...

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

I'm always nervous when meeting new people & that's probably why I tend to meet the same people over again. That & because they eventually become good friends x

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Xanax is brilliant..."

Yeah, and strictly prescription only. If you need to be dropping Benzos before a meet, you need another hobby...

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Xanax is brilliant...

Yeah, and strictly prescription only. If you need to be dropping Benzos before a meet, you need another hobby..."

Straight to the point there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to get really nervous standing up on stage and singing...it was so bad it made my voice wobble nervously. Over time I pushed myself out the door and did a load of open mic nights. Slowly the period of nervousness went from 10 mins to 5 mins to 1 min to 10 secs. It was the same level of nervousness each time...but I got over it quicker.

So maybe practice is all you need? I hereby give you a prescription to do naughty things more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we still a few nerves but we say when westop getting them its time to stop - feel they add to it - usually go within minutes -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still get nervous but it tends to be the nerves you get when your excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A drink or two can help but beware......I think we have all met newbies who are so nervous they overdo the Dutch Courage and get out of their heads d*unk! Decide what you are nervous about....your body? Then choose low lighting! Your performance? Then avoid alcohol and remember how sexy you feel when fantasising about playing. Your relationship? Then only do this if it pleases you, not to please a partner. Being pushed into something unwelcome? Then establish a safe word or phrase that lets your partner know its time to stop. Nerves are fine and can add to the excitement if you control them so they become anticipation instead!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'm extremely new to this, an I get crazy nervous.

Does anyone have any tips on how to at least calm them down a tad?

Or even tips on how to stop thinkin too much lol

The nervousness and anticipation is part of the fun for me. "

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