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how come its hard to find a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and hubby been oncand of this site for three years and why is it so hard to get meets grrrrrr some one please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try telling people about you to start with............

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Me and hubby been oncand of this site for three years and why is it so hard to get meets grrrrrr some one please help "

Will reply later...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If you saw your profile would it make you rush for the keyboard or move on to someone else?

I haven't looked - but that's my usual advice.

Apart from that - socials, clubs and parties?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you meet 3 this year it sais why cant you meet them anymore and that's pretty good going lol x.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cos I like to meet new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I like to meet new people "

Go to some organised socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP

Take a look at your profile, is it bringing out the best of you?

Do you activity contact anyone? Or just wait for them to contact you?

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By *ida01Man
over a year ago

Kendal

I found things like that to! I have stopped contacting ladies now, I met about 6 socially and have found too mant liers on here, why can't people just be honest on this site? After all we all want the same, good safe clean fun

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I use Yello Pages...builders, electricians, roofers...I meet them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure but I have the same problem, I read profiles, send messages with pictures and nothing lol not even a polite no ta

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not sure but I have the same problem, I read profiles, send messages with pictures and nothing lol not even a polite no ta"

So what am I doing differently then? I have men, women Nd couples contacting me. I hardly ever send out any messages but always respond friendly to those who message me and sometimes it leads to sex sometimes it doesn't.

Is it your profile?

Is it your attitude?

Is it your message content?

Is it the fact that not everyone fancies sex with everyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this visit, youvet been on 3 months and had 4 veris (although some appear to be re-veris). But one suggests you go dogging so you could have had loads of unverified fun.

So I would suggest you aren't doing too badly and that the problem is your expectations are way too high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club. Lucky you ain't a single guy! But be patient it does happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In this visit, youvet been on 3 months and had 4 veris (although some appear to be re-veris). But one suggests you go dogging so you could have had loads of unverified fun.

So I would suggest you aren't doing too badly and that the problem is your expectations are way too high. "

We were on here before on diffrent profile so some from the past profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Join the club. Lucky you ain't a single guy! But be patient it does happen"

Dont know if other couples will agree on this but its gard for us couples to also find single bi females too. So id say on the single female count we in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In this visit, youvet been on 3 months and had 4 veris (although some appear to be re-veris). But one suggests you go dogging so you could have had loads of unverified fun.

So I would suggest you aren't doing too badly and that the problem is your expectations are way too high. "

Maybe you have a point are we expecting too much this time round on here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure but I have the same problem, I read profiles, send messages with pictures and nothing lol not even a polite no ta

So what am I doing differently then? I have men, women Nd couples contacting me. I hardly ever send out any messages but always respond friendly to those who message me and sometimes it leads to sex sometimes it doesn't.

Is it your profile?

Is it your attitude?

Is it your message content?

Is it the fact that not everyone fancies sex with everyone else?"

Yer could that be the problem. We gave wrote a profile for a single male on here sandpaper that was and looks ok tbh but writtin about your self we find is a bit harder to do so could ask for a return favour

Our attitude is go with the flow not pusshy sicial and any thing else is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I like to meet new people "

Then the club scene would be perfect for you.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I m not surprised you may find it a problem there maybe different reasons as to why a couple can t find meets to the single guys. its still difficult you ve potentially four personalities to contend with four people that need to be attracted to each other

Patience and perseverance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, fab is great its a good way to chat to people, have a perve and find out about events. However, and this isn't aimed specifically at the o.p. sitting on an inbox won't get you to where you want to be. The real world is where it's happening.

Clubs and socials are the best way to meet new people especially when you have been on here a bit and have exhausted local contacts. Swingers web sites and just a small part of a bigger scene and its well worth taking that into consideration.

To the o.p. it's not easy to write about yourselves, we ammend our profile constantly but feel its a little negative.

Your profile also comes across as a little negative, try writing a bit about each other, what appeals to you about your partner. As for meeting single women, join a very large Que you have to fend off single guys, other couples and single ladies so you really have to sell yourselves to appeal. What can you offer a single lady? Put that in your profile. Ultimately though clubs would be your best option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep agree with most on here Clubs and Socials are great to meet new people we do it alot and always have a great time.No preasure to play just a good chin wag and get to know people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep agree with most on here Clubs and Socials are great to meet new people we do it alot and always have a great time.No preasure to play just a good chin wag and get to know people "

Totally understand were you coming from but on tgat note y int we met you yet lol messaged privatley lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok, fab is great its a good way to chat to people, have a perve and find out about events. However, and this isn't aimed specifically at the o.p. sitting on an inbox won't get you to where you want to be. The real world is where it's happening.

Clubs and socials are the best way to meet new people especially when you have been on here a bit and have exhausted local contacts. Swingers web sites and just a small part of a bigger scene and its well worth taking that into consideration.

To the o.p. it's not easy to write about yourselves, we ammend our profile constantly but feel its a little negative.

Your profile also comes across as a little negative, try writing a bit about each other, what appeals to you about your partner. As for meeting single women, join a very large Que you have to fend off single guys, other couples and single ladies so you really have to sell yourselves to appeal. What can you offer a single lady? Put that in your profile. Ultimately though clubs would be your best option. "

Will have to give this a go

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