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"We have met some nice couples over the years but never fully swapped partners. Lately I've been thinking it would be hot to swap partners not because I want to have sex with another girl but it would amazing to see Sara with another guy. I fantasise about it a lot but wondered if I should keep it as a fantasy. Have other couples had this dilemma? " The only people who can answer this question are you two. This is where the talking bit comes in and the asking her if "not bothered" means "I'll do it if you want me to" or "I don't want to do it at all" and if either is the case would you be happy to go along with that? | |||
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"She is not that bothered. It's more me thinking about her with another guy. " Remember: communication. you've both got to be comfortable with what's going on, with your selves as well as each other (if that makes sense). Its too easy to see people end up feeling disappointed, "left out" or hurt feelings because "it wasn't what they wanted" so remember, communication and honesty. Imagine you're a team so you've both got to be on the same page. If either of you have doubts then leave it and re-visit/discuss another time. | |||
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"She is not that bothered. It's more me thinking about her with another guy. Remember: communication. you've both got to be comfortable with what's going on, with your selves as well as each other (if that makes sense). Its too easy to see people end up feeling disappointed, "left out" or hurt feelings because "it wasn't what they wanted" so remember, communication and honesty. Imagine you're a team so you've both got to be on the same page. If either of you have doubts then leave it and re-visit/discuss another time." I agree with this advise! I take it from your question and profile you are comfortable with Sara being naked with other men and having oral sex with them (giving and receiving). You seem to like the fantasy of watching Sara having penetration sex with another man; pleasuring another man and being pleasured by him. But then you have doubts about how you will feel when she is with another man. You will never know how you will feel or react until it actually happens. However, if that uncertainty is stronger than your desire to watch her with another man, then don't go there. If however, the thought of her being with another man is strong and the uncertainty is just a little twinge then find the right couple and go for it. I am assuming that when you say Sara is not bothered with it, you mean she is OK watching you with another woman and she likes the idea of her being with another man. Your wife, Sara, comes first; as you know! Good Luck! | |||
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