FabSwingers.com forum: Why do people want to meet us/you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Read profiles carefully. No point in messaging people who are not looking for certain types.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

People want to meet me because I'm sexually adventurous.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"People want to meet me because I'm sexually adventurous.

Er....so read thread titles properly and be sexually adventurous like wot I is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socialise, network...

One good party night keeps me going for a few months with follow on meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be happy and smiley and get ya ass out there !! Make an effort to meet people ! Be open and chat to all different people !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be happy and smiley and get ya ass out there !! Make an effort to meet people ! Be open and chat to all different people !! "

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be happy and smiley and get ya ass out there !! Make an effort to meet people ! Be open and chat to all different people !!

Spot on!"

This

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have no clue. But then I have no idea what specifically makes me want to meet someone else either; I just know it when I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

Don't think I've met enough to be giving out top tips but just being pleasent and honest seems to work a little.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I have no clue. But then I have no idea what specifically makes me want to meet someone else either; I just know it when I do."

Moi ?

No worries about saying no....had a beer.....unbreakable. ...ish

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm just me - some people like it some people don't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because I am very unique up here and I know why! But only to the few and far between!

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

People want to meet me now because I have said I am not meeting at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. Be yourself, it's all that you can do.

Pretty sure I just ripped off an Audioslave lyric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very good tap dancer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take myself too seriously... Or seriously at all

I'm genuinely interested in the people I (try to) chat to and not just what I can get out of it.

Otherwise, I haven't the foggiest, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles."

Seconded. Though in my case, it's more the latter.

I'm a real magnet for the Kodak hunters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.

I just feel used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.

I just feel used."

At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles."

What pickles do you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't narrow your preferences too much and don't have a real life..... makes finding suitable people real difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.

I just feel used.

At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol "

I'm interested in the singing toy cat. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.

What pickles do you have? "

Onions, eggs, cucumbers, cucamelons, cabbage, beetroot, beans. Also some kimchi which have started doing recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.

I just feel used.

At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol

I'm interested in the singing toy cat. ....

You should come round and see it. It makes a real racket and sings 'The Hills Are Alive' from start to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I knew there were people just putting up with a shag so they could make off with the pickled cucumbers.

I just feel used.

At least you have pickled cucumbers. I only have a half eaten Milky Bar and a singing toy cat to look at my place. Lol

I'm interested in the singing toy cat. ....

You should come round and see it. It makes a real racket and sings 'The Hills Are Alive' from start to finish

Just for that. ... I'm on my way

.... No other reason of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea , we struggle to find and get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea , we struggle to find and get meets

It's ok, I'm sure things will pick up soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea , we struggle to find and get meets

It's ok, I'm sure things will pick up soon

Hooe so lol

But in all seriousness , every ine of our veri's is from a play meet .

We just dont do socials , and in just over a year , the true tally is probably double this when dogging and party / club meets are taken in .

And before the high and mighty ' quality not quantity ' brigade start .... What's up with a quantity of quality ?

It's simple to get meets - you get out there and meet people in clubs , parties , dogging , look on meets advertised , and get on with it .

Too much chatting , socialising and thinking will slow your progress .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be positive, get out there and meet real people and realise there is more to swinging than fab. What is very important to treat people as you would like to be treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to meet me cos I got a 6pack and in peak performance in and out of the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want to meet me cos I got a 6pack and in peak performance in and out of the bedroom

And your very obvious modesty.

Let's not forget that now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't get meets stop looking for meets and socialise.

If that fails get a 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a great body, amazing long legs, a very sexy butt and my play skills aren't too bad either (-;

It's just a shame I can't meet everyone I want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a very good tap dancer

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Fred estaire and ginger rogers

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Maake good use of your Status...local people will get to know you, friends will keep you in mind and if hotlisted.....its another source of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles."
What about yer gherkins..

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By *r SmithMan
over a year ago

Manchester

First make a girl laugh. Then make her moan.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"I'm just me - some people like it some people don't. "

I liked it even though it was short, it was very sweet hehe!

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm just me - some people like it some people don't.

I liked it even though it was short, it was very sweet hehe!

Thanks gorgeous x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Have decent photos and a reasonable profile so people can decide if they fancy you and if they think there might be mutual interest.

Write an appealing first message. It needn't be long but it should be personal and give the recipient something to reply to.

When mailing a woman (if she's anything like me) be light-hearted to begin with and establish a bit of a rapport. Don't launch in with sex talk immediately. Engage their mind first. Sex talk may well fall flat with someone who isn't in the mood. Get them interested and in a receptive state first.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I'd say be yourself and don't pander to what you think may be the "liked" variety on here.

If someone likes you it'll come out in the way you are and if they don't then don't take it to heart

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By *oxiange38Couple
over a year ago

perth

Mmmmm

Wtf are we soooooo far away from ALL the good meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed my profile name as a hint lol

wrote my profile to attract party and club goers

get of my phat arse and go to partys and clubs, to meet people

at end of day im just me cant sit around waiting for a man I like. Much better to hunt them down for real and devour them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure if it's me or the lack of men down south. I have met a few who are nearish to me. I'm waiting for firsts with two of them, let alone seconds. But I don't understand why I get messages and interest from hundreds of miles away, knowing they won't travel down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.

What pickles do you have?

Onions, eggs, cucumbers, cucamelons, cabbage, beetroot, beans. Also some kimchi which have started doing recently.

You make Kimchi?!....

I adore Kimchi, send me your address and I'll bring a spoon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people have met me because I'm easygoing and genuine, no hidden agenda, and single with no complications. Oh and respectful.

Even have a laugh, now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever does

sniff sniff lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles.

What pickles do you have?

Onions, eggs, cucumbers, cucamelons, cabbage, beetroot, beans. Also some kimchi which have started doing recently.

You make Kimchi?!....

I adore Kimchi, send me your address and I'll bring a spoon!

Started last year when we had an excess cabbage - sounds disgusting, tastes good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..

We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Love gherkins. O keep the vinegar and have it on chips and smoked fish....lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pervsevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not sure if it's me or the lack of men down south. I have met a few who are nearish to me. I'm waiting for firsts with two of them, let alone seconds. But I don't understand why I get messages and interest from hundreds of miles away, knowing they won't travel down

Possibly so that they can have a discreet wank ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be friendly clean chatty and reliable .. Thats all we are and go ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think because were good fun it's not all about swinging from chandeliers and jumping of the wardrobe. Di

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite and eloquent with messages.

Correct spolling important too ha

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

Just be you, some will like it and some won't as with everything in life...be honest, respectful of others boundaries and keep it fun...don't be disheartened or bitter about knock backs and don't change anything about yourself to get meets, just be you, that's all you can be...oh and get your personality across through your profile instead of 'filling it in later'...oh and keep a diary if you haven't got one already haha! We all have our own preferences don't we so put them on your profile, make it clear about what you're like/what you're looking for and hopefully they'll match someone else's preferences.

I get meets because I'm straightforward I think and have no hidden agenda, I'm just here for some fun, it works for some and doesn't for others...half the fun is getting to perv at all the sexy women on here and in finding like minded people I think and realising just how many horny bastards are into the same things as you, for me it's cunt! (My choice of language doesn't work for everyone but I'm not changing it cos it's me, like I said it works for some and doesn't for others).

Happy swinging you filthy animals!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

people wish to meet me because their support worker has left their room just long enough....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make excellent tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And will let you eat a bourbon biscuit out of my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to socials or clubs but I think joining in on the chat in forums plays a massive part in getting your personality out there. You can like a person even before you see them by how there come across on the forums . Its all about getting yourself out there and in some standing out from the other 1000s of guys on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because she has a pulse

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

"people wish to meet me because their support worker has left their room just long enough....

My support worker is out on her break between 3 and 4pm...any chance of a quick meet?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"And will let you eat a bourbon biscuit out of my arse"

well that's made my Sunday!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we have no idea why people want to meet us, but they do

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"we have no idea why people want to meet us, but they do

Its because you are attractive and friendly.

And give good advice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"we have no idea why people want to meet us, but they do

Its because you are attractive and friendly.

And give good advice.

Thank you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

time, patience, think with your brain instead with your cock, and use a bit of basic common sense.....

the most options you don't close (socials and clubs) the more likely you are to successful....

oh an why do people want to meet me.... cause i am 'luffly'.......

aint no better me than me!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"And will let you eat a bourbon biscuit out of my arse"

Are there any other biscuits on offer?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I don't know what makes some people contact or want to meet us. But our profile generally works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love gherkins. O keep the vinegar and have it on chips and smoked fish....lovely"
I,ll have to

remember that next time especially

on the smoked fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..

We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long."
I tryed them when I was younger but they

Did,nt appeal to me then I think as you

get older you prefer some things more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..

We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long.I tryed them when I was younger but they

Did,nt appeal to me then I think as you

get older you prefer some things more..

He buys them instead of biscuits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they want to fuck me. But some might just want to sample my pickles. What about yer gherkins..

We have some gherkins but they're shop bought. My youngest devours them very quickly so they don't last long.I tryed them when I was younger but they

Did,nt appeal to me then I think as you

get older you prefer some things more..

He buys them instead of biscuits!"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"And will let you eat a bourbon biscuit out of my arse

Are there any other biscuits on offer?"

yes air biscuits....

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Just be you, some will like it and some won't as with everything in life...be honest, respectful of others boundaries and keep it fun...don't be disheartened or bitter about knock backs and don't change anything about yourself to get meets, just be you, that's all you can be...oh and get your personality across through your profile instead of 'filling it in later'...oh and keep a diary if you haven't got one already haha! We all have our own preferences don't we so put them on your profile, make it clear about what you're like/what you're looking for and hopefully they'll match someone else's preferences.

Happy swinging you filthy animals!

This gets 2

Said in a better way than i managed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People want to meet me because I have a curvy arse,big boobs and I make them laugh

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"People want to meet me because I have a curvy arse,big boobs and I make them laugh"

Didn't notice the curvy arse & big boobs but you do make me laugh

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm cheaper than ant London hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm cheaper than ant London hotel

Ive never been to the ant hotel in London....is it a bit cramped?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm cheaper than ant London hotel

Wow an ant hotel in London? Wonder if they will open hotels around the uk?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Lets just say the Ritz can't hold a candle to it

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Happy swinging you filthy animals!

This gets 2

Said in a better way than i managed

This gets a

from me. Eloquently put by both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

"
any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Follow through.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?"

Define smug?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?"

I see the point as providing common sence and helpful advice. Perhaps I'm missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?"

Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!

Nothing smug about my posts at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?

Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!

Nothing smug about my posts at all "
Its fun to be new and find your own way if you really are genuine,you just seem condecending with this post

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?

Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!

Nothing smug about my posts at all Its fun to be new and find your own way if you really are genuine,you just seem condecending with this post"

Not condescending at all, do a search on how many people ask for advice on getting meets or making their profiles stand out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I would turn the "why can't I get meets" moans around!

So any top tips for those that can't get meets?

any point at all to this post apart from smug forumites comments?

Not to sure what you mean by smug forumites comments, just a thread to share tips on what works for others!

Nothing smug about my posts at all Its fun to be new and find your own way if you really are genuine,you just seem condecending with this post

Not condescending at all, do a search on how many people ask for advice on getting meets or making their profiles stand out! "
misread apologies

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I don't really see what this thread is driving at, when I see that a sizeable number of MF and F profiles are effectively one sentence long. You can hardly start a meaningful conversation with such little information...

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By *ent_LifeMan
over a year ago

East Malling

The way to get meets are have a six pack / toned or slim body, be tall, be very well endowed and don't sound like a dick in your messages. Simple as.

Shame if you bigger but have amazing skills to get a woman of HA

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