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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife and i have been getting in to the lifestyle now for a few months.

We have had 2 meets with the same couple and get on very well with them, however we have come up with a dilemma of sep / same room.

We have decided that we may not be quite ready to swap just yet but like the meets and the flirting, touching, kissing etc.

Is this acceptable to carry on meeting couples just for this side of things?

Also how long did you discuss the lifestlye / meets before you swapped?

C & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were soft swap for 2 years, there is no time limit.. You stick to what YOU feel comfy with, its as simple as that. If your honest with others who cares??

Your not there to fit in with anyones plans guys.. Its as much for you as it is them.. You guys have to live and be comfortable with everything you do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said notts xxx

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

We were soft swap for 2 years, there is no time limit.. You stick to what YOU feel comfy with, its as simple as that. If your honest with others who cares??

Your not there to fit in with anyones plans guys.. Its as much for you as it is them.. You guys have to live and be comfortable with everything you do..

Very well said x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many thanks.....

This is a good site, with good, sound advice

Thank you

C & S

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