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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been dating my girl friend for over a year now, I've always being more of a passionate lover but she likes it rough . Any tips or suggestion on how to be more rough ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sandpaper pants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rugby tackle her down

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've been dating my girl friend for over a year now, I've always being more of a passionate lover but she likes it rough . Any tips or suggestion on how to be more rough ?"

ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rough passionate sex mmm

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London


"I've been dating my girl friend for over a year now, I've always being more of a passionate lover but she likes it rough . Any tips or suggestion on how to be more rough ?

ask her?"

This.

Ask her what she'd like you to do with her. Hair pulling, arse smacking/spanking, restraints... there are plenty of options.

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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

Stop tickling her and hold her down and fuck her hard mate.

You can still be passionate when rough

I find the hornier I am the more rough I am but I'm extremely passionate whist being rough , get her to tease you all day longer if she can then you'll be raring to just pin her over the kitchen worktop and fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love rough passionate sex mmm "

mm me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been dating my girl friend for over a year now, I've always being more of a passionate lover but she likes it rough . Any tips or suggestion on how to be more rough ?

ask her?

This.

Ask her what she'd like you to do with her. Hair pulling, arse smacking/spanking, restraints... there are plenty of options."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gimps top tip.

Make her watch a Millwall game while banging her bent over a Cactus...Oh and pop the caps off ya beer bottles with her little brown Starfish..Never fails

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked how I like it. I would say experiment. Start off slow and see how she reacts. I would ask if she wants belts or paddles but using just your hands you can apply pressure or pull a little harder each time. Just don't go mad at the beginning. A little hair grab and arm around her neck from behind is a nice way to start

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've never been asked how I like it. I would say experiment. Start off slow and see how she reacts. I would ask if she wants belts or paddles but using just your hands you can apply pressure or pull a little harder each time. Just don't go mad at the beginning. A little hair grab and arm around her neck from behind is a nice way to start "

Have you really never been asked Banana? (genuine question )

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been asked how I like it. I would say experiment. Start off slow and see how she reacts. I would ask if she wants belts or paddles but using just your hands you can apply pressure or pull a little harder each time. Just don't go mad at the beginning. A little hair grab and arm around her neck from behind is a nice way to start

Have you really never been asked Banana? (genuine question )"

Only time I was asked was when one of my long term men wanted to use a belt on me. No one usually asks what I want, I think they realise after a little tug on my hair I quite like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been asked how I like it. I would say experiment. Start off slow and see how she reacts. I would ask if she wants belts or paddles but using just your hands you can apply pressure or pull a little harder each time. Just don't go mad at the beginning. A little hair grab and arm around her neck from behind is a nice way to start

Have you really never been asked Banana? (genuine question )

Only time I was asked was when one of my long term men wanted to use a belt on me. No one usually asks what I want, I think they realise after a little tug on my hair I quite like it "

Blimey you must be the favourite customer at the Barbers

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the tips

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've never been asked how I like it. I would say experiment. Start off slow and see how she reacts. I would ask if she wants belts or paddles but using just your hands you can apply pressure or pull a little harder each time. Just don't go mad at the beginning. A little hair grab and arm around her neck from behind is a nice way to start

Have you really never been asked Banana? (genuine question )

Only time I was asked was when one of my long term men wanted to use a belt on me. No one usually asks what I want, I think they realise after a little tug on my hair I quite like it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been asked how I like it. I would say experiment. Start off slow and see how she reacts. I would ask if she wants belts or paddles but using just your hands you can apply pressure or pull a little harder each time. Just don't go mad at the beginning. A little hair grab and arm around her neck from behind is a nice way to start

Have you really never been asked Banana? (genuine question )

Only time I was asked was when one of my long term men wanted to use a belt on me. No one usually asks what I want, I think they realise after a little tug on my hair I quite like it

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very nice

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take away any control she has, dominate her

Bend her into whatever position you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it when it just happens like that

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I've been dating my girl friend for over a year now, I've always being more of a passionate lover but she likes it rough . Any tips or suggestion on how to be more rough ?"

Don't shave.

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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago

south east

When you see her next, as she is standing perhaps while she is talking, move up next her and whisper in her ear to shut up, at that moment push her up against the wall (ensuring you hold her at the same time to keep her safe) go to kiss her mouth and at that moment pull her hair back (by the root of the hair, not the end) and kids her neck. If she tries to push away ensure to keep your stance - you are in total control.

Kiss her softly while you grab her hair/arse/waist hard. Kiss her neck while you run your fingers up her thigh.

Hold her up against the wall and finger fuck her hard till she cums. As she is cumming on your fingers lick and suck her clit until she cums again.

When you are finished with her for that, force her bend over slap her arse and slip you cock in. Fuck her hard, grab her body as you do, test her by placing one hand on her neck. Just about you are about to cum grab her by her hair command her to get on her knees and fuck her mouth then cum on her face.

Once your done walk away and leave her.....

Thats just my opinion though, I like it a lot rougher but that's a start;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell your girlfriend you have a single profile on here......that should make things a bit rough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you cant follow tips in sex lol its just GOD gifted talent so keep doing what your doing once shes pleased who cares...or else if you really need tips i can give you practical lesson bring your gf and i will show you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see her next, as she is standing perhaps while she is talking, move up next her and whisper in her ear to shut up, at that moment push her up against the wall (ensuring you hold her at the same time to keep her safe) go to kiss her mouth and at that moment pull her hair back (by the root of the hair, not the end) and kids her neck. If she tries to push away ensure to keep your stance - you are in total control.

Kiss her softly while you grab her hair/arse/waist hard. Kiss her neck while you run your fingers up her thigh.

Hold her up against the wall and finger fuck her hard till she cums. As she is cumming on your fingers lick and suck her clit until she cums again.

When you are finished with her for that, force her bend over slap her arse and slip you cock in. Fuck her hard, grab her body as you do, test her by placing one hand on her neck. Just about you are about to cum grab her by her hair command her to get on her knees and fuck her mouth then cum on her face.

Once your done walk away and leave her.....

Thats just my opinion though, I like it a lot rougher but that's a start;) "

Ahhh those were fun moments "Bunny"

And... yes, I will.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you see her next, as she is standing perhaps while she is talking, move up next her and whisper in her ear to shut up, at that moment push her up against the wall (ensuring you hold her at the same time to keep her safe) go to kiss her mouth and at that moment pull her hair back (by the root of the hair, not the end) and kids her neck. If she tries to push away ensure to keep your stance - you are in total control.

Kiss her softly while you grab her hair/arse/waist hard. Kiss her neck while you run your fingers up her thigh.

Hold her up against the wall and finger fuck her hard till she cums. As she is cumming on your fingers lick and suck her clit until she cums again.

When you are finished with her for that, force her bend over slap her arse and slip you cock in. Fuck her hard, grab her body as you do, test her by placing one hand on her neck. Just about you are about to cum grab her by her hair command her to get on her knees and fuck her mouth then cum on her face.

Once your done walk away and leave her.....

Thats just my opinion though, I like it a lot rougher but that's a start;)

Ahhh those were fun moments "Bunny"

And... yes, I will.. x"

To the OP. It's a state of mind. I'm not even sure how to explain that to you. You behave a certain way because it will please her, and that's how you allow yourself to behave and a meaner way. You know what she wants, so you take it. You like, me and everyone, has a darker side. You need to find it and explore it. I'd suggest talking to her about that and learning to do it together.

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