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Strapless Strap on advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently bought a strapless strap on and wondered if anyone has any advice on how best to use them.

I have used it once and it seemed to work pretty well (my 'friend' seemed to enjoy it) but I just couldn't control the bloody thing!!! It was flapping about all over the place!!!

Can anyone help me?? Pleeeeeease!!

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Basically the "user" places one end in their vagina and uses their vaginal muscles to in effect hold it, and it goes in the "taker" as usual.

Understand your confusion though. We've seen it in action once and it was a bastard to use. Much prefer the ones with straps

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

can you advise which strap ons are best to use???? or to have used on you!!!!

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

As a man? Thoroughly depends but generally you want a streamlined one about 6'' designed for anal play.

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

yes as a man!!! poppers certailny help i know but what is the most comfy to wear and usable for tyhe woman!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can you advise which strap ons are best to use???? or to have used on you!!!! "

One with me on the other end of it of course!!! lmao

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

mmmmmmm is that an invite hotlips???? should you practice on your 'friend' a bit more 1st though????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mmmmmmm is that an invite hotlips???? should you practice on your 'friend' a bit more 1st though????"

Mmmm anytime Chris.....

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

maybe we should hook up sometime hotlips!!! id love to feel your balls bang against my arse!!!! mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically the "user" places one end in their vagina and uses their vaginal muscles to in effect hold it, and it goes in the "taker" as usual.

Understand your confusion though. We've seen it in action once and it was a bastard to use. Much prefer the ones with straps "

Thanks for that, I may need to invest in one with straps, shame as this one vibrates too!!! lol

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"As a man? Thoroughly depends but generally you want a streamlined one about 6'' designed for anal play."
youll have to show me sometime!

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By *ethot69Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"As a man? Thoroughly depends but generally you want a streamlined one about 6'' designed for anal play. youll have to show me sometime! "

When we get one that ISN'T the 10'' monstrosity we currently have! Told you this yesterday! xD

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

pelvic floor exercises may well help holding things in place .not sure if they will but hey def no harm trying x

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

how many guys out there enjoy having a strap on used on them?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have one sat in the cupboard waiting to be used !

Have used it on mrs for a simulated dp, but waiting for her to use it on me !!

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea

do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"

Wouldn't say "most" guys!!! R

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

A lot of straight guys are not interested in receiving anal play with a toy of any sort as they see it as it diminishes their masculinity. They ought to try a toy they might enjoy it!

For me (Mr cf3), having Mrs cf3 use a dildo on me while giving me a BJ is awesome. We have a number of toys but the best two are a glass dildo and one made from what must be stainless steel!

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL


"As a man? Thoroughly depends but generally you want a streamlined one about 6'' designed for anal play. youll have to show me sometime!

When we get one that ISN'T the 10'' monstrosity we currently have! Told you this yesterday! xD"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"

Not for me, thank you very much.

Outbox only.

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By *um2bedsWoman
over a year ago

dunstable

you need to exercise those muscles, get better control, so that you can grip strongly. Make sure you SQUEEEEEZE your lover's cock frequently when you are having sex, and of course, try stopping your pee during mid flow, and you will soon have muscles to die for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you need to exercise those muscles, get better control, so that you can grip strongly. Make sure you SQUEEEEEZE your lover's cock frequently when you are having sex, and of course, try stopping your pee during mid flow, and you will soon have muscles to die for!"

Oh my pelvic floor muscles are pretty good...... lol

Who needs Tena lady?? lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"
i have only had it done once and thought it was great, looking forward to round two

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By *hris2468Man
over a year ago

swansea


"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????

i have only had it done once and thought it was great, looking forward to round two "

hope i can find someone who can break me in slowly!!!! any takers out there????

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


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hope i can find someone who can break me in slowly!!!! any takers out there????"

Surely that should be any givers??????

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"

Fantasy only so far but more than curious, something i want to try, with the right person/people. lol gently i think!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always wanted to try one of those, how did it feel for you the one in control

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven


"do most guys like having a strap on used on them or fantasise about it???????"
Never used nor fantasised about it. Personally, being straight I think it would be a contradiction to consider inserting anything anally.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"always wanted to try one of those, how did it feel for you the one in control"

which? a strapless strap-on or use astrap-on on a male or both??????? the mind boggles

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By *ikitten29Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale

To answer the post about being straight with strap-on sex, everyone is entitled to their own personal opinion and I very much of the opinion of shades of gray in relationships and sexuality, but a straight woman doing strap on with a straight man, that is can still be considered straight sex, kinky but straight

As for strap ons, I have a feeldoe but there is not enough control over it, so after a lot of research and thought I purchased a harness which has interchangable dildos and 2 plugs for the wearer, also removable and interchangable, not a cheap piece of kit but have used it a couple of times now and is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found with my strapless strap on that the first few times its much easier to start things off in the spooning position then once you get to grips with keeping the bulb inside you then you can experiment with other positions.

Ella xx

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