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"We never bothered with photo verification as to us it is meaningless. The only veris that count are relatively recent by meets. And more than just one or two as it appears they're often faked too!" I got for spells where due to real life, I don't meet for a while, or only do socials, and don't always get veri'd from them... does that make me a fake? | |||
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"We never bothered with photo verification as to us it is meaningless. The only veris that count are relatively recent by meets. And more than just one or two as it appears they're often faked too!" Why only recent ones? I'm still exactly the same person I was when I got my 1st veri 5 years ago. I took a break from the site for a year, does that make me fake as I didn't have a recent veri? Verifications are a useful tool, but common sense is much more important, if something looks too good to be true 99.9% of the time in here it is. Personally I don't have unverified people blocked and will meet unverified as everyone starts somewhere. | |||
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"We never bothered with photo verification as to us it is meaningless. The only veris that count are relatively recent by meets. And more than just one or two as it appears they're often faked too! Why only recent ones? I'm still exactly the same person I was when I got my 1st veri 5 years ago. I took a break from the site for a year, does that make me fake as I didn't have a recent veri? Verifications are a useful tool, but common sense is much more important, if something looks too good to be true 99.9% of the time in here it is. Personally I don't have unverified people blocked and will meet unverified as everyone starts somewhere." I use the veri system as another indicator of how likely the person is to meet. If someone's last verification was over a year ago for example, I'd say that the chances of them meeting were lower than someone who met last month. Also they sometimes can be a comment on how like their pictures they are. If pics are years old and there's not been a verification for years either then, well, a lot can change in a person in that time. So a social meet first would be a given. Too many verifications are a bit of a worry. Some people seem to meet every couple of days and proudly display it. So to me it kind of gives the impression they are none too choosy. So I think they can be useful when coupled with a good dose of common sense. | |||
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"I personally always want a social meet first as makes allows me to see if I click with the person and check they aren't a physco You need to do what you feel comfortable with, but perhaps as a single lady you need be a bit careful" Here's where the paranoia came from, a non-veri member invited me to meet for a social off the bat (as in a hey-here-now) which I don't think is unreasonable but at the same time... who were they? A phonecall could settle that but I felt rude to ask for their number and didn't want to give my own (I literally knew nothing about them). OK so what I have taken from this is that people value photo verification very little (which I am surprised to hear, I thought it showed at least some dedication!). I've decided to remove the non-veri block, I'll just manually ignore if someone feels too sketchy. | |||
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"We all had to start somewhere.....YOUR first meet gave you a chance before you had any veris from meeting! Someone trusted you to start with didn't they?" My profile is rock-solid! Even without the verifications you wouldn't have a doubt on whether there's a person behind it (though sure you could doubt if I ever met anybody). I also made a point of getting myself photo verified within two days of joining. I don't care much for the ticks, and the only person I've met off here so far was a newbie also - so no problems going where noone else had before haha. What I do have a problem trusting these profiles with next to no info, but as I'm searching for women I cut my target group down drastically if I ignore all of those :/ A profile with no info and veris is infinitely better than a profile with no info and no veris. That's where my dilemma is stemming from x | |||
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"Im just a figment of your imagination." "But if you give me a wink, I will look for you, I will find you, and I will fuck you" --- You really do sound like an incubus! | |||
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"I've met non-verified guys who were great and been stood-up by meet-verified guys...there really is no guarantee. The Fab world is like the real world...some people are honest and true and some aren't " | |||
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