FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for first meet but not going well

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im looking for my first meet, my profile says it all pretty much but i seem to get ignored in chat rooms and most my messages ignored or deleted

any advice on what i can do better? im a genuinely nice guy and very open minded so dont know what im doing wrong, hopefully someone can help me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age and having no public photos will go against you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight answers?

Your age....not many on here will go with such a young lad.

Pics...you have no public pics

Profile text...too short and a bit bland

There is no "perfect" profile, as people have different tastes but take a look at those of guys with success....don't copy, as this is not you...but do get hints n ideas

Keep at it and good luck.

Also maybe go to club/social events?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your age and having no public photos will go against you"

This plus maybe use some punctuation and split into paragraphs. It all runs into itself

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

no cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All taken into account and edited as of now so hopefully that might work better, didnt know my photos where hidden so thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've been on here for 3 weeks, this isn't argos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, your lucky if your finding a shag here within 2 years, then your doing really well.. tip, use fab for fun but don't rely on it for sex lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no cock pics

Naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you've been on here for 3 weeks, this isn't argos

Has Argos diversified? Might have to take a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crop the kid in the background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crop the kid in the background

Lol I saw that too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't notice the kid either

gone now and new photos submitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you are well endowed , so where's the cock pic ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

on its way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on its way

you do look around 14 years old ....

Good luck mate

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Age could go against you, you claim to be very hung, most that claim this arent, and again you are 1 of many single men on here, theres about 50 men to every woman.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

'Using me dick' whatever happened to the English language. To be honest if you sent me that profile and those photos, the last one in particular, I'd just bin it.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Get yourself verified by "meet in person". Best way to do this for your first one will probably be a social or go along to a swingers club?

When i first joined a swingers site (not this one) it took me 3 months to get my first meet, have some patience and stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club or a social and chat to folk there. Most people are lucky to get a meet within a month especially I would assume single guys. Be patient. It's not instashag.com

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"You say you are well endowed , so where's the cock pic ?

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wheres the vwe cock then

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Still dont see a vwe cock, maybe drop the claim and just let people decide for themselves.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Im looking for my first meet, my profile says it all pretty much but i seem to get ignored in chat rooms and most my messages ignored or deleted

any advice on what i can do better? im a genuinely nice guy and very open minded so dont know what im doing wrong, hopefully someone can help me out "

you're 19 ffs!

find some mates and go to the pub / footy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im looking for my first meet, my profile says it all pretty much but i seem to get ignored in chat rooms and most my messages ignored or deleted

any advice on what i can do better? im a genuinely nice guy and very open minded so dont know what im doing wrong, hopefully someone can help me out

you're 19 ffs!

find some mates and go to the pub / footy

You're in your late 40's ffs!

Find some companions and go to the bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You claim to be very experienced. You're 19!! Being 19 and having a few shags under your belt is not experienced, especially amongst swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are thin/regular girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are thin/regular girls?"

Think he means slim/average body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you've been on here for 3 weeks, this isn't argos

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you've been on here for 3 weeks, this isn't argos

Has Argos diversified? Might have to take a look"

can you order for in store collection ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What are thin/regular girls?"

I prefer irregular girls. It makes playing naked twister all the more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are thin/regular girls?

I prefer irregular girls. It makes playing naked twister all the more fun. "

Sure does!

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By *3skycoupleCouple
over a year ago

ferryhill

"Go to a club or a social and chat to folk there. Most people are lucky to get a meet within a month especially I would assume single guys. Be patient. It's not instashag.com"

Did not know there was a site called instashag.com, sign us up.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the other said find a social or visit a club and just have a little patience. Make yourself know withing the forums too as people will get a good idea about who you are and what you're about from your posts. Good Luck

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Theres loads of threads in the database containing generic profile advice,

I d busy myself reading and implementing the advice in them . at the moment yours will be lost in the mix

Have fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you've been on here for 3 weeks, this isn't argos

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Ring and reserve

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and socials are a great way to get yourself known and gives you a foot up with the online side , here your just another single guy with another generic profile and predictable set of pictures. You will be descriminated against due to your age online however in a club your will find a different experience. Don't get frustrated sitting on fab take a big gulp and get your ass out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take of the crap about face and body pics in message get your attention. You ain't gonna get messaged you will have to do the hard work here girls and couples receiving loads of messages are not going to go looking for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also take off the Sydney stuff it's fake- check out fab faqs to see why.

Take off very experienced your 19 and looking for your first meet - your not experienced in this world. You are maybe larger than average but your not very well endowed take it off also trim the pubes a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on its way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs I agree the Sydney warning is no point having and that goes to alllllllll profiles, ur pic is in public domain and everyone can take it lol.

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