FabSwingers.com forum: Gangbang advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're think of organising a gangbang and wondered if there was any advice that people could pass on.

We'd probably host at home, but having a group of strangers here is a slight concern.

Equally, we'd ideally want around 4-6 men. Is there a large drop out rate? We wouldn't want to end up with just MMF, however much fun that is. Inviting a dozen and having them all turn up could prove problematic in other ways.

Any thoughts?

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

If its your first gangbang we would advise booking a room in a hotel or better still just going to a club and using their facilities, much safer. At least you would not be short of cocks at a club and no one needs to know where you live to come pester you weeks on end after.

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By *ollytrollopWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

hiya

all I did was post a meet with time and date, I got around 150 responses, about 100 of them wanted me to change the date and/or time to suit them, 50 said they would come, only 8 sent their phone numbers to arrange where they needed to be, out of those 8, only 4 turned up, we had a great time, but it was very frustrating to organise because the guys are unable to follow through with what they say they will do.

I am sure that you can do it, and fun can be had by the guys who do turn up.

if the guys cannot be specific about stuff from the off, they probably wont turn up, so don't waste your time trying to persuade them, I hope you finish up with a great time had by all, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We thought of that, but wanted to get some photos of the fun which would preclude most clubs. We didn't fancy being stuck with a hotel bill when no one shows either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's the kind of drop out rate we fear. Men can be so fucking useless...

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By *ollytrollopWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I don't want to put you off, as I had a fantastic time, as did they, and I did it a few more times after that, I still do, but now I do it in a club, less organising, and I hand pick the guys rather than just take whats there. if you don't try things, how do you know, I am sure you have alredy had guys enquiring on it from this post, shame I am so far away or I could have come along x

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Been to a few gangbangs if you want 4 to 6 guys invite 12 as half won,t turn up and those that do some can,t get hard with other guys there. Try to find profiles where the guy has all ready done one and got a verie from it.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"That's the kind of drop out rate we fear. Men can be so fucking useless...

Tried organising a few and they're a pain. We tried to get the guys to organise a hotel room, that was like herding cats and that one ended up with 1 1/2 guy turning up and two others bottling it on arrival.

Next WE booked the hotel and 4 out of god knows how many turned up with a couple of 'dead certs' going silent an hour or two before the meet. At that point we had two guys coming(ironically these two stayed longest too) but managed to get some more last minute volunteers(both disappointing). All the guys paid their share if the hotel room BEFORE the fun began.

Next time we agreed to use a guys flat from here and arranged a load of black guys. They all turned up although some turned up so late that they we're turned away!!

What we've learnt-

To organise 2 guys, arrange 6(that's from threesome meetings) with phone numbers, etc. That's not 6 responses, that's 6 guys who are def coming so for 4-6 guys, look at 24-36 phone numbers.

Large hotels are best but recce it first for ease of access for the guys through reception, bars to meet in, etc. whatever your preferred method is.

Black guys are 10 times more reliable than white. They rarely drop out once agreed.

Young and older guys are less reliable. 30-45 (ish) are more reliable.

Of course, trolls will throw stones at this but this is from our experience.

If you want feedback or clarification on anything here, PM us x

Good luck

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I arranged a gangbang come orgy weekend before last,7 couples an 5 girls an 20 guy say will attend,ended up 3 couple all the girls 6 guys turned up.Good job I had some friends who could get here at the last minute great night for all.Just don't think because people say they will be there that they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's the kind of drop out rate we fear. Men can be so fucking useless...

Next time we agreed to use a guys flat from here and arranged a load of black guys. They all turned up although some turned up so late that they we're turned away!!

What we've learnt-

To organise 2 guys, arrange 6(that's from threesome meetings) with phone numbers, etc. That's not 6 responses, that's 6 guys who are def coming so for 4-6 guys, look at 24-36 phone numbers.

Large hotels are best but recce it first for ease of access for the guys through reception, bars to meet in, etc. whatever your preferred method is.

Black guys are 10 times more reliable than white. They rarely drop out once agreed.

Young and older guys are less reliable. 30-45 (ish) are more reliable.

Of course, trolls will throw stones at this but this is from our experience.

If you want feedback or clarification on anything here, PM us x

Good luck

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I helped organise one for a Fab couple last month at their place. She selected 10 suitable blokes who were all duly invited. Gradually a few had to drop out/cancel/postpone but she still ended up with 6 of us including her hubby.

A great birthday fantasy for her fulfilled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know your pain.

This site if FULL of keyboard wankers, once they finished they turn off the laptop and go to bed with their wives (who are oblivious to them being on this site).

We have had a few at home ourselves, but the biggest have always been in a club.

Our favorite was when we hired Tease 2 for a Sunday - 20 were supposed to come - 10 turned up, but having an empty club and the choice of rooms.... was better than at home. Although those at home are nicer in different ways!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback. We'll have a think and let you all know how it goes.

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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago

darleston

We cant advise you but we have looked at your profile and seen what you like.

We have attende Chams on the Monday bi night a couple of tmes in the past and were accompanied by an experienced dom guy who organised some group play in the dungeon room where she was put in bondage and he controlled all present enjoying her in a controlled way......it was extrmely horny but a good way to enjoy some very dirty play.

We know its a bit lazy but for us it is better to let somebody else arrarrange it.......more relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone organising in Birmingham! I'll be there!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Invite more than you think you need as there will be a high attrition rate.

Look for those who have good feedback and are ones that do actually turn up.

If they all turn up - well, who's a greedy girl...?

Repeat your ground rules at the meeting.

Enjoy!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Oh yes, if you are asking for a contribution - make it 'reasonable' - don't make it look like you are making money out of this.

Have a few soft drinks handy - it can be strenuous work for the guys (well, it was for me as I was the only one who turned up).

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Invite more than you think you need as there will be a high attrition rate.

Look for those who have good feedback and are ones that do actually turn up.

If they all turn up - well, who's a greedy girl...?

Repeat your ground rules at the meeting.

Enjoy!"

What he said

and plenty of water as it does become thirsty work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also check out MM in browsing section guys are teaming up now and more chance of them turning up instead of individuals check veris etc and have hubby on condom patrol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a good point - we'd looked at MM couples when considering mmmf, but not thought about inviting more than one of them at a time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bukkake is just as bad for people not showing

I once had 80 who said they would turn up....only 5 did!....Beat that, lol

Susan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont meet at home...once you have 5 or 6 guys that turn up and you are comfortable with them then maybe the 2nd or 3 rd time you can arrange at home so it becomes easier ....hope that helps

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"Invite more than you think you need as there will be a high attrition rate.

Look for those who have good feedback and are ones that do actually turn up.

If they all turn up - well, who's a greedy girl...?

Repeat your ground rules at the meeting.

Enjoy!

What he said

and plenty of water as it does become thirsty work

Yes plenty if ice n water as it gets very hot, particularly for the woman and at this time of year.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Have a few soft drinks handy - it can be strenuous work for the guys (well, it was for me as I was the only one who turned up)."

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

We hold them at home all the time, its perfectly possible, just seems to require a knack. We generally work to a ratio of Two Thirds Dropping out. Make sure you advertise it with plenty of notice.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

We hold them at a friends home with his permission hes also on here but we have a key in case hes at work we usually invite double what we need and about half turn up though a Cpl of times all turned up and i was a very busy girl x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

R only GBs in clubs, the she can walk away when she's had enough. Not easy to do if you've invited several men to your home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice, we've decided that we're going to try with four or five guys who we've played with individually before and hope that they turn up.

We'll update with the results after the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a couple of points from me, if you are expecting 10 or so guys to turn up at your home where will they park ? As u done want an angry neighbour knocking ur door mid play asking for a car to be moved because it's blocking their drive!

Also do u have nosey neighbours u may need a cover story

And what room will u be playing in etc u don't want strangers wandering through your house

Plus as already stated some one on condom patrol as I'm sure you don't want a sneaky bb!

Good luck and have fun x

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