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By *ethot69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

It's a weird fact that, despite being swingers for the past six years and experiencing almost every sexual scenario (other than proper insane no-nos), there's the odd occasion when one of us realises something that we haven't tried and it catches the imagination.

It's then even weirder when you realise it has a whole community dedicated to it with its own terminology - yet you've been blissfully unaware of it!

Cuckolding - which it's apparently called - is one such thing. From the terminology given, its usually when a guy is submissive and all but acknowledges he can't satisfy his wife but enjoys watching (or knowing) another man can.

In our scenario, L knows he can satisfy T, yet there's definitely a desire to either watch or listen to from another room her getting fucked by another guy without being involved. Then, of course, having her afterwards.

Is this a common fetish or is it a substantial deviation away from cuckolding in its usual sense? And does anyone else do this?

T & L xx

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Its not cuckolding as you recognise it, for that, the male doesn't reclaim the woman afterwards. He is denied by the lady to reinforce the fact he isn't good enough (or well endowed enough) to re-take her.

I do reckon there are plenty of blokes who have your fantasy though, ie listening from another room, maybe even spying on what their partner is up to. But then going back and reclaiming her after the male has left.

In some ways I suppose we do it ourselves. Most of our play now takes place at party's where we have multiple other partners. Karen can multi orgasm with many partners male and female. But I do not orgasm at all, instead I wait until we are alone, either at the end of the party or when we get to bed. Then we have an almighty orgasm together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep...loads of sites dedicated to cuck...like most "specialist" sexual interests.

I am very attracted to men who act as the "bulls"...

Its complex...and the psychodynamics of the relationships involved is facsinating....xx

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

i have done a few massage session where i have gone to the couples home(or they come here)we have a quck chat and then i lead the lady to the bedroom for the massage and inevitable sex afterwards whilst the hubby is out of the room.

i ask if he wants me to leave the door partially open so that he can watch?,some nod a gleefull yes!,others are happy just to listen from outside the door,on occasions i have had the partner just sit quietly in the same room watching as i massage the female and then have sex with her in front of him!.

i imagine they have great sex back home after the session with me as i see the couples more than the one session!.

it seems to work and enhance things for them and i get to enjoy sex with some terrific ladies and all three of us are happy.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

The OP's fantasy works for us - I love to watch her being shagged and then take her afterwards. Finding her fucking at parties when I didnt see the original foreplay and penetration is even more powerful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a Bull and have been invited along to a number of homes over the years.

Some like to do role play, others just like the idea of sitting in an adjoining room and can hear whats going on next door.

Never in that time has the "Cuck" been allowed to participate unless it has been a role play scenario where has been made to sit on a chair and suffer the humiliation of watching his wife take her pleasure elsewhere.

What they do after I've left is up to them.

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By *ethot69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

The interesting thing is that it does seem to be a variation on "traditional" cuckolding, but also that it has on occasion worked both ways with us, so its not a "traditional" dom/sub scenario - T has sent me into a playroom in a swingers club to fuck with a couple whilst she stayed at the bar, for example. So we don't fit into the defined roles. Sort of "Switch" I guess.

It really is an interesting area of swinging though. I agree with the above that the sexual mindset of couples is intriguing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...its also worth looking at the topic of "Hotwives"...another variation on the traditional cuck theme...the "hotwives" scenario...appears often in the swinging scene.....and appears to have more "mass" appeal....than the full blown cuckold relationship.

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By *ethot69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Yes...its also worth looking at the topic of "Hotwives"...another variation on the traditional cuck theme...the "hotwives" scenario...appears often in the swinging scene.....and appears to have more "mass" appeal....than the full blown cuckold relationship."

Thanks for that

Yeah, that sounds more like it - a bit less formal if you follow.

It's amazing what you learn even after so much time on the scene!

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

arrrr cuckholding hate it myself really badly x but what ever floats ur boat

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Another angle is that it can be something of an ego-trip for the "cuck". Other guys and/or other women fancy the woman that you are with and that endorses your own opinion that she is something special.

If I go to CHAMS with my number one play-mate then as soon as we go into a playroom or even the Jacuzzi there is a good chance that I will "loose" her to another guy or more probably to another woman. That's fine by me, anything that turns her on will ultimately be to my benefit.

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By *ethot69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Another angle is that it can be something of an ego-trip for the "cuck". Other guys and/or other women fancy the woman that you are with and that endorses your own opinion that she is something special.

If I go to CHAMS with my number one play-mate then as soon as we go into a playroom or even the Jacuzzi there is a good chance that I will "loose" her to another guy or more probably to another woman. That's fine by me, anything that turns her on will ultimately be to my benefit. "

That's pretty much the nub of the issue really. The fact that she's the object of desire for another guy is the turn on, rather than any "humiliation" aspect which, to be honest, I don't feel in any way with this scenario!

So I think the "hotwife" tag is more apt than cuckolding because of the faint distinctions between the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been a bull with a few couples and each time has been different.

One couple the guy sat and watched his wife and I and didnt take part or remove any of his clothes. just drove her to me so she could play and he would watch then drive her home again. I never asked what happened once they left me.

Another couple would meet me in a hotel, she would tell him to get drinks in while she went to my room to prepare herself. Then she would phone me and say she was ready for me. On arriving in the room the guy would go into the bathroom, change into leather chaps, come out and she chained him to the chair and put a mask on him. He would then watch me pleasure her for anything up to 3 hours and most of the time his cock was rock hard. Once she was pleasured by me she would ask him if he wanted to join in now he knew how she liked to be pleasured.

Have also met a couple at their house and the guy sat downstairs while i took his good lady to bed and pleasured her.

Everyone is different and enjoy different things but as long as there is no friction it is all good clean adult fun.

If any couples would like to try cuckold I am happy to meet and chat before proceeding with pleasure.

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By *entboy5Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Cuckold usualy varies from couple to couple, from experience some husbands just like to take photos or play with themselves where others are used in the roll of foreplay, most husbands or partners usualy are bi or bi curious in some way and more often than not have a crossdressing fetish, interracial sex is also very common in cuckold circles as well. And of course there is what we call "The ultamite Cuckold" wich for most couples is pregnency risk or intended impregnation sex. I have had the pleasure of playing the Bull role on many occassions and I can truly say is the best experiences I have ever had, very important as in all forms of swinging that strict ground rules are established by all parties involved as cuckold can sometimes be quite extreme

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