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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to find genuine fun on here as a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before we offer our sage knowledge, you have a try.

Why do you think it is ?

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

But you have verifications so you can't be doing that badly and one is pretty recent too?

Your profile looks ok, maybe add a few more sexy pics... Not cock pics.

Maybe it's the fact that you say you just wink? I ignore winks as I prefer messages which I get a lot of and don't have time to respond to winks too.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

rarely meet here, haven't got time to send 100s of mail

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity "

nope try again.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Why is it so hard to find genuine fun on here as a guy"

Because I am sorry to say... you're 10 years too late.

Back in the day, a guy like you would have logged into a swinging site, nipped in the chatroom, enjoyed some banter and 30 minutes later be enjoying a few private conversation, swapping details and arranging to hook up.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

I find it too easy but im waiting on someone special x x X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, personally I am one of those dreaded grammar policemen and I looked at your profile text. That is just me though.

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By *drogansMan
over a year ago

Bedford

Funny I don't remember it quite that easy

I dabbled in 2004, being genuine, intelligent, fun and not unattractive I managed to have a few meets before life took me down a different road, but it was just as hard work fora single guy then as it is now.

Jase xx

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Just keep at it u only get out what u put in ooo er missus !!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

most people are here for couples ..single guys really dont bring alot to the table

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Why is it so hard to find genuine fun on here as a guy"

I m having lots of fun, it might be insincere fun though,

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

nope try again."

#sheknows

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile has been given a thumbs up by some but I didnt really think it was great. You need a great profile if you are to improve your chances - not an ok one, not a fairly good one. And you have to be appealing to those that you want to meet. Best is to use fab as a supplement to the swinging that youre doing in real life. People need to see photos of you that reflect how you look - they wont rush to extract them from you. And ones user name needs to be attractive too, not discouraging or offputting. I think yours does not quite make it and could be losing you chances. Good luck!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yea, you need to break up the text a bit, put some paras in, it's hard to read. And more public pics - one is never enough to believe in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

paragraphs, women love a man with paragraphs.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Nevermind its their loss

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

nope try again.

#sheknows

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yes that is obviously the answer then, good luck with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity "

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from "

Reading profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles "

Obviously their preference but doesn't mean to say they actually meet people like that. There is also a large percentage of guys that aren't on here to meet either. You just have to go with your gut instinct and use filters to find the genuine people.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is it so hard to find genuine fun on here as a guy"

I don't find it difficult to have fun on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, personally I am one of those dreaded grammar policemen and I looked at your profile text. That is just me though."

Never read such a long sentence in my life!

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles "

or not more to the point.

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles

or not more to the point."

Oh sorry I see what the problem is, I didn't realize you could overlook my account and see what I do and don't do . My bad

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Interesting thread about 'actual meets' going on atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do meet but you could never meet lots if you work and have a life outside of fab

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles

or not more to the point.

Oh sorry I see what the problem is, I didn't realize you could overlook my account and see what I do and don't do . My bad

"

you make an absolutely ridiculous statement, based on nothing with not an ounce of truth behind it, trying to provoke a reaction, you get a reaction (not the 1 you are looking for) and dont like it, the truth is if you did actually read profiles you would see people do meet, and they meet all sorts of of people, but people have lives away from here and they have tastes and preferences, understand people will meet when they want to meet and not when you want them to, also many wont find you to there taste and/or preference, grow up, be an adult about it, instead of making childish derogatory remarks, be constructive.

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles

or not more to the point.

Oh sorry I see what the problem is, I didn't realize you could overlook my account and see what I do and don't do . My bad

you make an absolutely ridiculous statement, based on nothing with not an ounce of truth behind it, trying to provoke a reaction, you get a reaction (not the 1 you are looking for) and dont like it, the truth is if you did actually read profiles you would see people do meet, and they meet all sorts of of people, but people have lives away from here and they have tastes and preferences, understand people will meet when they want to meet and not when you want them to, also many wont find you to there taste and/or preference, grow up, be an adult about it, instead of making childish derogatory remarks, be constructive. "

I gave my opinion and you didn't agree, that's fine. I'm not the one having a problem herre , quite the opposite, however look around a massive number of women on here

don't actually meet, the ones that do have a very large selection to choose from. Its quite simple to understand.

A 'ridiculous' statement is implying that someone you know absolutely nothing about simply doesn't read profiles because he voiced an opinion that you didn't agree with . Have a great day

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles

or not more to the point.

Oh sorry I see what the problem is, I didn't realize you could overlook my account and see what I do and don't do . My bad

you make an absolutely ridiculous statement, based on nothing with not an ounce of truth behind it, trying to provoke a reaction, you get a reaction (not the 1 you are looking for) and dont like it, the truth is if you did actually read profiles you would see people do meet, and they meet all sorts of of people, but people have lives away from here and they have tastes and preferences, understand people will meet when they want to meet and not when you want them to, also many wont find you to there taste and/or preference, grow up, be an adult about it, instead of making childish derogatory remarks, be constructive.

I gave my opinion and you didn't agree, that's fine. I'm not the one having a problem herre , quite the opposite, however look around a massive number of women on here

don't actually meet, the ones that do have a very large selection to choose from. Its quite simple to understand.

A 'ridiculous' statement is implying that someone you know absolutely nothing about simply doesn't read profiles because he voiced an opinion that you didn't agree with . Have a great day"

an opinion is based on fact/truth, not utter rubbish, again if you read profiles you will see people that arent meeting clearly state it, others will meet when they want to.

An opinion is not making a huge generalising statement about a big section of the site, grow up.

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles

or not more to the point.

Oh sorry I see what the problem is, I didn't realize you could overlook my account and see what I do and don't do . My bad

you make an absolutely ridiculous statement, based on nothing with not an ounce of truth behind it, trying to provoke a reaction, you get a reaction (not the 1 you are looking for) and dont like it, the truth is if you did actually read profiles you would see people do meet, and they meet all sorts of of people, but people have lives away from here and they have tastes and preferences, understand people will meet when they want to meet and not when you want them to, also many wont find you to there taste and/or preference, grow up, be an adult about it, instead of making childish derogatory remarks, be constructive.

I gave my opinion and you didn't agree, that's fine. I'm not the one having a problem herre , quite the opposite, however look around a massive number of women on here

don't actually meet, the ones that do have a very large selection to choose from. Its quite simple to understand.

A 'ridiculous' statement is implying that someone you know absolutely nothing about simply doesn't read profiles because he voiced an opinion that you didn't agree with . Have a great day

an opinion is based on fact/truth, not utter rubbish, again if you read profiles you will see people that arent meeting clearly state it, others will meet when they want to.

An opinion is not making a huge generalising statement about a big section of the site, grow up."

Ye fact u keep telling me to grow up every time I don't bow down to the absolute kiss the sites ass blocks sure talking means u kinds need to.....well grow up, anyway I'm bored of u now

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles

or not more to the point.

Oh sorry I see what the problem is, I didn't realize you could overlook my account and see what I do and don't do . My bad

you make an absolutely ridiculous statement, based on nothing with not an ounce of truth behind it, trying to provoke a reaction, you get a reaction (not the 1 you are looking for) and dont like it, the truth is if you did actually read profiles you would see people do meet, and they meet all sorts of of people, but people have lives away from here and they have tastes and preferences, understand people will meet when they want to meet and not when you want them to, also many wont find you to there taste and/or preference, grow up, be an adult about it, instead of making childish derogatory remarks, be constructive.

I gave my opinion and you didn't agree, that's fine. I'm not the one having a problem herre , quite the opposite, however look around a massive number of women on here

don't actually meet, the ones that do have a very large selection to choose from. Its quite simple to understand.

A 'ridiculous' statement is implying that someone you know absolutely nothing about simply doesn't read profiles because he voiced an opinion that you didn't agree with . Have a great day

an opinion is based on fact/truth, not utter rubbish, again if you read profiles you will see people that arent meeting clearly state it, others will meet when they want to.

An opinion is not making a huge generalising statement about a big section of the site, grow up.

Ye fact u keep telling me to grow up every time I don't bow down to the absolute kiss the sites ass blocks sure talking means u kinds need to.....well grow up, anyway I'm bored of u now"

oh dear, good luck in your search on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most people are here for couples ..single guys really dont bring alot to the table "

And in some couples it's only the female that brings anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples are the way forward...just be dead polite and respectful.. remember it's their gig and we as single guys can't be pushy at all..be charming, cheeky and funny and Youl do brill. May the force be with you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy i keep getting told patience is the key.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a large percentage of the women in here don't actually want to meet, they just want attention. And the ones that do have 100s of fit buff guys to choose from. Try to stand out and be patient. Quality not quantity

Where do you get your information from that those of us who do meet prefer fit buff guys from

Reading profiles "

Not all of us do, some if us meet guys that aren't fit as some of us don't have a preference on size/fit level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of guy;s not all , do not read profile's (not good)

1st mail go's " mmmmmmmm hi " wich is creepy !

and you think a pic of your cock is wot we wont to see in your 1st mail (not good)

3 thing's to start with for ya x

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