FabSwingers.com forum: finding it hard to stand out.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've been on here about 5 weeks now. So far, so good. I'm aware of all the fakes on here, I've experienced my fair few.

I'm guessing there's way more guys on here then girls, but I finding it hard to stand out. Any tips?

I'm fit and attractive, cocks 9inches.

I'm straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've got to wait to be initiated into Fab.

You'll be contacted by one of the mods who will tell you where you have to go to be initiated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Initiated? Lol I'm verified if that's what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you've got to wait to be initiated into Fab.

You'll be contacted by one of the mods who will tell you where you have to go to be initiated.

and if you are not initiated correctly you are instantly branded a time waster and fake. Posters will be put up in all clubs warning all the single fems and couples that there is an uninitiated single male on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice is very limited to ff couples.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

try putting a bit more effort into your profile...

read all the other threads on single guys not getting meets and wanting more attention.

I wouldn't reply to a message from such a short profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still remember my initiation, boy it took me weeks to get back the use of my legs

It was well worth it though....

The amount of pussy I've had my hands on since then....wow

Yeah it really is satisfying working for the local animal shelter....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Initiated? Lol I'm verified if that's what you mean. "

You don't have the green tick that is required for further progress. It will be granted to you when admin feel you are ready and you have proved yourself worthy of initiation.....patience my padwan. All things come to he who waits.

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You have no pics with cans of lynx or sky remotes....therefore you are lying about your size

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Gee, having a 9 inch cock isn't any use is it? And you're so proud of it too

A photo, a mention in your profile...a mention in your thread...your approach suggests that's your main point of attraction - and as you have found out - it's not, is it? So maybe expand on other non physical areas....personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check this: if you joined the site and would like to be part of the scene, to insinuate that "normal and sane" people are "probably rare to find on a site like this" is not the way forward. Slight attitude readjustment would benefit you there. I see a lot of young men joining thinking they'll be the prized stud just because they are young and fit. Don't be one of them, you'll do better for it.

Also, by looking for women only (single women, fem couples, whatever) you drastically limit your pool of potential partners. MFM threesomes are staple of the swinging world, and I am sure you'd find a lot of couples who would like you to join them!

"You have no pics with cans of lynx or sky remotes...."

Hehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once initiation begins, your life will never be the same. It's a long journey, and once you're through it you will be a more rounded person, wait for admin to contact you.

Other ways to speed up the process is getting yourself to clubs and socials, easiest way to meet people and most are friendly, check out reviews. Be polite when messaging, have face pics and don't worry if you're not everyone's cup of tea. If you act desperate, not saying you do, then it will reflect poorly on you unfortunately.

Be patient and stick at it, if you're nice and listen to the above advice then you'll be fine.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

And your user name is a lie.

Not necessarily the hung part but you're certainly not local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes clubs and socials are a great way to jump the queue for initiation the admins have a backlog i remember mine was only a mile from my where i lived my legs were like jelly and the carpet burns took 2 weeks to heal the only thing that holds me back is a busy work schedule but since then I have regular fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting your mobile number as a status is a no no makes you sound desperate which is a turn off and put some effort into your profile text that is like your cv sell yourself describe yourself what you think you can give them that others can't being young can go against you experience beats youth any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't so much the initiation that opened doors for me but gaining my platinum membership and getting invites to the superuser parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I finding it hard to stand out. Any tips?"

Try painting your bum red or failing that have a look through the forums on advice on how to put a good profile together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a thing for older, more mature women......message me girls

?????

Im unsure as to how this kind of profile text would appeal, I dont know many more mature women who would call themselves 'girls'

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