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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!?" Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you... | |||
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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!? Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you..." I always think its a man thing if a woman has a real orgasm they don't gush all over the place and a man likes to see the result of his efforts so would sooner make her gush even though it feels nowhere near as good because it makes him feel like he's accomplished something gushing isn't a orgasm so why are so many men fixated on making women do it | |||
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"I make her orgasm and her legs shake uncontrollably which hasn't happened before but I like knowing I can make my partner squirt! I will give it time though! " but not all women like the same, maybe what your doing to make her squirt does not turn her on I like fucking guys with strap on's but I accept not all men I shag are going to like this the key to being a good lover is to read her body not force on her what you what to see | |||
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"I make her orgasm and her legs shake uncontrollably which hasn't happened before but I like knowing I can make my partner squirt! I will give it time though! " ah, so it's for you then... | |||
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"Only 50% can squirt" I'd suggest that it's probably less than that but porn has made it both an unrealistic expectation and something else to make people feel inadequate about, women if they can't or don't want to and men because they can't make someone do it... if we meet men, either single or in a couple and one of the first things they ask is does janey squirt, it's almost a dead cert we won't play because telling them I don't almost becomes a challenge to them. The number of times men have asserted that it isn't because I can't but because I haven't "let myself go" is ridiculous...because the one thing guaranteed to ensure I won't fuck you is telling me that you kniw how my body works better than I do... | |||
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"i got told its when a woman is full of pee is that right???" the fluid come out the vigina not the urethra so no its not pee, though a lot of people think it is, some women may loos a bit of wee when they gush/squirt but the majority of the fluid wont be wee | |||
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"i got told its when a woman is full of pee is that right??? the fluid come out the vigina not the urethra so no its not pee, though a lot of people think it is, some women may loos a bit of wee when they gush/squirt but the majority of the fluid wont be wee" thats what i thought, thank you for clearing that up for me | |||
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"i got told its when a woman is full of pee is that right???" yes that is correct. The bladder is the only organ that can store that amount of fluid. The bladder constantly fills up even during sex. So you can pee right before sex but if you are thoroughly hydrated it will fill up again quickly. Gushing can be erotic but men ruin it by trying to make it happen. By being over zealous in their attempts they can cause problems for a woman. If women damaged a man's prostate by heavy fingering they wouldn't allow it or rant on about how great it is. People can be incredibly stupid where anatomy and biology are concerned | |||
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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!? Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you... I always think its a man thing if a woman has a real orgasm they don't gush all over the place and a man likes to see the result of his efforts so would sooner make her gush even though it feels nowhere near as good because it makes him feel like he's accomplished something gushing isn't a orgasm so why are so many men fixated on making women do it " | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it " Where did you read that? | |||
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"Ive never watched porn about squirting/gushing its from experiences ive had in the past which ive enjoyed an want to do again! " Yet again, it's about what YOU want! Why not involve her...maybe that she can't, won't or doesn't want to squirt or gush....its not the be all and end all you know! | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it Where did you read that?" just on the internet | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why?" Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum? | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why? Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum?" Squirting and cumming are entirely different things...as the ladies on this thread have explained (if you take the trouble to read). Your question is therefore pointless. | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why? Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum?" I would feel fine,if he had a problem with it I would suggest he sees a doctor. If I went to my doctor and said I don't gush when I have sex he would probably stare at me for a minute then tell me to go home and come back when I have a real problem | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why? Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum?" I've seen a lot of men who say they don't come from a bj alone...would I then see it as my mission to make them do it whatever it took even if it didn't feel as good as an orgasm from a hand job or fucking because it was what I wanted and it made me feel good? Na... you may be in danger of making this woman feel inadequate because she is unable to physiologically do something that you place such importance on... | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why? Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum? I would feel fine,if he had a problem with it I would suggest he sees a doctor. If I went to my doctor and said I don't gush when I have sex he would probably stare at me for a minute then tell me to go home and come back when I have a real problem" | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it Where did you read that? just on the internet" From what I've read even the scientists aren't sure about female ejaculation... They're still studying the where the fluid comes from and whether it is urine or not. I have never squirted and have no desire to. Any potential meet who shows any sign off being focused on it I won't take things further with as I want to enjoy sex not be a performing seal, or have some guy sulking because I can't produce some unnecessary fluid. I do let go on meets and often have multiple orgasms... I find that more enjoyable than having to potentially ask a guy to stop hammering away with his fingers cos I'm bored and sore | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it Where did you read that? just on the internet From what I've read even the scientists aren't sure about female ejaculation... They're still studying the where the fluid comes from and whether it is urine or not. I have never squirted and have no desire to. Any potential meet who shows any sign off being focused on it I won't take things further with as I want to enjoy sex not be a performing seal, or have some guy sulking because I can't produce some unnecessary fluid. I do let go on meets and often have multiple orgasms... I find that more enjoyable than having to potentially ask a guy to stop hammering away with his fingers cos I'm bored and sore " From what I've read on the internet there aren't many scientists actually trying to find out what it is. Research costs money and has to be cost effective or funded by charity | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it " I think all woman can (it's a physiological process isn't it?) just very easy for some. I'm now doing it for the first time (see my thread in the Scotland forum) but not necessarily at the point of orgasm....we love it but it doesn't mean I'm 'enjoying' sex more than when I didn't so blokes shouldn't see it as a mark of 'success' as a lover | |||
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"its piss... women do not ejaculate, its piss. Get over it." It's not. It doesn't have urea in it. | |||
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"In the past couple of years where I have become more sexually active I have become more and more aware of the phenomenon of women gushing. The worrying part for me,as it actually affects me is a man's fixation on it. I'm lucky not to have met many men who were into trying to finger the life out of me, to make me writhe about on a bed with a pained look on my face. Whose sole objective was to drench the bed we were supposed to be having pleasurable sex on. The very first time a man did this to me I had no idea what he was going to do. He practically held me down as he did it,thinking I was enjoying myself. For the next few days I could barely hold my pee because my urethra was inflamed and I got the worse bladder infection I've ever had that led to a kidney infection. If any man ever tries it now and gets too rough I get angry. To me it highlights a man's ignorance of my body and his selfish desire to prove himself a man. Stop reading rubbish on the internet,stop watching porn and learn how to pleasure a woman " Aye porn has a lot to answer for.... | |||
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"its piss... women do not ejaculate, its piss. Get over it. It's not. It doesn't have urea in it." How can it be piss?? It comes from a different hole to put it bluntly! | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it Where did you read that? just on the internet From what I've read even the scientists aren't sure about female ejaculation... They're still studying the where the fluid comes from and whether it is urine or not. I have never squirted and have no desire to. Any potential meet who shows any sign off being focused on it I won't take things further with as I want to enjoy sex not be a performing seal, or have some guy sulking because I can't produce some unnecessary fluid. I do let go on meets and often have multiple orgasms... I find that more enjoyable than having to potentially ask a guy to stop hammering away with his fingers cos I'm bored and sore From what I've read on the internet there aren't many scientists actually trying to find out what it is. Research costs money and has to be cost effective or funded by charity" Yeah think most research into it has come from online studies (not sure how that works!)but a couple of gynaecologist's have done their own studies...bloody perverts! Like you say though nothing major as it's not really going to save lives or stop global warming finding out whether it's pee or not! | |||
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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!? Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you... I always think its a man thing if a woman has a real orgasm they don't gush all over the place and a man likes to see the result of his efforts so would sooner make her gush even though it feels nowhere near as good because it makes him feel like he's accomplished something gushing isn't a orgasm so why are so many men fixated on making women do it " Some women do orgasm when they gush though | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why? Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum?" A lady would have too be very good to make me cum from just a bj .So would not want my cock sucked for hours just to try making me . | |||
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"My experience's of it are if I have a clitoral orgasm...then I squirt, if its from inside, I gush. So I've always assumed each are different. Maybe I'm wrong? I can do both with my violet wand but very rarely can a man/woman make me. Also I've read that in fact all women can....its just finding the right technique for that person and to be totally relaxed and comfortable with it Where did you read that? just on the internet From what I've read even the scientists aren't sure about female ejaculation... They're still studying the where the fluid comes from and whether it is urine or not. I have never squirted and have no desire to. Any potential meet who shows any sign off being focused on it I won't take things further with as I want to enjoy sex not be a performing seal, or have some guy sulking because I can't produce some unnecessary fluid. I do let go on meets and often have multiple orgasms... I find that more enjoyable than having to potentially ask a guy to stop hammering away with his fingers cos I'm bored and sore From what I've read on the internet there aren't many scientists actually trying to find out what it is. Research costs money and has to be cost effective or funded by charity Yeah think most research into it has come from online studies (not sure how that works!)but a couple of gynaecologist's have done their own studies...bloody perverts! Like you say though nothing major as it's not really going to save lives or stop global warming finding out whether it's pee or not!" Probably did a lot of practical research lol | |||
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"It isn't a prize. There is no trophy for it. It doesn't make you any better or worse except in your own eyes. There have been several threads on this topic....but strangely non started by women. It only seems to be guys who obsess over it...why? Ok to put this another way, how would you feel as a women if when giving your partner a BJ you never made them cum?" gushing isn't cumming, no wonder your so obsessed if that's what you think, women and men are different women don't loose fluid when they cum, men do, all because a woman don't gush/squirt that does not mean she has not cum | |||
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"In the past couple of years where I have become more sexually active I have become more and more aware of the phenomenon of women gushing. The worrying part for me,as it actually affects me is a man's fixation on it. I'm lucky not to have met many men who were into trying to finger the life out of me, to make me writhe about on a bed with a pained look on my face. Whose sole objective was to drench the bed we were supposed to be having pleasurable sex on. The very first time a man did this to me I had no idea what he was going to do. He practically held me down as he did it,thinking I was enjoying myself. For the next few days I could barely hold my pee because my urethra was inflamed and I got the worse bladder infection I've ever had that led to a kidney infection. If any man ever tries it now and gets too rough I get angry. To me it highlights a man's ignorance of my body and his selfish desire to prove himself a man. Stop reading rubbish on the internet,stop watching porn and learn how to pleasure a woman " | |||
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"Here we go again same old thread ' is it pee is it cum' for the lovely ladies that 'gush buckets' as is often put, please tell me which organ in the human body holds that amount of fluid? Apart from the bladder! " | |||
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"Here we go again same old thread ' is it pee is it cum' for the lovely ladies that 'gush buckets' as is often put, please tell me which organ in the human body holds that amount of fluid? Apart from the bladder! " All I know is that I don't pee out of my vagina....so I don't understand how the pee could get from my bladder to my vagina? The biology doesn't add up! | |||
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"Here we go again same old thread ' is it pee is it cum' for the lovely ladies that 'gush buckets' as is often put, please tell me which organ in the human body holds that amount of fluid? Apart from the bladder! All I know is that I don't pee out of my vagina....so I don't understand how the pee could get from my bladder to my vagina? The biology doesn't add up! " pmsl here ah well there must be some other logical xplanation for it so | |||
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"Here we go again same old thread ' is it pee is it cum' for the lovely ladies that 'gush buckets' as is often put, please tell me which organ in the human body holds that amount of fluid? Apart from the bladder! " it does not come from a organ it comes from the periurethral ducts which store fluid, if your dehydrated you will not gush, there is no way pee can leave the bladder from any other route than the urethra, pee simply can not leave the body through the vagina Im not defending women who gush, its not something that bothers me one way or the other, its just medically pee can not leave via the vagina | |||
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"I make her orgasm and her legs shake uncontrollably which hasn't happened before but I like knowing I can make my partner squirt! I will give it time though! " Welcome to the forum.There seems some harsh replies to a simple question Does the lady want to try to gush? | |||
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"Here we go again same old thread ' is it pee is it cum' for the lovely ladies that 'gush buckets' as is often put, please tell me which organ in the human body holds that amount of fluid? Apart from the bladder! it does not come from a organ it comes from the periurethral ducts which store fluid, if your dehydrated you will not gush, there is no way pee can leave the bladder from any other route than the urethra, pee simply can not leave the body through the vagina Im not defending women who gush, its not something that bothers me one way or the other, its just medically pee can not leave via the vagina " For the ladies that gush buckets ! The ones that soak the sheets , can fill glasses , need towels to dry the bed your 100% sure it all comes from the peri urethral ducts! Medical research can now be re written. | |||
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"Here we go again same old thread ' is it pee is it cum' for the lovely ladies that 'gush buckets' as is often put, please tell me which organ in the human body holds that amount of fluid? Apart from the bladder! it does not come from a organ it comes from the periurethral ducts which store fluid, if your dehydrated you will not gush, there is no way pee can leave the bladder from any other route than the urethra, pee simply can not leave the body through the vagina Im not defending women who gush, its not something that bothers me one way or the other, its just medically pee can not leave via the vagina For the ladies that gush buckets ! The ones that soak the sheets , can fill glasses , need towels to dry the bed your 100% sure it all comes from the peri urethral ducts! Medical research can now be re written." I don't believe all I read, some women will claim they can do things they cant and some women will piss and claims its gush | |||
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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!? Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you... I always think its a man thing if a woman has a real orgasm they don't gush all over the place and a man likes to see the result of his efforts so would sooner make her gush even though it feels nowhere near as good because it makes him feel like he's accomplished something gushing isn't a orgasm so why are so many men fixated on making women do it " | |||
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"I gush. And I love it. Just saying like And when u achieve an orgasm wer u gush at same time - its simply amazing!" | |||
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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!? Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you... I always think its a man thing if a woman has a real orgasm they don't gush all over the place and a man likes to see the result of his efforts so would sooner make her gush even though it feels nowhere near as good because it makes him feel like he's accomplished something gushing isn't a orgasm so why are so many men fixated on making women do it Some women do orgasm when they gush though " yeap I do! Very strong ones at that! | |||
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"Ive met a few people off here who I've been able to do it to and had ex partners I've done it to but a FB I have at the moment I just cant seem to get her to do it! She is a little in experienced could this be the reason why as she cant fully let herself go or can some women just not do it!? Who are you trying to do it for? Because it sounds like it's for you... I always think its a man thing if a woman has a real orgasm they don't gush all over the place and a man likes to see the result of his efforts so would sooner make her gush even though it feels nowhere near as good because it makes him feel like he's accomplished something gushing isn't a orgasm so why are so many men fixated on making women do it Some women do orgasm when they gush though yeap I do! Very strong ones at that! " Sara does too! | |||
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