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By *oreplayfunpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

would welcome your ideas on the most erotic and exciting things to do to your partner while they are tied and blindfolded. look forward to your experiences and ideas for things to do and use

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You are asking a lot here.

Half of the game is in the preparation. Flinging a blindofld on then going straight for a wand is childsplay. You have to set the scene prior to the bedroom to have full shattering effect.

Try tying her hands before you get to the bedroom. The frustration/role exchange will build into fury.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invest in a good violet wand or an estim - electrical play is awesome

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Variety of sensations, from feathers to floggers!

Also like wax candle and ice combination.

Being blindfolded is very erotic, take your time, the anticipation is a huge part of the excitement.

Have fun

Ruby x

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There are lots of things you can do but you MUST stay within your partners guidelines, you have more than likely done just about everything already. Being blindfolded and tied leaves your partner guessing as to what you are useing on them but they will know after a short while unless it is a toy. A great turn on for a lot of people is to have someone your partner does,nt know about turn but you need to your partner is ok with first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above. Sometimes, left for ages, can heighten the senses so much that what ever comes next is mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowly trace an ice cube all over her teasing her relentlessly. Candle wax can be fun too. I personally love to deliberately apply lipstick to a woman's nipples before slowly licking and sucking it off. Anything you do, such as kissing her stomach, will have an unusually heightened response so mix it up. Half the excitement comes from her not knowing what you'll do next. Without a doubt, my favourite erotic thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn the telly on, sit on his face - it's going to be a long ride

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

Vision is our primary sense so removing it forces us bto use others. Initially sound. The bounds hearing becomes sharper so be aware of every sound you make causing frantic searches for meaning. Make ambigous noises, strike a match, could be to light a lovely romantic scentedcandle or could be to light the wax play candles.

Appear to make a phone call to others to invite them over to use them. If you have a detachable, radio door bell hide it in room then a few minutes later make the front door bell ring. Leap up with a cheery " that must be the guy(s) I have sold you to for the night. Be right back!"

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By *oreplayfunpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

was hoping for some ideas on normal everyday things to use on the body to really get them going or something different along those lines. we've dne all the usual things but interested in something a little different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feathers, soft kisses, ice cubes, feeding fruit...

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By *lueVelcroCouple
over a year ago

rathangan

In terms of objects to use, I've found a large multipronged meat fork to be quite popular. They won't know what it is, just that it's sharp and feels good traced lightly. Also, shoot a staple gun at them for flinches :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staple gun

Bonjela, Vicks, Heat gel, a mint or toothpaste in the mouth, alternating a cold drink and hot drink during oral

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

Tie up and leave alone.

Yes, im being serious ... force her to watch porn for an hour but tie hands so no touching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on webcam and take suggestions in the directing room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice cubes and feathers

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

I went shopping in sainsburys before tying and blindfolding ocd. She had no idea i had been shopping and did not have a clue what i had. I bought a pastry brush to stroke her skin. A Banana. A carrot (large) and a small corn on the cob. Great fun.

But i also like going through the kitchen drawers to see what i can find. I found a wooden ruler last week which was huge fun with ocd tied over the table.

You just need a bit of imagination, but keep it safe. Sane and consensual obviously.

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By *oreplayfunpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

Thanks for all your suggestions and ideas. I tried a few last night when for the first time I blindfolded her, tied her hands above her head while she was sitting up and then tied her lovely 36es tightly so they stuck out like firm round globes with very responsive nipples as I teased them with ice cubes, a fork from the kitchen, and flicked at them with a plastic ruler and used my tongue. I had never felt her tits like that and she said they felt so different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An electric toothbrush to the clit. Watch her fly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have done ice play which was sensually tormenting - i had a mad fantasy about having a wet t shirt ripped off me - we combined the two - was a great night

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By *panker53Man
over a year ago

leeds

ice cubes and riding crop and cold water splashed random and long periods of being left alone after suggestive talk and toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

find a white noise app for your phone

pop some earphones in your partners ears as well as the blindfold a over the eyes and remove one more sense

(just remember to put your phone in flight mode so you dont get any unwelcome interruptions)

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By *ittletonCplCouple
over a year ago

cannock

Ring a friend - hand her the phone and get the friend to say they're on their way over ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mix of sensations is the key, and not going straight to the fun bits either! One of my favourite toys for sensation play is a wartenberg pin wheel... I got one dirt cheap from eBay and that combined with things like feathers, candle wax and nipple clamps make for a very fun start to the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mix of sensations is the key, and not going straight to the fun bits either! One of my favourite toys for sensation play is a wartenberg pin wheel... I got one dirt cheap from eBay and that combined with things like feathers, candle wax and nipple clamps make for a very fun start to the evening "

Wartenburg wheel and good old clothes pegs! Also moving silently somwhe does not know wher you are.... then close breathes, the odd prod or flick kf the crop...

oh god I need a cold shower

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep heat all over his cock and balls. Not forgetting to pull his foreskin back to get full coverage.

Retire to a safe distance

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Ex once blindfolded me and used various items on me, went on for ages. For each one I correctly guessed he would then give me an orgasm. To this day I don't know what some of them were...

Really enjoyed the champagne bubbles and bottle... Hmmmmmm

Ruby x

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By *antricBondageCouple
over a year ago

Kingston

Dull but important. Always, but always have something to cut the rope safely to hand. Knots can slip, tighten and lock, especially if wriggled in, even for the highly skilled and people can panic unexpectedly. EMT shears are cheap and safe.

Also learn a little about anatomy. There are some very dangerous parts of the body which should not be tied.

Have fun

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I love being hooded, blind folded, tied and helpless..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow a really useful forum thread for a change, going to take up some of the advice given.

Thanks OP for starting this off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the not knowing when i am blindfolded, what Master is going to do next but i totally trust him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the not knowing when i am blindfolded, what Master is going to do next but i totally trust him "

yes i would only ever play with him tied and just him - no other in the room

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