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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There must have been a time when one of you dipped in to / researched this lifestyle before converting your partner. How did you bring the subject up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a hot tub. Add alcohol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Buy a hot tub. Add alcohol. "

Now there's a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He said : I'd like to see someone else fucking you.

She said: you've gotta be kidding

(Fast forward a couple of months - and a lot of fantasising)

She said: go on then let's give it a go....

That was about it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't need to as we met via this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He said : I'd like to see someone else fucking you.

She said: you've gotta be kidding

(Fast forward a couple of months - and a lot of fantasising)

She said: go on then let's give it a go....

That was about it really "

Wow, maybe I'm overthinking this one ! Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B was introduced to this site via another couple, whom she met on a non swinging site. They were on this site, and the other one, told her about their lifestyle, took her to a club and she was hooked.

C was fed up of the normal dating scene, didn't want or need a proper relationship, but wanted to meet great people and have great sex.

Fast forward 3 years, we met and hooked up and have been in an exclusive couple relationship, with added extras for almost 18 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He said : I'd like to see someone else fucking you.

She said: you've gotta be kidding

(Fast forward a couple of months - and a lot of fantasising)

She said: go on then let's give it a go....

That was about it really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He said : I'd like to see someone else fucking you.

She said: you've gotta be kidding

(Fast forward a couple of months - and a lot of fantasising)

She said: go on then let's give it a go....

That was about it really "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, I think I am getting the hint. Straight in, no beating around the bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met crystal, she told me she would only ever be in a monogomous relationship. 2 weeks later on our secon ever date we went to a fet club, crystal played with 3 men and the rest as they say is history. There was no lengthy discussion,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can tell how your partner will react just from your own sex life together. Rather than say no straight away I like to give them time to think it over.how can anyone know if they never try.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

We met on a "naughty" adult site both just looking for NSA fun so no fantasy has ever been taboo, plenty of chats and scenarios discussed. Now just working our way through actually doing them...

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must have been a time when one of you dipped in to / researched this lifestyle before converting your partner. "

Nope not at all.

Been together years and little by little developed our extra carricular fun, side by side without either of us going too far ahead of the other or ever having to broach a subject in a "head on" way. Things just happen and weve followed it through or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No, we met online and instantly clicked and found we are on the same wave. Somehow we have always been able to discuss everything we want/like with no taboo... We are both very haughty so it does help lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years ago I said let's go dogging , she said OK and that was the start of our journey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There must have been a time when one of you dipped in to / researched this lifestyle before converting your partner.

Nope not at all.

Been together years and little by little developed our extra carricular fun, side by side without either of us going too far ahead of the other or ever having to broach a subject in a "head on" way. Things just happen and weve followed it through or not!"

Thank you, I think that's where we are heading. It contradicts what other couples have said but makes perfect sense . No need to rush it

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"There must have been a time when one of you dipped in to / researched this lifestyle before converting your partner. How did you bring the subject up ? "

Not here - we discussed it together and took the plunge together - we swing together - we don't cheat or keep secrets from each other - we have a strong, healthy and honest relationship. Z

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" we have a strong, healthy and honest relationship. Z"

Agreed that very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No need to rush it "

Exactly -Rushing anything makes mistakes more likely and mistakes in relationships are the most costly we think.

Everyones different so opinions are useless as is advise but here we go anyway.....just let it happen and be honest and clear with each other from the start.

Sulking also helps Pip xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" No need to rush it

Exactly -Rushing anything makes mistakes more likely and mistakes in relationships are the most costly we think.

Everyones different so opinions are useless as is advise but here we go anyway.....just let it happen and be honest and clear with each other from the start.

Sulking also helps Pip xxx "

Ha, well I'm sorted then cos I can sulk for England ! I was on the verge of making mistakes and jumping too far in to this life, slyly, on my own. I would rather abstain now until the time is right together . Thanks again

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


" No need to rush it

Exactly -Rushing anything makes mistakes more likely and mistakes in relationships are the most costly we think.

Everyones different so opinions are useless as is advise but here we go anyway.....just let it happen and be honest and clear with each other from the start.

Sulking also helps Pip xxx

Ha, well I'm sorted then cos I can sulk for England ! I was on the verge of making mistakes and jumping too far in to this life, slyly, on my own. I would rather abstain now until the time is right together . Thanks again "

lol - you've been here for over a year already and been verified! How do you know your Mrs doesn't have her own profile too'slyly'? Z

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"There must have been a time when one of you dipped in to / researched this lifestyle before converting your partner. How did you bring the subject up ? "
Not the case at all with us, we were already into the lifestyle when we met each other at a club (Eureka)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" No need to rush it

Exactly -Rushing anything makes mistakes more likely and mistakes in relationships are the most costly we think.

Everyones different so opinions are useless as is advise but here we go anyway.....just let it happen and be honest and clear with each other from the start.

Sulking also helps Pip xxx

Ha, well I'm sorted then cos I can sulk for England ! I was on the verge of making mistakes and jumping too far in to this life, slyly, on my own. I would rather abstain now until the time is right together . Thanks again

lol - you've been here for over a year already and been verified! How do you know your Mrs doesn't have her own profile too'slyly'? Z"

You are right but I have only been sitting on the site, not contacting people for meets and that veri is the only one I have played with before coming to my senses, I have had an epiphany

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He said : I'd like to see someone else fucking you.

She said: you've gotta be kidding

(Fast forward a couple of months - and a lot of fantasising)

She said: go on then let's give it a go....

That was about it really "

Pretty much same for us

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

While watching swinger porn together - we decided we wanteed to try it. Haven't looked back since!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"While watching swinger porn together - we decided we wanteed to try it. Haven't looked back since!"

And judging by your set of pictures you are having an absolute ball ! Thank you

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"He said : I'd like to see someone else fucking you.

She said: you've gotta be kidding

(Fast forward a couple of months - and a lot of fantasising)

She said: go on then let's give it a go....

That was about it really

Snap "

Same for us except I said an enthusiastic okay straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When having sex, I would use the dildo on the mrs when she was sucking me.

She loved it and made some amazing noises...progressed from there saying how much I would love to see it happen.

Much better with real thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of pillow talk, over many months and then a 'couples'profile added to another site by him, to see if I'd take 'bull by the horns'

Guess what ? . . 5 years later '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of pillow talk and went from there and hopefully find our firsf fem to have a threesome with soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of pillow talk, over many months and then a 'couples'profile added to another site by him, to see if I'd take 'bull by the horns'

Guess what ? . . 5 years later ' "

Well done !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't need explain anything to my partner as we met on this site

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

We've been together a LONG time. After F gave birth, surprisingly enough, her libido skyrocketed. I asked her about her fantasies, and DP came up. So I researched ways to let her fantasy come true, and settled on swinging as a controlled way to introduce the second "D" in "DP"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of pillow talk and went from there and hopefully find our firsf fem to have a threesome with soon "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both had some fun with other partners before we met each other, and since she loves cock and I was only born with one cock it seemed fair to get her more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both had some fun with other partners before we met each other, and since she loves cock and I was only born with one cock it seemed fair to get her more "

Ha ha, if there was a prize for best answer so far it would be coming your way !

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