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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, Im a genuine guy, that has met on here a few times. I really am struggling to meet any cpls and that is really my turn on.

I have tried to re word my p file but not much change.

Please is there any pointers I could be given ? am I missing a trick or is it just a bit cock heavy in here?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Cant accommodate will probablys go against you, you make a point of saying your hung/vw in your profile yet pics show average, also you are among 1000's of other men on here, does your profile stand out, does it sell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant accommodate will probablys go against you, you make a point of saying your hung/vw in your profile yet pics show average, also you are among 1000's of other men on here, does your profile stand out, does it sell you."

This, in a nut shell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You complain on your profile about timewasters but then go onto say you are vwe which your pictures don't show. Now either you need to remove those pictures and replace with ones that show you are what you say you are or remove the reference to vwe.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A) doesn't look vwe to me

B) be more sociable at the parties you've been to and meet couples via that route.

C) Your swinging lifestyle might be more successful if you see fab as just one way to meet people and not the only way.

D) you could revisit your profile and think 'do I stand out?' 'is this my absolute best effort?' is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going to clubs and socials, you'll find it easier to meet people & hopefully lead on to meeting couples.

Also as others people have said, looking at those pics I would class you as VW hung, slightly above average at best. So you're profile description will actually be going against you.

Good luck

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

as above, misleading from the off to state vwe u actually have to be vwe, not small to medium

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By *ittle Miss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Suffolk UK

Agree with all of the above.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with all of the above..... "

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Omg.....guys writin vwe when infact they are just hittin average....totally offputting

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Infact speaking from experiences i would say that was actually below average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pic`s and a boring as hell, badly written profile .....

And your wondering why your not getting any meets was this a serious question on your part or was you bored?

To be fair, average male penis size is between 4-6" so I think you safely fall into that category.

W/E would be 7-8"

V/W/E would be 9"+

Now, go back and think about your profile, pics and your blantant bloody lies and rewrite it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all for there comments I will make some changes over the coming days,

I think it is great to be able to hear genuine opinions as that really helps

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One last thing; ditch the word 'genuine' as it's meaningless in a profile.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Gotta agree with all the above.

You're single but can't accom, why not?

Also you claim to be VWE but that is not what the pic shows, far from it.

Ditch the bit about time wasters too, we all get them(even time wasters get timewasters), shows negativity when there are a lot of more positive guys out there.

Also, grammar and punctuation is important to alot of people. So get it all right. It all helps in presentation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile sounds like it's an advert in a shop window for an old banger for sale. Re write it and add some more subtle points

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