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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's up with my profile??

I'm genuine and verified. I get loads of people "looking at my profile" yet no message!! Hate this also loads of friends request and winks yet it's difficult to plan meets. What am I doing wrong? Xxxx

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By *rstar87Man
over a year ago

Chelmsley Wood (Brum)

I know u have set ur age to 18-55 but in ur desription u have said 40+? Could this be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be proactive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op get used to it.. women nowadays are extremely fussie.. I given up to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's up with my profile??

I'm genuine and verified. I get loads of people "looking at my profile" yet no message!! Hate this also loads of friends request and winks yet it's difficult to plan meets. What am I doing wrong? Xxxx "

It looks like thousands of others so you have to make it stand out if you want people to notice you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what a lot of people get wrong on here in that people have specific requirements. The fact your profile is getting views is a good start but there are so many different variations of what people want that there will always be uninterested people. Just look for profiles that are specifically looking for the type of person you are and focus your attention on them. Build up a good relationship and the meets will soon start coming in

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biting my tongue to avoid a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unappealing profile pic??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have yoou had a good look at your profile? Your verified but they aren't shown; pics are a year old, and the wording is a real turn off (especially the not for long stay part) Sorry if you messaged me I wouldnt reply. Harsh I know but your profile is only chance to make first impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get that. Be friendly and stick to the rules you will do fine

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Have yoou had a good look at your profile? Your verified but they aren't shown; pics are a year old, and the wording is a real turn off (especially the not for long stay part) Sorry if you messaged me I wouldnt reply. Harsh I know but your profile is only chance to make first impression"

I agree with this, look at your own profile and think would I want to meet this person?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You've spelled your username wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's up with my profile??

I'm genuine and verified. I get loads of people "looking at my profile" yet no message!! Hate this also loads of friends request and winks yet it's difficult to plan meets. What am I doing wrong? Xxxx "

Move lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's up with my profile??

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1 word

Staccato!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have yoou had a good look at your profile? Your verified but they aren't shown; pics are a year old, and the wording is a real turn off (especially the not for long stay part) Sorry if you messaged me I wouldnt reply. Harsh I know but your profile is only chance to make first impression"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scottish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with my ratio. Message from 1 out of 100 who look at my profile. Be patient and keep smiling

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Scottish"

Oi! Out of order!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scottish

Oi! Out of order! "

No no don't get me wrong I like the Scottish, I love the film braveheart and it's got a happy ending

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Scottish

Oi! Out of order!

No no don't get me wrong I like the Scottish, I love the film braveheart and it's got a happy ending "

You'll be voting SNP before you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scottish

Oi! Out of order!

No no don't get me wrong I like the Scottish, I love the film braveheart and it's got a happy ending

You'll be voting SNP before you know it "

Independent Scotland yes yes yes,

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Scottish

Oi! Out of order!

No no don't get me wrong I like the Scottish, I love the film braveheart and it's got a happy ending

You'll be voting SNP before you know it

Independent Scotland yes yes yes, "

A step too far me thinks! King Alex Salmond? Fooking hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scottish

Oi! Out of order!

No no don't get me wrong I like the Scottish, I love the film braveheart and it's got a happy ending

You'll be voting SNP before you know it

Independent Scotland yes yes yes,

A step too far me thinks! King Alex Salmond? Fooking hope not! "

I saw in tv yesterday it's the women who will decide Scotland's fate, at the moment the swaying towards the union

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What's up with my profile??

I'm genuine and verified. I get loads of people "looking at my profile" yet no message!! Hate this also loads of friends request and winks yet it's difficult to plan meets. What am I doing wrong? Xxxx "

It's your profile, mate. You need to improve it. You know that cos you said 'what's up with my profile?', so....only you know yourself and only you can write your profile so what are you waiting for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have yoou had a good look at your profile? Your verified but they aren't shown; pics are a year old, and the wording is a real turn off (especially the not for long stay part) Sorry if you messaged me I wouldnt reply. Harsh I know but your profile is only chance to make first impression"

Not sure i agree with the verification bit. Ive got unshown verifications on my profile due to a few leavers and one who wanted to be anonymous and its never really been an issue for me. I just think a profile pic of a cock and a profile tagline of wanting a naughty plaything just gives out the impression he wanted a quick thing as opposed to getting to know potential meets......but thats just my opinion.

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