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Plenty M interest but no F MF??!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, we have been on the site a little while now. F has met a couple of guys on her own, we have met two couples which never came to anything. M is polite, respectful, funny etc but any messages he sends to fems just seem to get blanked and deleted. Also there seem to be very few couples who will meet mfmf. The situation is really starting to knock P's confidence. Where are we going wrong? Don't be afraid to speak frankly!! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, i think it is the case that M will be competing with 100's of single guys when he approaches on his own. In terms of meeting mfmf, i am sure that there are other couples who you will eventually find. good luck and happy swinging

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Ok honest opinion.

Too much on the genital shots for us. Whilst in context genitals can be erotic, we like to see something a little sexy, dressed and underwear and more body shots.

The no blacks etc, will obviously restrict a good percentage of people who are not your cup of tea, but will also restrict some of those who don't have that barrier.

The guy meeting alone will be in the crowd with the rest and from what I gather single males get better luck if they have face pics on their profile. It's a supply and demand thing.

In the end there could be many reasons, but the pics for us would mean we may look through the profile, but we would never contact as there would need to be an attraction of some kind and cocks and cunts whilst fun are not attractive on their own, (to us)..

But everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very few single women will meet the male half of a couple, pure and simple.

as for the mfmf, i have no idea.

i feel certain thats the play the majority of people on here do.

that said, your pics arent really representative of yourselves.

dodgy closeups, and not overly complimentary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK appreciate your input. We are new to the whole swinging scene so appreciate a few pointers here and there. Taken the pictures thing on board also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, we have been on the site a little while now. F has met a couple of guys on her own, we have met two couples which never came to anything. M is polite, respectful, funny etc but any messages he sends to fems just seem to get blanked and deleted. Also there seem to be very few couples who will meet mfmf. The situation is really starting to knock P's confidence. Where are we going wrong? Don't be afraid to speak frankly!! Lol xx "

We have no problem finding couples for MFMF, but if you were local we would pass you by as soon as we read the second paragraph about fakes and timewasters. Negativity is never a good selling point.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The start of your profile is quite negative... the thing about bullshitters/time wasters is a big turn off for me - the only one who permits your time to be wasted is you... you are the only constant - if you find time wasters, consider your own selection process. I've been on here nearly 2 years, and never once had my time wasted.

Also, I have no idea what your profile image is...

Personally, I don't meet anyone who cannot accom - I have a child but can sometimes accom subject to trusting

There are now no pictures, so too far the other way... I'm not cilla so I don't do blind dates, and wouldn't chat to a profile with no pictures at all.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately pics are something we don't have a lot of yet. We have tweaked the profile a little but would still consider it a work in progress!!

Good to have some input from fellow site members, all constructive. Thanks again. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also in regards to accommodating. We have a young family so wouldn't really like to have people in the house for that purpose, just personal preference really. But the other reason is that we have parents/in-laws who live five doors down so can't have a lot of strange people coming and going from the house. After all...we can only have so many "work mates" coming round lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The reads much better. So you won't accom because its your personal space, but expect someone else to.

As a single fem, I don't accom couples at my home, and only singles when I really trust them. You might find that attitude to your place being private puts some people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, it reads much better with a far more positive and upbeat feelin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being our private space is our decision, just like you having people round to your place is yours, We don't "expect" anyone to do anything. We are happy to share a Hotel room or whatever the other party is happy with. Like we said, having people over is a no-no as we have immediate family who live in the same street. Perfectly logical.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Try putting that into your profile then.

You asked for input, I was only giving my opinion. Won't bother any more. Happy fabbing and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no MFs! They're a myth!!

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