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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I assuming you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i were in your position, id give him the respect of takinga break. there's nothing wrong with hiding your profile and stepping back for a bit. id also be asking him what's up, and why he feels he needs a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"
give me a call

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Does he want you to take a break as well?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I would have thought that if one partner wants to take a break then you take a break.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

If my OH wanted to take a break then I would respect that and have the break with her unless she told me to carry on fucking lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I would have thought that if one partner wants to take a break then you take a break."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If either of us wanted a break both would. I can't see the need to ask tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"

Surely the answer is 'have a break from swinging'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought that if one partner wants to take a break then you take a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be a little upset that your husband wants time from swinging?

If either of us said " that's it I need time out" then as we are a couple we would both have time out.

I wouldn't be upset by his decision and vice versa because we respect each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be a little upset that your husband wants time from swinging?

If either of us said " that's it I need time out" then as we are a couple we would both have time out.

I wouldn't be upset by his decision and vice versa because we respect each other. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with most on this thread.....I would expect that both taking a break is the best option. The tone of the OP seems to imply that you may not be fully happy with that idea?

If not then you need to sit down and discuss it fully if you are thinking of remaining swinging without him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with most on this thread.....I would expect that both taking a break is the best option. The tone of the OP seems to imply that you may not be fully happy with that idea?

If not then you need to sit down and discuss it fully if you are thinking of remaining swinging without him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If either of us wanted a break both would. I can't see the need to ask tbh."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with most on this thread.....I would expect that both taking a break is the best option. The tone of the OP seems to imply that you may not be fully happy with that idea?

If not then you need to sit down and discuss it fully if you are thinking of remaining swinging without him. "

seems she does a lot on her own anyway

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

If he wants a break, then I would assume you would take a break also.

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Depends on how you play!

If a couple plays both together AND alone, and one wants to take a break but is happy and gives full consent for the other to continue - then that's a choice only the couple can make based on their own comfort levels.

If you only play together - then as others have said - it would seem a strange question.

Only you know how you what the pair of you are happy with so only you will know the right answer.

A

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

TBH if the cuck in a cuckold relationship says he wants a break from swinging what he means is he wants his wife to stop fucking other people I would have thought.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"I would have thought that if one partner wants to take a break then you take a break."

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By *lay4RealCouple
over a year ago

London


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"

So what do you think? Would you like to continue without him? Have you discussed that with him? what did he say?

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Does he want a break but you continue swinging without keeping him updated or does he want you to stop as well ? Only hubbie can answer this. Fabbed pics because you are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess the op must be having a break ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess the op must be having a break ? "

My thoughts presicely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its easy, then you continue to have lots of sex lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only play as a couple so if my other half wanted a break for a while I would too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he wants a break, then I would assume you would take a break also."

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Like many others above, I think if one person wants to take a break, you take a break.

Now, not meaning to be nasty, but the fact you asked the question in the way you have, suggests you need to sit down and talk, and quickly, or something could go seriously wrong. People change, he may not like the way things are going any more, and if you push, he could push back. Then what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends really. does he want a break but has given you his blessing to continue?

If so, keep on trucking.

If on the other hand he wants you both to take a break, I suggest you respect his feelings and take that break

together

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There are some questions that really don't need asking.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Would have thought any couple swinging , however they choose to do that would have communication as top of the list, swiftly followed by trust and respect? If for example either if us decided to take a break or stop swinging, the forums , to be honest would be the last place we would discuss it! Should it not be your partner you should be talking to about it all etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"

Tell him you completely understand, respect his needs and hope he will support you in getting as much as you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised me that you have a meet up on yr profile if hubby wants a break. Think it's very important to respect partner if he wants a break by both having a break, I've seen to many couples breaking up on this issue. If my hubby wanted to stop or break I wouldn't even think twice about it!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"

Maybe you've just not lit his fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the status on profile now looking like a permanent break from Each Other !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks the couple in question didn't discuss boundaries before they started swinging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a certain Jeremy kyle could get some good subject matter of this........"I want a divorce"......"My husband won't swing anymore"

Dear oh dear.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow!! Dying alone doesn't look like such a bad thing after all!! Far too much drama!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorce papers sent lol? currently 4700 miles away?

Who the hell laughs at a status like that?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

OP you truly are priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid "

Seems a bit petty to file for divorce if the reason is because the wife doesn't want to stop swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good god. Words have lost all meaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to believe any of this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to believe any of this...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose that's one answer to the question.....divorce!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"

Erm... get a divorce and emigrate?

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Probably wiser and to speak with your partner. Sorting & sussing between yourselves so it's a real decision not based on what someone suggested in a forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only just read this. you have a single profile, im assuming it wasn't always this way. And the posted meet is to meet at "our " place which I'm assuming is marital home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably wiser and to speak with your partner. Sorting & sussing between yourselves so it's a real decision not based on what someone suggested in a forum.

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From what she has been posting on her profile and this post I think they are way past the speaking stage...

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

if she has broken him down she may not expect him to sign.

Hope he has some esteem in reserve - or his money tied away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid "

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

You can stil. Go to club,if either of you not wanting fun at least you can let your partner have fun,we have done this a few times,and the other still gets a social night out.or ask him if you can invite someone back for fun,don't play behind back, no need to hurt people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a classic

Definately in my top fifty threads

Gimp

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"Probably wiser and to speak with your partner. Sorting & sussing between yourselves so it's a real decision not based on what someone suggested in a forum.

From what she has been posting on her profile and this post I think they are way past the speaking stage..."

Oh well if the op cant decide who are us forum'ites to decide for them lmfao.

Such longevity posts gets the attention though thats for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx

Erm... get a divorce and emigrate?"
reading the status, it's a bit Kate for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx

Erm... get a divorce and emigrate?reading the status, it's a bit Kate for that "

Late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol how many have her on fabs? We do

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Simple.......

If your man feels like a break,

Then give him a break from all sexy activity, let his balls fill up......

After a week or so he will be gagging to get back into the swing of things again!

Jack xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid

Seems a bit petty to file for divorce if the reason is because the wife doesn't want to stop swinging"

surely then though shes just cheating?

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton


"Posting about your divorce on a swinging website......how classy

Some things should be left unsaid "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"

support him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx

support him."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Break from swinging = divorce

Wow, that's extreme

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"If either of us wanted a break both would. I can't see the need to ask tbh."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Dignity at all costs..... Why people share their most precious & most shattering with all in sundry is truly beyond me.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Moments*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging would never come between our relationship.

If hubby wanted to stop, I wouldn't think twice about it and would stop and he would for me too.

I do feel sorry for the husband as seems like the OP has chosen meeting strangers for sex over her marriage.

Hopefully he will go on to meet someone who isn't so selfish and the OP doesn't end up regretting the end of her marriage once the buzz of the attention of guys wears off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they all lived happily ever after

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'd hope the 'lol' at the end of the status would indicate it's not real.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Jeremy kyle eat ya heart out!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dignity at all costs..... Why people share their most precious & most shattering with all in sundry is truly beyond me."

why indeed!

Attention seeking on a wide scale.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm struggling to believe any of this...."

You too huh?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dignity at all costs..... Why people share their most precious & most shattering with all in sundry is truly beyond me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When swinging goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Divorce papers sent lol? currently 4700 miles away?

Who the hell laughs at a status like that? "

130 now so must have served divorce papers and nipped home for Friday nights meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always take his place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx

Erm... get a divorce and emigrate?reading the status, it's a bit Kate for that

Late"

Yeah I posted that after the status update and 4700+ miles away mobile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh your hubby isn't in any of your pictures it looks like you enjoyed it more than him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has posted a thread and think was hoping for sympathy in the space of a cpl of a few hours there has been the status updates, profile has gone from a couple to a fem and the OP hadn't even been back to comment on thread she started.

Think she must have been hoping for more support/sympathy on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh your hubby isn't in any of your pictures it looks like you enjoyed it more than him "

Think hubby has had a lucky escape tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has posted a thread and think was hoping for sympathy in the space of a cpl of a few hours there has been the status updates, profile has gone from a couple to a fem and the OP hadn't even been back to comment on thread she started.

Think she must have been hoping for more support/sympathy on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh your hubby isn't in any of your pictures it looks like you enjoyed it more than him "

Well apparently he couldn't give her what she wanted

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

your bed

I'm wondering if this is more of a cuck fantasy thread. Maybe she is just playing up to it.

I can't think that anyone would divorce in reality 4 days after their last swinging session. So surely it's only been 4 days at most since the question of stopping swinging has come up.

I'd going with some kind of fantasy play. Hope he's enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next installment,status saying "owned by....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next installment,status saying "owned by....."

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anyone

Her

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By *jloversCouple
over a year ago

teynham

We went into swinging as a couple and said right from the start if one of us wanted to stop we would no questions asked. After all we are a couple and would never play alone, it's all about the sexual pleasure we both get from it....

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

your bed

But they are a cuck couple as the photographs indicate. So take it with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went into swinging as a couple and said right from the start if one of us wanted to stop we would no questions asked. After all we are a couple and would never play alone, it's all about the sexual pleasure we both get from it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him have a break and I am sure if the shoe was on the other foot and you wanted the break you would expect the same from him.

Good luck I hope it works out for you which ever way this goes

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Next installment,status saying "owned by....."

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wishing she'd give us the next instalment !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The plot thickens what was a cpl is now seemingly a single women

Looks like she's Deffo given him the old heeveho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to make it clear that if hubby wanted a break from just swinging I would also. As he never played and enjoyed the watching and teasing. But the fact he has ended everything now , that does make everything different.

I am hurting and not sure I want this either . No mojo for it without him

Kimberley xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I want to make it clear that if hubby wanted a break from just swinging I would also. As he never played and enjoyed the watching and teasing. But the fact he has ended everything now , that does make everything different.

I am hurting and not sure I want this either . No mojo for it without him

Kimberley xx"

good luck to you both, I would concentrate your communication with him, rather than us.

all the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was not looking for any support etc but hurting very much our marriage is over.

yes he did listen to me a few weeks ago because that's what he loves and I was hoping that would help.

He enjoyed everything we did and as a cuck it was exactly what he wanted...not to play but enjoy me playing etc

I did not enjoy it more than him but also enjoyed it was pleasing him and would not enjoy it without him getting as much from it all

I would give up swinging for him and give him my complete devoted vanilla side. But that is not what he wants either

at the moment I am there as a single fem because he is enjoying reading what I am up to.

That's all he seems to want and I would do anything to please and have him back with me in any form

please all of you do not lecture me because all as I have done is try to please him in any way he wanted.

I am hurting and would love my husband back with me ...vanilla or anything he wants.

don't pick on something you know nothing about

I don't need sympathy or anything else

Kimberley

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was not looking for any support etc but hurting very much our marriage is over.

yes he did listen to me a few weeks ago because that's what he loves and I was hoping that would help.

He enjoyed everything we did and as a cuck it was exactly what he wanted...not to play but enjoy me playing etc

I did not enjoy it more than him but also enjoyed it was pleasing him and would not enjoy it without him getting as much from it all

I would give up swinging for him and give him my complete devoted vanilla side. But that is not what he wants either

at the moment I am there as a single fem because he is enjoying reading what I am up to.

That's all he seems to want and I would do anything to please and have him back with me in any form

please all of you do not lecture me because all as I have done is try to please him in any way he wanted.

I am hurting and would love my husband back with me ...vanilla or anything he wants.

don't pick on something you know nothing about

I don't need sympathy or anything else

Kimberley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to make it clear that if hubby wanted a break from just swinging I would also. As he never played and enjoyed the watching and teasing. But the fact he has ended everything now , that does make everything different.

I am hurting and not sure I want this either . No mojo for it without him

Kimberley xx"

So sorry ...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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I don't need sympathy or anything else

Kimberley "

cool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am sorry I could not answer forum before now ..I was away for a week as my daughter got married abroad. Today was the first time I was able to read it.

my hubby informed me by text that he had made up his mind about us yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sorry I could not answer forum before now ..I was away for a week as my daughter got married abroad. Today was the first time I was able to read it.

my hubby informed me by text that he had made up his mind about us yesterday "

Sorry about you and your husband splitting up and apologise for what I posted.

Know how painful it is to go through a divorce x

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Any advice on what to do if hubby wants a break from swinging xx"
if it was me and my hubby wanted a break I would stop as well.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I was not looking for any support etc but hurting very much our marriage is over.

yes he did listen to me a few weeks ago because that's what he loves and I was hoping that would help.

He enjoyed everything we did and as a cuck it was exactly what he wanted...not to play but enjoy me playing etc

I did not enjoy it more than him but also enjoyed it was pleasing him and would not enjoy it without him getting as much from it all

I would give up swinging for him and give him my complete devoted vanilla side. But that is not what he wants either

at the moment I am there as a single fem because he is enjoying reading what I am up to.

That's all he seems to want and I would do anything to please and have him back with me in any form

please all of you do not lecture me because all as I have done is try to please him in any way he wanted.

I am hurting and would love my husband back with me ...vanilla or anything he wants.

don't pick on something you know nothing about

I don't need sympathy or anything else

Kimberley "

I am sorry that your relationship has ended but don't try to gut trip those who assumed that you were just talking about swinging. What other conclusion were people to make given your OP? If you don't want to be judged either write more concisely or don't post deeply personal threads like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest it was pretty hard not to jump to random conclusions as your original thread was nothing like you've now disclosed.

i hope everything works out well for you and your husband whatever is decided.

x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Relationships often last longer when you don't tell every one your business , keep it yours!

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over a year ago


"to be honest it was pretty hard not to jump to random conclusions as your original thread was nothing like you've now disclosed.

i hope everything works out well for you and your husband whatever is decided.

x"

I second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was guilty of feeling guilty about what I posted, but we would never post on a swing site about such a private/ personal thing like splitting up and divorce.

My initial response was to apologise, and in a way I am guilty of jumping to conclusions but your OP wasn't clear your status updates were like divorce papers sent lol....

We would never post personal stuff like that on Facebook never mind a swing site.

Do hope you sort your personal like out but don't think a swing site is for laundering your dirty washing...

Think you should hide your newly single fem profile, take some time out instead of trying to justify yourself to a bunch of strangers and sort your personal life out, then decide if swinging is for you.

Good luck xx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

your bed

I assumed it was all fantasy from the lol and divorce papers etc. Also the meeting at our place on the 13th.

I hope you can sort out your lifes either together or apart.

I'm not sure what has driven you apart, but it's always dangerous to give advice over the net as we never really know each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused...

You posted the OP 2 days ago from a couples account.... You say that you couldn't come back to the thread earlier as you've been away for a week! Yet you were able to change your profile and update your status....

In my opinion issues between couples should be between the couple and not put up in an open forum!

2 sides to every story... And surely your marital problems should remain private?

I wish you both good luck.

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By *inkyKimblesWoman
over a year ago

Northants

Wow thats alot of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, but if either of us wanted time out, we would respect that, and the. It would be discussed as to whether the one wanting time out wanted the other to do the same.

If C wanted time out I would stop. If I wanted time out I'm pretty sure C would stop. He has stopped before for 3 months for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am really truly sorry I have upset people on here

As hubby won't talk to me or see me this is the only way I could vent my feelings For him to read,

of course I would give all this up and be a good vanilla wife if he wanted

Kimberley xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I assumed it was all fantasy from the lol and divorce papers etc. Also the meeting at our place on the 13th.

I hope you can sort out your lifes either together or apart.

I'm not sure what has driven you apart, but it's always dangerous to give advice over the net as we never really know each other."

I really am unsure what you mean by the meet at yours on 13th?

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over a year ago


"I assumed it was all fantasy from the lol and divorce papers etc. Also the meeting at our place on the 13th.

I hope you can sort out your lifes either together or apart.

I'm not sure what has driven you apart, but it's always dangerous to give advice over the net as we never really know each other.

I really am unsure what you mean by the meet at yours on 13th?"

I m sorry for your breakup. But you do have a meet posted for this date on your profile

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I am really truly sorry I have upset people on here

As hubby won't talk to me or see me this is the only way I could vent my feelings For him to read,

of course I would give all this up and be a good vanilla wife if he wanted

Kimberley xx"

Pretty disrespectful airing your dirty laundry about your husband on a public forum...I'm not shocked that he won't talk to you..after reading all this if he has..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am really truly sorry I have upset people on here

As hubby won't talk to me or see me this is the only way I could vent my feelings For him to read,

of course I would give all this up and be a good vanilla wife if he wanted

Kimberley xx"

Personally I think it would say more about your feelings about the situation if you wasn't logging into a swinging site!

I know it would be the last thing on my mind if my marriage was in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my relationship with Luke was affected because of swinging the last place I would be on is here!!

And I sure wouldn't be requesting a meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am really truly sorry I have upset people on here

As hubby won't talk to me or see me this is the only way I could vent my feelings For him to read,

of course I would give all this up and be a good vanilla wife if he wanted

Kimberley xx

Personally I think it would say more about your feelings about the situation if you wasn't logging into a swinging site!

I know it would be the last thing on my mind if my marriage was in trouble "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am really truly sorry I have upset people on here

As hubby won't talk to me or see me this is the only way I could vent my feelings For him to read,

of course I would give all this up and be a good vanilla wife if he wanted

Kimberley xx

Personally I think it would say more about your feelings about the situation if you wasn't logging into a swinging site!

I know it would be the last thing on my mind if my marriage was in trouble "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Just a point, you can't change your profile from couple to female etc and not knowing if she was on online or not but she may have reported it to Admin and while she wasn't online they did it.

Good luck anyway OP.

Maybe this has run it's course now.

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