FabSwingers.com forum: Meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been here a while now. Had some meets. Some fantastic, some OK, some better not say lol. Getting difficult to get them though. Must be an age thing! The dreaded 50. OK for womeen to go for young bucks but younger women dont want to know lol. Also why do women want pics on profile (I always send after couple of messages) when they have none themselves? Just an observation. I am not abusive or rude. Good sense of humour but very difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a few pics just to get an idea of who I'm talking to. It's a hassle to get a message only then to have to ask for pics so I usually don't bother and say no thanks to the first message.

Profiles are your shop window and it pays to put your wares on display. Some times the type of picture will tell me more about the person than actually what's in the picture.

That's how I see it anyway.

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

There's a high male/female ratio. So they can make demands that they feel no obligation to fulfil themselves as the supply of males far outweighs the demand by females. I'm not complaining about it, it's part of being a male on a swing website.

It's up to you whether you send a face pic or not. I do it depending on how genuine the profile looks. If it's got very little info, no photo's and no verifications, the chances of me sending a face pic are slim. I'm a male, but i also have standards on where i stick my dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I have this wrong. I cannot see any pics on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless I have this wrong. I cannot see any pics on your profile? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless I have this wrong. I cannot see any pics on your profile?

Oh thank god. I m not wrong, makes a change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did say I send one x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I prefer a few pics just to get an idea of who I'm talking to. It's a hassle to get a message only then to have to ask for pics so I usually don't bother and say no thanks to the first message.

Profiles are your shop window and it pays to put your wares on display. Some times the type of picture will tell me more about the person than actually what's in the picture.

That's how I see it anyway. "

I agree totally. An empty profile doesn't work for me. No effort with profile text or no visible profile pictures then no thanks. No effort of visible pics of the male of a couple then no thanks too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did say I send one x"

If they are interested they will send one back. The truth is women could put a picture of their knee on here and get innundated with messages telling them they are the sexiest thing alive. If you don't like a profile move on.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

To the OP. You have no visible pics on your profile so that would be a no thanks for me immediately regardless of age x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Do you walk past a shop window with an empty display and price tag and think ooo I must look more into buying it??

I doubt it.

Put a picture and information about the product and it sparks interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't reply to anyone who does not send a face pic with their first message, if I like I reply with my face pic, if not I move on, why would I bother talking to someone to get to know them before I have seen them, they could be lovely but if there's no physical attraction i'm not meeting so may as well get what we look like over and done with straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't reply to anyone who does not send a face pic with their first message, if I like I reply with my face pic, if not I move on, why would I bother talking to someone to get to know them before I have seen them, they could be lovely but if there's no physical attraction i'm not meeting so may as well get what we look like over and done with straight away "

I'm exactly the same, and in this age of technology I always think it strange if someone has no public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we send the first message we will attach face pics and expect others to do the same as it avoids time wasted chatting if they are not your type and I think is polite. You wouldn't go up to someone in a bar with a bag over your head and say hello when introducing yourself. If people who have no face pics ask for them and you don't like it, just move on, you don't have to message them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I send one wih message.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I send one wih message. "

But none on your profile. That equals no thanks to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did say I send one x"

Yes but we want to see that you have them on your profile even if they are private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few photos on mine and always send a face pic if i send the first message ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People never fail to amaze me, your a bloke looking for a woman to shag knowing your one of thousands and yet you wont put the basics into place, do you really think that females are sitting at the pc waiting for messages from randoms who will grace them with a photo,

Women trawl the profiles the same as us blokes and if theirs no pic they will move on

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be missing out on women messaging you OP as you have no pictures.

If a woman messages you that is more likely to lead to a meet in my experience.

They don't have to be face pics either.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I was single I have to be honest, and say your profile wouldn't inspire me and it would be a definite no. It looks better to have photos already on, even if they are private.

Sorry, but it always seems a bit dodgy to me otherwise.

I would rethink your wording too. Specifically take out the bit about the update essentially being pointless. It also reads like bullet points but without the bullets; try some commas and other punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures are important on the profile as it gives the viewers an idea of what the person is like.

Similar to how you dress up on a night out or for a special occasion. Pictures are important as you are basically selling your self to other users out there.

No picture, no message !

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, I would never message an empty profile, I will rarely reply to one single pic unless it's a REALLY good one and there are more following. I like to see a range of pics on a profile, even if there is no face, as they say a picture paints a thousand words, and they tell me a lot about a person.

Oh, and a sideways pic will almost guarantee I will hit delete!! I will assume that person is too lazy or too stupid to get it turned round the right way, and either way I won't want them between my thighs!!

Sorry but it's a buyers market on here, so if women don't see what they want to see they will simply move on to the next profile!

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