FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting people

By *hatFellaNZ OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hey all,

I'm looking to meet new people but I see on lots of profiles that they'll only meet people who have been verified. Which is, cool, I get it! But at some point, everyone started on here - presumably without verified meets - so tell me, how the hell did you guys all do it??

My approach is just to message people I think I'd get along with, and while I appreciate that no-one owes me a reply, it feels like I'm doing something wrong here!!

Any advice/feedback welcomed and appreciated!

RJ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patients...and don't take everything so personal or have heart set on it. Enjoy the fun of trying to meet and be/or doing the seducing. Some times it happens some time it doesn't, but that is everything in life.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did I post that a zillion times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience perhaps

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By *obbieCMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

get to a club m8, it's the best way without doubt for a single guy to meet....good luck

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By *hatFellaNZ OP Man
over a year ago

London

Cheers for the responses guys, I appreciate it.

Patience wasn't ever really a strong suit, but good things take time, as they say!

Have had a look into some of these clubs too, gonna get amongst it! Thanks for the tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did I post that a zillion times."

And spell patience wrong every time lol!

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire

Try a social meet, less pressure on the recipient, kind of how it rolls at the moment! You'll do okay..

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By *hatFellaNZ OP Man
over a year ago

London

You reckon, MissTara??

I'm a pretty sociable fella, I should be OK! Thanking you.

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire

"You reckon, MissTara??

I'm a pretty sociable fella, I should be OK! Thanking you."

Just don't get pissed off with the time waster as it will happen. Happy swinging!

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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

As said earlier gi to a club - or party. You say you based in London so lots available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need to get verified then go on cam in chat rooms & ask to be webcam verified. Also you can upload a photo for verification. Those are the 2 quickest ways

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By *hatFellaNZ OP Man
over a year ago

London

Ahhh nice one, again, good tips, thanks everyone; I do appreciate it!

Cheers and beers to all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No disrepect meant but please get rid of that baseball cap. It isn't really appealing. x

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"No disrepect meant but please get rid of that baseball cap. It isn't really appealing. x"

Totally agree, makes you look like a proper chav....sorry

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By *hatFellaNZ OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No disrepect meant but please get rid of that baseball cap. It isn't really appealing. x

Totally agree, makes you look like a proper chav....sorry

I appreciate and respect your feedback ladies, I do. And if it's not your thing, that's totally cool.

But I like the caps and they're staying!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"No disrepect meant but please get rid of that baseball cap. It isn't really appealing. x

Totally agree, makes you look like a proper chav....sorry

I appreciate and respect your feedback ladies, I do. And if it's not your thing, that's totally cool.

But I like the caps and they're staying!"

Fair enough, totally your choice, but you DID ask for advice....

Good luck anyway

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

If you write a good mail,people will chat then maybe.If you send a poor message,no chance.

I have that rule but if they can impress me then you no what.

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

forget about getting verified, it doesnt help me at all, i get no messages or replies as im verified by photo and meet and i cant seem to get anywhere. it helps other people never me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"forget about getting verified, it doesnt help me at all, i get no messages or replies as im verified by photo and meet and i cant seem to get anywhere. it helps other people never me"

You have never messaged us or we would have at least replied. Probably not your type

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"forget about getting verified, it doesnt help me at all, i get no messages or replies as im verified by photo and meet and i cant seem to get anywhere. it helps other people never me"

The fact you are willing to do bareback will put a lot of people off.

If you send messages like your post (no capital letters or apostrophes) that won't help either.

Pics are ok though

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By *hatFellaNZ OP Man
over a year ago

London

Also, am I right in thinking that messaging someone who has recently viewed your profile (but hasn't messaged you) is a bit of a waste of time?

I mean, there was interest enough to check your profile out but not enough to message. That about right?

Anyone met up with another person in this circumstance?

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