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By *ontempo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Have spent all day reading forums,trying to get us our first meet,from what I have read I'm totally confused,but would seem that if you don't have meet veri then no one going meet us,we have done all we can on here,had faces on cam,photo verified,we just want to meet people and prove we not after cyber sex ,been caught out by that ourselves boo hoo,but we are new so our profile not been perfect have been updating as we learn,some of us are real newbies!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps expand your profile to say what you are looking for meet wise as it does read as though you are only really interested in camming.....

A few more photos may help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youll be confused as hell x just try stuff out n see what works for you x

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By *ontempo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks yes ,we have totally just realised that being on webcam not proving we serious about meeting,the problem with being new to this is we just want to meet people,don't have huge agenda,likes,dislikes have added some filters now so we are learning x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

But u r not new profile 10 months old people may think well not met upto now so not really into swinging

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By *ontempo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks lusty,we have learnt some things are not for us and are learning from some silly mistakes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think expanding your profile would be a start. Your pic is very sexy and a few more would help but beware of pic collectors.

Maybe say more of what your interested in and expect to gain from the site in both meets and chatting perpectives.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps don't show all 8 of the web cam verifications, just make a couple of the good ones public.

If there are profiles of people you like then don't be afraid to message them, if you sit back and wait for things to happen it may take longer than you would like.

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By *ontempo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Always I totally get what you saying,but thought spending time on chat,webcam ,getting verified etc was time well spent,have posted on forum today feeling quite deflated and had loads of good advicex

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By *ontempo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thankyou all,yes will take all that advice thankyou,and will be on forum lots more x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Veri's are not the be all and end all. Definitely reduce to just a few quality ones. You'll see we only have 5 or 6 on display though we've met more we don't hold a huge amount if faith Veri's so don't display them all.

On here you will have wade through a lot to get to the genuine quality meets you really want. You may want to consider a club. Meeting in person is Much easier and you can tell straight away if they are for you or not.

Pleasures is not far from you. There's also Eureka's. We've not been to either but heard good things of pleasures.

Our first choice was the vanilla alternative. A bit of journey for you guys but very much worth it. (We used to live your way when we first went)

Hope that helps you out.

Xx

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Always I totally get what you saying,but thought spending time on chat,webcam ,getting verified etc was time well spent,have posted on forum today feeling quite deflated and had loads of good advicex"

What part of Kent u guys from? Male was born and breed down there

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You only need one veri by meeting, I just look at the tick and don't often trawl through looking for details. You could go to a social - there's one in Sussex soon, there's Eurekas, Pleasures, abfabs/kestrels...be on the forums, go in chat and take time to get to know people. Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all had to start somewhere....

Just continue to message those that your interested in... Go to them don't wait for them to come to you.

Also I see Steve mentioned going to clubs, that could be a good starting point? Eurekas is a nice friendly club.

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