FabSwingers.com forum: settling in

By *ontempo OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Did anyone else feel unwelcome and hard to make friends on here at first,feel like the new kid at school trying to chat,make friends,be accepted. Any advice,experiences would love to hear from people please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did anyone else feel unwelcome and hard to make friends on here at first,feel like the new kid at school trying to chat,make friends,be accepted. Any advice,experiences would love to hear from people please"

This site is innindated with single males. Depends who you are trying to make friends with? Single females of decent quality get bombarded with messages so yours could easily be missed. My suggestion is post on the forums, don't give up and keep messaging. By the looks of it you're not doing that badly as I see you have had a few meets

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome, post away and join in. the forums change and it often in cycles.

on the whole it is a friendly place, it has it's moments but the posters change on a regular basis.

enjoy

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends how you mean about fitting in...some people will appeal to the masses, others less so, but you get out of this what you put in.

This site is just like a virtual club so there'll be some you'll want to chat to, others that you like to laugh at on the dance floor, others you'll want to take home and some that you'll wish you got away from before the lights came on

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. I was very welcomed and easy to make friends

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By *ontempo OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks for response,we haven't met anyone yet and not really too concerned about that,feel like it hard to just speak,chat to anyone,maybe like you said should have posted here ages ago x

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By *ontempo OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks jez that made me laugh,didn't think of it like thatx

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By *ontempo OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thankyou everyone xx

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

How true!!!!!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Thanks for response,we haven't met anyone yet and not really too concerned about that,feel like it hard to just speak,chat to anyone,maybe like you said should have posted here ages ago x"

Shift your arses into the Lounge and just join in.

It'll be like your own virtual club with all the characters youve just mentioned up there ^^^

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes it's hard to get past the initial messages. We've sent lengthy messages to people only to get a one word response and then the same again and these are often from couples who have initiated contact. You would think that standard conversation etiquette, if you wanted to keep it flowing, would be to respond to question and then ask a question and so on...we give people two messages and if they just message back but don't keep the conversation flowing we move on....they aren't going to be much fun in real life if they are hard work in the virtual world...plenty more fish and all that.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

From my experience it's about what you expect and some single males expect more than is possible lol. Making friends and having a dirty giggle is also fun worth finding.

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By *ontempo OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks everyone,feeling better already and really appreciate you all giving advice etc,wish I'd come here first x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I joined fab then forgot about it for about 6 months due to real life stuff, then came across my (exciting) username on my phone and joined in the forum after a few hours of lurking, reading posts and getting the feel of the place and the people therein. I've always been a confident writer so found it quite easy to leap in where angels may have feared to have trodden.

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By *ontempo OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Ty for all your help and advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geniune guy here more than happy to give advice and support xxc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not every one will be your cup of tea,

there are loads of peeps on here and im sure as we have you will find the right peeps that suit you it just takes a little time, enjoy your searching guys

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