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By *igeia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

I may need to visit my ex FWB this week to get my stuff back. We're still on friendly terms but I really want this to stay platonic. However, it's been a while so any reminders why I shouldn't relieve some frustrations while I'm there would be useful since I know he'll ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really have such little self control?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This sounds more like an ex-boyfriend than an ex fwb.

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By *igeia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have plenty of self control but I want to be able to turn him down without hurting his feelings since we're just getting our friendship back on track. Since the stuff I need to pick up includes a lot of toys and lingerie it makes the situation a little more awkward!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I may need to visit my ex FWB this week to get my stuff back. We're still on friendly terms but I really want this to stay platonic. However, it's been a while so any reminders why I shouldn't relieve some frustrations while I'm there would be useful since I know he'll ask."

You said it yourself really, you want it to remain platonic, why would you jeopardise that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a man with a van to get your stuff from your friends house.£25 and temptation sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps put you off having a 24 hour orgasmically wonderful and ecstasy releasing wild abandoning fuckathon...I hereby order you to take photos of the whole thing and post them to me in your cum soaked knickers

There that should put you off a bit lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have plenty of self control but I want to be able to turn him down without hurting his feelings since we're just getting our friendship back on track. Since the stuff I need to pick up includes a lot of toys and lingerie it makes the situation a little more awkward!"

That is a slightly different version to yoru original post though. You said it's been a while how could you avoid temptation, now you say you want to avoid hurting his feelings. Whatever the case, remain business like, collect your stuff and leave. If he asks you to have sex with him say no thank you and remind him that your relationship is now platonic.

Or shag him senseless

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am here to collect my things, I don't want sex whilst I am here

thank you very much and all the best

and leave...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I am here to collect my things, I don't want sex whilst I am here

thank you very much and all the best

and leave..."

ok View but I didn't realise you had anything here

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am here to collect my things, I don't want sex whilst I am here

thank you very much and all the best

and leave...

ok View but I didn't realise you had anything here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take someone with you x

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By *igeia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

All good advice. I shall man up and pack up. I meant it's been a while generally, by the way, rather than a while since I was with him. I shall remain well within the boundaries of the friend zone at all times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't shave your legs or bikini line...I wouldn't let anyone near me if I was stubbly!

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By *igeia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Don't shave your legs or bikini line...I wouldn't let anyone near me if I was stubbly! "

I have arranged my waxing appointment for the day after for this very reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time of the month ??? Only a little fib .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Surely just remind yourself why he is an ex Feb? If you were still wanting sex from him you would be getting it right?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Fwb

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

sounds like a heavy fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may need to visit my ex FWB this week to get my stuff back. We're still on friendly terms but I really want this to stay platonic. However, it's been a while so any reminders why I shouldn't relieve some frustrations while I'm there would be useful since I know he'll ask."

This maybe a silly question but can you take a friend with you. ? Obviously someone who knows about your fab lifestyle then he can't persuade you. I'm not saying you will give in as I don't know you but I can guess it wouldn't be easy

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Surely just remind yourself why he is an ex Feb? If you were still wanting sex from him you would be getting it right?"

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

remember, a ex is a ex for a reason!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I may need to visit my ex FWB this week to get my stuff back. We're still on friendly terms but I really want this to stay platonic. However, it's been a while so any reminders why I shouldn't relieve some frustrations while I'm there would be useful since I know he'll ask."

Take a friend - or organise a night of wild passion for the day before!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

go in, get your stuff, say a happy hello and leave. Say you'll be in touch - peck on the cheek as you go out the door.

Not difficult.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"remember, a ex is a ex for a reason! "

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